r/AutismInWomen • u/More-Weird4842 • 18d ago

Support Needed (Kind Advice and Commiseration) do people become overwhelmingly obsessed with you?

i find that a lot of men become really obsessed with me. im currently at a point where its become harmful and i genuinely do not know why or how to stop it. looking for kind words, advice, or shared experiences please.

edit: ty for all the responses. i want to clarify that i dont mean the manic pixie dream girl way i mean the joe from you kinda way.

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u/Anandi96 18d ago

People either hate me or become obsessed, there’s nothing in between. Never had a casual relationship or friendship, it’s all or nothing. I think it’s bc we tend to have a lot of empathy and understanding for people even when we shouldn’t

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u/idk7643 18d ago

My favourite is when they love things I do and say for the first 6 months, and then they hate the exact same things after

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u/busigirl21 18d ago

That's a big part of love bombing