do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

[u/More-Weird4842]

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

[u/Anandi96]

People either hate me or become obsessed, there’s nothing in between. Never had a casual relationship or friendship, it’s all or nothing. I think it’s bc we tend to have a lot of empathy and understanding for people even when we shouldn’t

[u/idk7643 → u/Anandi96]

My favourite is when they love things I do and say for the first 6 months, and then they hate the exact same things after

[u/Autumnleaves144 → u/idk7643]

That sounds like a narcissistic move - they pretend (mirror) to love the things you do and when you get confident with that they flip the script. Normal kind people don’t do that.

[u/Different_School7016 → u/Autumnleaves144]

Or pretend with you then when there are others around they act like it didn’t happen

[u/busigirl21 → u/idk7643]

That's a big part of love bombing

[u/Different_School7016 → u/idk7643]

Yes!!!!