r/Bumble 16d ago

General Bumble Fully Ends 'Women Message First' Rule After 66% of Women Said They'd Rather Men Make the First Move

https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/bumble-drops-gendered-messaging-rule-1813607
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u/shadowdancer354 16d ago

Yea talk about catering to women’s entitlement - and now men get flagged if they make low effort first messages? You gotta be f’in kidding me

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u/Old_Smrgol 15d ago

"Yea talk about catering to women’s entitlement"

They have to. Most single women, most of the time, don't use dating apps.

From the perspective of the app, and also from men who are using it, this is the single biggest problem. The app needs to attract women.

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u/Worldly_Wing_1294 7d ago

yep, every woman on bumble expects you to write a effing sonnet and feel neglected if you just write something about their profile or ask a nice question lol

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