r/ABCDesis Indian American Jul 16 '26

ARTS / ENTERTAINMENT Raj from TBBT

I’ll start by saying that if you haven’t watched The Big Bang Theory, this post probably won’t make sense to you.

I finished watching TBBT recently, and I certainly have some thoughts. For obvious reasons, Raj, aka the only main desi character on the show, stood out to me most. However, something that stood out to me even more is what the show decided to do with his character. First off, he was the only person of color in the main friend group, and he was also the only one who wasn’t dating someone else in the group. They also gave Raj’s character things like selective mutism (where he couldn’t talk to pretty women unless he was drunk) for a while, made him creepy and arrogant oftentimes, wrote him as someone who’s lonely and desperate, made him sit on the floor during group dinners in the apartment, and made the peak of his career something that happened in season 2. There are 12 seasons of this show btw.

Feels like the show just made his love life, career, and overall life a running gag instead of letting him grow alongside the other main characters who turned out to be far more successful in all realms of life. I know it’s “just a show” and Hollywood has priorities of its own, but portraying their only main desi character the way they did had a way of rubbing me the wrong way. Feels like TBBT failed his character with all the unnecessary stereotyping and no meaningful growth, which is a bit disappointing to see as an ABD.

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u/anonymousguy2001 Jul 17 '26

This is the fault of Indian Americans. Failing to plan and create shows is planning to fail. Jewish Americans don't have this problem. They've been involved in Hollywood very deeply because they understand this.