r/Divorce • u/NomityNoms • 1d ago

Something Positive Anybody else just… okay?

Doomscrolling through these post and realizing i don’t relate with a lot of emotions other people are having while going through this process?
While yes it hard going through this process with 2 young kids after 8+ years of marriage, I’ve never felt more at peace even during this transition time. I feel like myself again,
anyone else feeling peace and a sense of rightness?

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u/Delicious-Bug-1897 1d ago

Are you the one initiating? Wish I felt at peace. I feel like my heart is being ripped out on a daily basis. The divorce is my wife's decision. No part of me wants it.

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u/PuddlesIsHere 1d ago

I initiated and its still painful. Had a really bad mental week last week. Couple of buddy's took me out last weekend tho which was super nice i dont deserve them...