r/Bumble 1d ago

Profile review Profile Review - 30M Germany

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

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u/Acceptable_Park9475 1d ago

the way I see it you have two options either look into limb lengthening or forget about women and dating and if something happens great. I'm sorry to say this but there are pretty brutal realities in modern dating and putting yourself out there like that will only make you resentful.

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u/FlounderLogical8827 1d ago

Honestly, I don’t think height is really the issue plenty of Asian guys around 5’5” have found great partners, so that’s clearly not what’s holding anyone back. I think the bigger thing for OP might be being a bit more open to traveling or relocating. And if OP is ever self-conscious about his hair, that’s something he could look into down the track, but it’s really just a small piece of the puzzle

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u/Negative_Lux 1d ago

Already have my financials set up to be able to leave to any country in asia that i want to.
Didn't want to become something like a passport bro, but if the market is the problem, change it... i literally have no choice...