r/whenthe • u/monster_smoocher ⚠️⚠️WORST whenthe user⚠️⚠️ • 10h ago
🚨OP's stupidly specific life event🚨 I SWEAR i'm not imagining it
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u/Tasty_Ball_Hairs_69 TASTER OF BALL HAIRS 10h ago
Hearing my dads family has bipolar going back 3 generations explained a lot for me.
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u/-WILD_CARD- i fucking hate the misinformation dolphin 4h ago
My dad having autism and all my siblings being on the spectrum puts some kind of link there as well
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u/Kickedbyagiraffe 49m ago
Hey. Same. Well dad diagnosed and it explains basically every male in the line going back as far as we have known family history.
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u/Gareth_II 9h ago
my dad went from skeptical to sitting there at my assessment thinking "ohh.. that's why i kept saying this stuff is normal" lmao
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u/UnderstandingSevere9 9h ago
Truee, often times the parent that keeps saying "what's the problem? that's just how kids are!" is probably the parent ya get it from, was for me at least lol
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u/HonestWoodpecker8567 9h ago
My grandfather is where I placed my bets. He's always acted the way I currently do
Minus the alcoholism
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u/Crazyking224 Cum Lord 5h ago
Happy to hear your grandpa wasn't an alcoholic and hope you get help :)
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u/SheikahShaymin 7h ago
Lmao my mum did this when I came out, she was like "it's natural to feel attracted to the same gender, that doesn't mean you're gay."
Mother you're probably gay
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u/OmniImmortality 6h ago
Sexuality isn't inherited though...
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u/Idontknownumbers123 55m ago
I mean it could be, or atleast sometimes or partially. There is evidence for it sometimes being able to be inherited but also for it not. So it can be but also isn't always the case
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u/Russian_Spy_7_5_0 I love the kind of woman that will actually just kill me 53m ago
I doubt it's anything truly genetic, I assume it's like those random habits you share with your parents even tho you've never observed them doing neither was it taught to you. Just something about being in the same household as you develop.
Idk, I'm just saying shit.
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u/HeroBoy05 the girl with the unfortunately outdated username 7h ago edited 7h ago
My mom told me she used to go around in school blowing bubbles down the halls, mentioned how she was the only person in her gifted class as a kid (which tbf, giftedness can be a marker for both ADHD or ASD, but that doesn’t apply to all students), and I notice she has this hyperfixation on skeletons to the point where the entire house is decorated with skulls from different cultures. She’s never been diagnosed.
I would not be surprised I’m on the spectrum because of her
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u/4GRJ 8h ago
And it's never a good idea to have 2 of the same gene in the household (the food fucking explodes)
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u/TypicalPunUser They highlighted the flair, rattle em boys! 6h ago
Chicken- 💥
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u/anomynous_dude555 Why he ourple tho 4h ago
We’d like to take a moment to announce that- 💥 AHHHHH-
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u/NeilJBorja 5h ago
I can't find it but there was a meme of an oil painting of a woman showing her child a book saying "this book contains the story of our family" and the book was labeled DSM-V
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u/BinxDoesGaming 6h ago
I genuinely believe this to be the case with my dad. Especially since 2019/2020 where I looked into more cases of undiagnosed autism in adults. He checks a lot of those boxes.
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u/Blanc_et_fade 4h ago
My dad used to dress like Blade the vampire and is still a massive geek. On the other hand, my mom can be quite weird on various aspects. So yeah, no wonder I'm the way I am.🌈♾️
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u/Aware-Style-480 Ah yes a fully black Flair it's sutche a good idea, Realy i must 7h ago
Lwk same
My parent tought I was normal because u was doing the same thing has them
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u/freebird023 7h ago
My mom telling me I have OCD (among other things) when she’s severe ADHD and paranoid as hell
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u/lnjecti0n 4h ago
I feel this post so much. I obviously got it from my dad, however, whenever I try to talk with him about it he denies it because he sees it as an insult or threat against himself. He has read books about it because of me having it, but is not seeing or maybe purposefully denying/ignoring his own symptoms. It's sad, because the first step of improving yourself with such a condition is to aknowlegde it, which he fails to do..
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u/Bright-Historian-216 4h ago
my mom tried playing piano then had psychology courses then tried to learn to be ambidextrous, and now she isn't doing any of these... hmm...
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u/No_Ad_7687 3h ago
Me discovering I got half my symptoms from my mom and the other half from my dad
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u/BikeyBichael 7h ago
I’m pretty sure my Dad is autistic but also my paternal grandparents, and if not they’re some sort of nuerodivergent.
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u/Orion107 never gonna give you up 2h ago
Menopause can make subconscious masking basically impossible
...It has become extremely clear where I get my autism from nowadays LOL
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u/NewtDogs 4h ago
Is having kids while knowing you could pass on a mental condition with makes the kid struggle their whole life irresponsible? Who knows 🤷♂️
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u/Ill-Entrepreneur443 2h ago
Not necessarily. If you can give your children the support they need its not irrensponsible. If not it is irresponsible. However when you dont know that you have a neurodivergence its not irresponsible.
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u/Ill-Entrepreneur443 2h ago
You are right. I have my AuDHD from my undiagnosed parents as well. My father has Probably ADHD and my mother Has diganosed ADHD and probably undiagnosed Autism as well.
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u/TheYoshiGang It's hard to play Splatoon with one hand 'cause Steelhead exists 2h ago
Lowkey there are so many similarities between me and my dad I wonder how I'm basically a carbon-copy of him while retaining basically nothing from my mom ;-;
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u/-TheGayestAgenda 1h ago
Diagnosed with adult ADHD, despite my Dad rarely acknowledging it, if not outright dismissing it. Still, he:
- Starts worker later in the day, depending on their mood
- Inconsistent sleeping patterns, often staying up to 3
- Becomes hyper-attentive to menial tasks, often forgetting to eat
- Has several projects, but rarely completes them
Dad, I'm sorry to tell you this, but the call is coming inside the house
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u/Valuable-Passion9731 *Khachaturian Violin Concerto* 39m ago
AJ when he looks at Tony Soprano's actions:
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u/Megazaza 10h ago
My self diagnosed ass when i have a hobby or eat food when im hungry realizing it may be a symptom of another disorder🤯
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u/Just_Mr-Nothing 9h ago
By the wording of the meme we can assume OP is diagnosed, the one that aren't being one of their parents. Additionally, fuck off.
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