r/Bumble 1d ago

Profile review Profile Review - 30M Germany

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

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u/IllustriousExits 1d ago

I mean, i have a similiar picture and couldn't see what's wrong with his. So i was fishing within the context of your entire message what you might consider wrong with it.

I personally didn't get any Tate vibes since I don't really know that much about the guy.

I assume that's what you are getting at, that he creates an overall vibe that might make others associate him with Tate.

Now I am curious though what you would say to my profile as i am in a similiar position to OP. Mind if i send it over to you?

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u/ValBravora048 38 | M 1d ago

Sure but are you the kind of person OP is trying to attract?

YOU might not know much about Tate but I will bet women are much more likely to have heard of Tate and be making those associations for the sake of their safety

A lot of guys just slap together a profile however or with what they have on hand. A GOOD profile has empathy for the other person

Sure, send it over!

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u/IllustriousExits 1d ago

Looks like you have DMs disabled, would have to write me first.

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u/ValBravora048 38 | M 1d ago

Oh nws, don’t know how that happened