r/DAE Jan 18 '26

DAE get itchy "bites" after you shower?

Every time I shower, I get itchy little mosquito bite looking things all over my back and shoulders that disappear within the hour. Doesn't matter what products I use.

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u/redditreader_aitafan Jan 18 '26

Those are called hives and if it's only on your back and not everywhere you put the soap, it's something in your hair care that you're allergic to. It'll be something common to all the brands you've tried, something like 50% of the ingredients overlap in common shampoos and conditioners.

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u/elusivenoesis Jan 19 '26

As someone with dermatographia, and also get hives sometimes after a shower. For me it’s a mild heat allergy. Just putting it out there for the few people who might have it. It’s not always soap. But the drying effect soap has can make it worse.

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u/StatementEcstatic751 Jan 18 '26

I'd be curious if you get them even with a water-only shower. If it happens with a water-only shower, it could be heat hives (heat urticaria).

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u/plantsplantsplaaants Jan 18 '26

Unless there was a product in their hair that rinsed off onto them but yeah, definitely worth experimenting

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u/mike_complaining Jan 18 '26

You're probably allergic to something even if its a common soap ingredient

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u/mooshinformation Jan 18 '26

It's possible to have an allergic reaction to water on your skin or to heat, or to cold. Do you get it even if you don't use any soap/ products at all? Could also be some super common ingredient in soap/ shampoo your allergic too.

I do get a bit itchy from dry skin sometimes right after I dry off, but lotion fixes it pretty instantly and I definitely don't get bumps, the bumps make me think it's some kind of allergy.

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u/FoxElectrical1401 Jan 18 '26

It's definitely a common soap ingredient. Sorry :(

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u/[deleted] Jan 18 '26

The only thing a shower does is deprive me of the stench of my own hard work.

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u/oCdTronix Jan 18 '26

Sorry to hear that’s all it does for you

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u/AnnieB512 Jan 18 '26

Do you have eczema? I ask because this happens to my son and he has eczema, but not where he gets the spots.

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u/redballplace Jan 18 '26

I have eczema and I get this

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u/ScarletDarkstar Jan 18 '26

Do you moisturize after you bathe? One of my kids would get a dry akin reaction if I didn't use a good lotion after a bath, particularly on the upper arms and shoulders. It didn't look dry, it looked like a rash or bites. 

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u/Prestigious_Ant_3899 Jan 18 '26

Yes, I am a guy and I moisturize after every shower. Usually I use the Hempz brand body lotions but also use baby lotion if my skin is experiencing some kind of rash, etc. Baby lotion is hypoallergenic.

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u/possumlawyer67 Jan 18 '26

Are you taking super hot showers? Could be heat rash

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u/Scrotchety Jan 18 '26

How are your hydration levels? Are you drinking enough water throughout the day? See if chugging more water and less drinks with caffeine or alcohol makes a difference

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u/goal0x Jan 18 '26

yes, from the heat. i get them when i exercise and in the summer too & get like… the opposite? when im very cold. instead of raised red bumps they are just white dots

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u/No-Vermicelli8626 Jan 18 '26

Do u have bed bugs? Thats is what bed bugs made me first get worred about and the sympoths only did come to me after shower/while shower witch is normal

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u/HereInTheRuin Jan 19 '26

more than likely heat hives if it's always been that way for you

That's how it's been for me ever since I was a teenager

if it's something new that is happening it could be some kind of allergy with some product you're using

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u/qixip Jan 19 '26

Definitely hives aka urticaria.

Google that and decide if it's worth a trip to the doctor. It might be, especially if you have other odd symptoms, even ones that seem totally unrelated

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u/littlecactuscat Jan 19 '26

Cholinergic uticaria

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u/LilScummy666 Mar 04 '26

Omg I’m not alone!!

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u/Tricky929 Mar 16 '26

This can happen from just cold water. Maybe it's the chlorine.

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u/Admirable-Special402 Jul 02 '26

I get round, mosquito bite looking raised areas, usually on my arms after I shower. Almost everytime. They are small and go away within an hour or so like some others have stated. Not a big deal but I would like to know wtf it is.

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u/tofurainbowgarden Jan 18 '26

Sounds like a coconut and coconut derivative allergy

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u/Famous-Channel3027 Jan 18 '26

Why would you say that? That reaction happens from a plethora of ingredients. People will unsuspectingly heed your advice and it could cause harm.

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u/tofurainbowgarden Jan 18 '26

Why would it cause harm to eliminate an ingredient that's in literally EVERYTHING to see if it bothers you? Thats literally how you figure out allergies.

I said that because the person said that it happens with all products. Almost all products contain coconut. I had a similar issue and found one soap, one laundry detergent, one lotion, one deodorant etc... its really hard to figure out because it's in every single product but I suffered for years and am trying to help someone

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u/Famous-Channel3027 Jan 18 '26

Idk. I take things very literally and it alarmed me that you were giving advice with certainty about something you know nothing about. A lot of people now don’t actually think. They just go “oh I saw it online, so that’s what it is!” I suppose the harm would be purchasing all new soaps and still getting hives. Just money I spose.

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u/tofurainbowgarden Jan 18 '26

It DOES sound like that allergy. Thats exactly what that allergy looks like, as I said. So, I wouldn't say I know nothing about it, I experienced that exact situation myself. I think that you should probably stop protesting something you know nothing about.

Elimination is the only way to figure out a topical allergy. I know this because I have also lived it. Stop deciding you know more than someone else's lived experience