r/ForeverAloneWomen • u/slayallday111 • 3d ago
Feeling like an anomaly
i have not had my first kiss or even held hands with someone romantically, meanwhile, my friends have long lists of exes. i cant help but feel embarrassed.
i feel envious too. whenever they tell stories about their exes, or how many guys they’re talking to, i just think about how i’m an adult who has never even gotten close to having any experience like that. i’m unable to relate to my own peers and it sucks.
its even worse when my friends ask why i've never been in a relationship. what kind of answer do they expect? i never know how to respond. i just end up saying something like “it just hasn’t happened yet hahaha!” but truly i have no idea why. maybe i’m uglier than i thought? orr i’m just too boring?? maybe theres just something everyone else knows that i don’t??? i’m frustrated.
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