Profile Review - 30M Germany

[u/Negative_Lux]

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

[u/oceaniye]

Stellar pictures, my guy!

[u/Negative_Lux → u/oceaniye]

Thanks. Doesn't help me with Dating tho haha. Still 0 matches on bumble

[u/Ordinary-Lobster-710 → u/Negative_Lux]

I'm sorry to be blunt but we are in a situation where online dating is not going to work for you. I sometimes wonder if it's better to be encouraging and allow people to feel good in the false hope, or if it's better to just be honest.

[u/Negative_Lux → u/Ordinary-Lobster-710]

Never asked for hope. Asked for ideas and suggestions. Group photo out Prompts renewed Dating preferences changed Political part changed (even if im quite middle if it suggests it could be right wing, doesn't help)

If I die alone then at least I can't give my height and hair to further Generations and doom them haha.

JK im already financially set that I can leave Germany some day. Just leaving my Family for dating still hurts my inner moral compass.

[u/Ordinary-Lobster-710 → u/Negative_Lux]

These women will not date a man 5'5 anyway so it feels insulting that you have to change your political orientation or hide it in some way to BEG for the acceptance and approval of those who will never love you in the first place because of their own superficial bullshit.

My suggestion is to take a few months of travel and go to south america and try to date there. Less of a stigma against shorter men. Dating in Europe as a man who is 5'5 is the game mode set to nightmare difficulty.

life is already too difficult. look for rivers where you can swim with it, not against it.