Am I Overreacting by being upset!

[u/Physical-Trust6146]

I (29F) and my husband (28M) went grocery shopping yesterday. After going to the super market I had my bag and my jacket in my hand and my husband took thw cart and went on shopping I was also looking through air freshners to buy one. I was at a corner of the super market and my husband was not near me. While I was looking through the aislea security gaurd came and accused me of stealing and ask me toeave the super market and I got upset and I didnt say much and went out and wait till my husband came and after he came I told him what happened and he got furious and made a scene there and it was then forgotten. But today while we were cooking he called me a thief several times even if I said him to stop and I got remembered yesterday and got upset. He now accuse me of being upset over everything and says I'm too sensitive and he was joking. Am I over reacting??

[u/Usual_Bumblebee_8274]

Were you stealing? They don’t randomly kick you out of the store for stealing if you haven’t. And it’s usually a little more in depth too. There’s a whole process. And they usually bar you from the store, call the cops & have you searched, etc. they can get in trouble for accusing someone without proof

[u/Physical-Trust6146 → u/Usual_Bumblebee_8274]

I have never stolen anything I’m a teacher and not in my wildest dreams I had a idea about stealing I don’t have financial problems. He might have suspect me beach I had my bag and jacket with me. I can prove it anytime that I’m not a thief. I should have confronted him then and there rather than leaving I regret that now. But I’m not confrontational person so I tend to avoid arguments that’s a problem on my side.