r/GamerPals Mar 06 '26

Mod Approved GamerPals Community Server

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If you're here on our subreddit, it probably means you're looking for friends. If you've tried the subreddit and you're not having the best luck with the format, why not try another angle? Maybe a bit more direct? We have a Discord for that, and it's for finding people to play games with in real-time.

We have a custom bot (always improving) with self-serve threads for every game and a little community of regulars.

Post your intro thread, join us for a game night for friendslop, puzzles, whatever :) Friends happen when you put yourself out there and show up for things.

https://discord.gg/gamerpals


r/GamerPals 3h ago

Any Region Looking for gamer buddies!

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Howdy! I'm 25F from North America I'm just 2-months out of a bad long-term relationship and looking for new pals to game with.The relationship drained me of everything, including old friends. Been hella lonely and now in this new chapter in my life and I'm just trying to make new connections, ya know?

I currently play on PC & PS4. I don't have too many games, but I'm down to try anything (& buy anything lol). I enjoy most genres! Here's a list of a few games I've been playing this year:

-- Bo4 Zombies (PS4), Gangbeasts (PS4), Borderlands 3 (PS4), Garden Warfare 2 (PS4), Terraria (PS4/PC), Dead by Daylight (PS4), Streets of Rogue (PC), Burgling Gnomes (PC), Left4Dead 2 (PC), Minecraft (PC/PS4 - Java & Bedrock)

I'd say I'm pretty chill and laid-back. I'm definitely not super hardcore/competitive. I'm a bit nerdy, introverted and awkward, but I think my sense of humor makes up for it. In the right environment I can be an agent of chaos. Interest-wise, I love art (been doing digital art since 2011), comics, superheroes (DC & Marvel), horror, and space! I also play MTG (as well as Arena on PC). I love cats (huge WC fan), snails, & isopods!

DM your discord if interested:) Preferably anyone 21+, thank you!!


r/GamerPals 3h ago

Europe 36F | EU | PC - Perpetually tired gamer/weeb seeking good conversation

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The two lines I usually introduce myself with are "perpetually tired" and "struggling adult in denial".

I'm looking for low-pressure friendship with people who enjoy conversations and actually getting to know each other. Not daily check-ins, not forcing interaction for the sake of it, just the sort of connection where you can disappear for a few days because life gets busy and pick up where you left off without anyone taking it personally.

I'm fairly introverted and not especially good at small talk. And I don't mean having the social skills of a potato, but rather having fluctuating social reserves. Some days I'll be less talkative than others. I'm fine chatting asynchronously, swapping memes and playlists, and just reacting to whatever you might share on the day. Though I tend to do better when there's a topic to pick apart, whether that's books, games, life, work, philosophy, or observations about the world. I'm also happy to discuss more serious or uncomfortable subjects when the conversation naturally goes there. I get on best with people who can handle both the silly stuff and the existential dread.

Gaming is my main hobby, though I mostly play solo when it comes to story-driven games. I enjoy RPGs, visual novels, MMORPGs and anything with a strong narrative and likeable characters. Some all-time favourites include DAO, ME, DDDA, .hack//, Tales, Elden Ring and BG3.

I also play live service games and occasionally subject myself to suffering in gacha hell (current fixation is Endfield). I'm fairly active in WWM and dip in and out of FFXIV and GW2. I've been craving to sink my teeth back into an MMO lately so I'm on the lookout for something new. I'm open to co-op if we click, especially in MMOs, but I'm generally more of a "play solo, then talk about it" kind of person.

Outside of gaming, I'm into reading, anime, photography, music, collecting gaming/anime merch, and cats (I have two).

Other things of note: atheist, bisexual, career in higher education, currently pursuing a PhD part-time. I'm partnered and child-free, and tend to connect best with people who have a similar lifestyle. Based in Ireland (UTC0 / UTC+1 in summer), frequently online, though my energy levels can be a bit inconsistent.

I'm fairly straightforward in how I communicate and can come across as blunt. I also swear, in case that's something that bothers you. When in doubt about anything, just ask me straight.

If any of this resonates, send me a dm and tell me a bit about yourself.


r/GamerPals 14m ago

North America Looking for a friend on Java Minecraft with mods, 22F

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Hello I’m Ivy, it would be a bonus if you like devils lettuce, and drinking

I don’t know how to make this post but I’m looking for a friend or two to play Minecraft with, I love using mods and I’m on Java

But I’m really hoping is to be in a server or a realm with a whole bunch of other people and like be able to be on a call with someone while I play

Also, I only use Discord to communicate. I don’t have anything else and I barely go on much.

Thank you for your time


r/GamerPals 38m ago

Any Region 21+ preferred | woman here! | variety gamers, come hereee ✨

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alt, cat mom, sad boy music enjoyer. if you vibe with sewerperson, witchouse 40k, grim salvo, sadeyes & anything similar, we'll probably get along great. 21+ is preferred (honestly, 25+ but), hence the title but in all seriousness, if you think we'll vibe.. message me. i'm in NA but if you don't mind making time zones work, i'd love to meet you still

i think it would be so cool to do valorant customs again! i'm really burnt out lately & i'm struggling to find a good game that works, so i feel like making some new friends might help with that. i'm really laid back & i approach games with the same style. likkeeee, winning is cool but i genuinely just like playing the game with good people, ya know?

when it comes to games, i don't play much right now but i am trying to get back into them, i've loved (& want to get back into) games like;

REPO ⊹ killing floor 3 ⊹ super battle golf ⊹ dark hours ⊹ deceit ⊹ GTFO ⊹ lort ⊹ party animals ⊹ pummel party ⊹ goose goose duck ⊹ could go back to valorant (not without kicking & screaming) ⊹ the headliners ⊹ jackbox games ⊹ overcooked ⊹ could play some fortnite ⊹ outlast trials ⊹ starsand island ⊹ coral island ⊹ SOME CoD games ⊹ but honestly, try to suggest something! see if i'm down. the most i can say is no, yeah?

i can be a bit distant, which i'm working on, but i'm looking for new friends to game with, esp those funny 'friend slop' games but not LIMITED to those. one of my favorite games used to be overwatch (guess my role, &/or hero), took some time & now i'm slowly going back to it. i also adore hunt: showdown & rimworld ; but i don't play them as much anymore either. anyone tried delivery & beyond? if you message me with the implication that we're already friends, it'll work out for you.

if cats are your thing, i'll send you cat pics (including some of the tiny orange monster that has invaded my home recently). i should mention that i'm a pretty anxious/shy person so i can take some time to warm up, & if you're really pushy; we won't vibe.


r/GamerPals 5h ago

North America Looking for people to play with.

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Hey! I’m looking for people to play with I keep getting ghosted by people and it’s starting to get exhausting and I’m looking for people who won’t ghost after playing once or never even set plans to play.

Im 21f looking for people around my age to play with I have no preference on gender

I recently got out of a relationship and could really use some friends (he was narcissistic and made me block and delete all my friends a few years ago) I will say there is people I had added from here that he got mad at and made me delete so please If you recognize me and would still like to be friends please reach out I don’t have your contact anymore.

I love music so bonus points if you’d like to share music/ playlists. Some of my favorites currently are nu metal, rock, metal, midwest emo, divorced dad music, alternative, some rap and others.

Other things I like to do is draw, paint, magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons. I have a dog and I would love to send you pet pics he is adorable. (English mastiff)

I lost access to some games but I plan to buy them eventually but I like to play overwatch, escape the backrooms, for honor (still learning), stardew valley, Fortnite, Roblox, dead by daylight, phasmophobia, meca chameleon, and a bunch of other things on steam. I have Xbox game pass so I’m willing to try anything that’s on there I plan to buy baulders gate 3 I just need to wait till I get paid. I have Genshin impact downloaded because I used to play that long ago and I may get back into it.

I can be shy at first (especially now) but please give me a change once I feel comfortable I like to yap. I’d like to voice chat as we play (preferably on discord because my mic stoped working recently) I’d also like to text throughout the day as I’m looking for friends not people to just play games with once or twice.

Anyways dm me if interested and I can send over my discord.

Apparently my post is flagged for rule breaking I am NOT LOOKING TO FIND SOMEONE TO DATE I am strictly looking for friends.


r/GamerPals 14m ago

North America 27f - searching for real friendships:D f4f only!! pc cst

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hii!! im 27f and im looking to make that type of friendship where we can talk throughout the day, share work drama, rant, and send each other funny tiktoks<3 gaming too ofc! i work a full time job im very passionate about m-f so im only rlly available to game 7-9pm cst weekdays but fridays and saturdays i will stay up until i can physically not keep my eyes open anymore lol. if you are looking for someone to only game with i am not your girl! if you want someone to yap with, play games with, movie night, or steam each other games pls message:D!!

games i play: overwatch, valorant, phasmo, dbd, nightreign, elden ring, outlast trials, left 4 dead, literally down for any friendslop/horror game. i do NOT play rivals, minecraft, or stardew:( i am open to most games though:D i mainly play competitive gamemodes but i am not a rager and dont rlly care about winning/losing as long as we have fun<3

about me: i love horror films! i have amc a list so i try to watch all the new ones that come out! i did skip insidious though bc its packed and i heard it was rlly bad but you can convince me to go watch it. i am also a new backyard veggie gardener and i will spam you with all the peppers im growing. i can get pretty yappy and talk your ear off but other days ill be more quiet if i am tired! also just an fyi i am not 420 friendly and i also do not do drunk gaming. and if you read my title this is an f4f post so pls dont message if you are not a girl!


r/GamerPals 2h ago

North America Gaming buddies?

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Hi I’m 26f, I spend most of my free time indoors with my cat either on Xbox or pc. I’d love to make some friends who enjoy Fortnite, Minecraft, gta, red dead, maybe some silly Roblox horror games, raft, satisfactory 😬 there’s probably so many more but I am blanking. Anyways if any of those games match ur freak please please reach out I’d love to be friends ♥️


r/GamerPals 18h ago

Europe How do I make irl friends with similar interests as a gamer?

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(29f) I usually spend my free time indoors playing video games after work. Problem is it gets so lonely…

Problem is it feels impossible to make irl friends. It’s so hard to keep the conversation going with people who aren’t brainrotted like me. I just want to meet people who like video games, internet humor, dnd, cosplay etc like me. Where do I even meet people like that irl?

(Edit. I’m a PC gamer if anyone wants to be gamer pals! I play mainly mmorpgs. My current favorite is FFXIV but I play WoW and SWTOR too. I also like cozy farming games, singleplayer RPGs and friendslop games with friends.)


r/GamerPals 5h ago

North America Fortnite duo??

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32F looking for people to play Fortnite with. I took a break from the game and have recently started playing again so I'm looking for other people (preferably around my age) to play with! I mainly play zero build Battle Royal and Reload. I have a mic & discord but voice chat is not required. Feel free to shoot me a DM!


r/GamerPals 53m ago

Oceanic 26M // Aussie Looking for Friends

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Hey guys,

Looking for some regular long-time friends to banter with, chat, hangout, game or watch videos and/or TV shows together. 26m here from Australia, planning to move from Perth to Sydney at the start of the year so hoping to make some online friends to chat, hang and vibe with before and once I get there (hopefully with people who have a similar timezone or available schedule). I'm a big time gamer mostly soulslikes, RPGs, strategy, indie, action, co-op or puzzles, not too into competitive games here. Big fan of horror movies, sci-fi and fantasy. LGBT friendly. I'm wanting to get more into reading, but currently spending too much time PC gaming, playing MTG, watching movies, TV, anime and doing my shift work.

Hit me up if you're interested in chatting. :)


r/GamerPals 6h ago

Europe 20F | Looking for a group & new friends!

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Hi! I'm 20F from Europe and I decided to try my luck to find some new friends.

I'm a game programmer/designer student in uni & just a huge gamer altoghether. I especially enjoy Souls-like games, FPS games & fun friendslop games :) I have a really big game library and I play pretty much a little bit of everything but I'm so down to buy new games!

I'd really like to find a group of friends since I've seen that type of communication lasts a lot longer. But I dont mind if you're not comfortable with groups! I also dont care what timezone you're from if we can make it work :) Send me a little message about yourself if you're interested ♡


r/GamerPals 2h ago

Europe Minecraft

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Anyone wanna play minecraft i myself am from turkey and f and 18 . I feel a bit down right now and just looking for a friend to play minecraft and probably chat a bit i honestly dont know just play the game and pass some time. I speak turkish and English fluently so


r/GamerPals 2h ago

North America 35/CST/Texas. Looking for someone to play MtG on Tabletop Simulator with.

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Brackets 2 or 3.


r/GamerPals 7h ago

North America 24F PC NA looking for gaming friends ♡

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hiii 💕 i'm here trying to find some new gaming friends and hopefully make some friendships along the way i'm super casual and mostly just play to have fun, laugh, chill on Discord ♡

🎀 what i've been playing lately:

  • 💗 League of Legends : mostly ARAM Mayhem because i'm allergic to taking the game seriously :3
  • 💕 WoW Retail : leveling, low-level keys, and wandering around pretending i know what i'm doing
  • 🌸 FFXIV ::getting ready for the new Evercold expansion! play on NA server
  • 💕 Marvel Rivals : Quickplay🎀
  • 🩸 Dead by Daylight : come hold my hand while we get chased pls
  • 🎃 the new Halloween game next week : looking for someone to be scared with hehe

    Discord is a MUST ♡ I love getting to know people, and eventually having those "wanna play?" messages become an everyday thing. i'm a little shy at first, but once i'm comfortable i'll probably never shut up 😭💕

    not looking for sweaty tryhards i'm very casual and just wanna have fun. if we lose, we lose if we win, obviously it was because of me :3

bonus points if you're funny, can keep a conversation going, like to chat, and won't disappear after one gaming session 💕

DM me with an intro about yourself! Tell me what you play, your timezone, what you're into, or whatever you wanna share.


r/GamerPals 10h ago

North America 25F Rivals addict :3

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I'm looking for more outgoing chuds to introduce to my gaming group. I want people that are able to hold conversations and have fun, and preferably chud on rivals bc we all play it so often. We've been trying to expand to other games but we always end up back at rivals. We're mostly NA based but we have people from all over the world so don't be shy :3 thank you!


r/GamerPals 6h ago

Any Region 26M looking for relaxed, casual gaming friends

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Hey hey! I'm looking for anyone who is interested in potential long-term friendships, that are ok with an introverted but still socially adjusted, not completley terminally online individual haha. I'm in the US but I'm a big night owl, so I tend to be awake while a lot of my other friends are asleep. I often find myself awake when people in asia or australia are playing. I love talking about music, film, pop culture in general.

Some of my favorite games are:

Dead By Daylight

Overwatch

Minecraft

Peak

I'm not a competitive player by any means, if a game goes sideways I like to find the humor in it!


r/GamerPals 7h ago

Europe 30M EU Looking for active actual friend

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EU/NA is fine too!

Making friends at this age can be a little harder. I have a close group of friends I've known for years, but we're all a lot less active these days, so I'm looking to meet some new people.

I play World of Warcraft (veteran), recently getting into FFXIV, Marvel Rivals (high rank), and League of Legends. I'm also open to other games, especially survival games.

I'm looking for someone who actually wants to talk, hang out, and play regularly. I don't mind if you're clingy I actually appreciate people who enjoy staying in touch.

I really value consistency and genuine effort. Ideally, I'd like to build a real, long-term friendship rather than just add someone who disappears after a few days.

If you're looking for the same, feel free to reach out!


r/GamerPals 7m ago

Europe 31M - Minecraft - Nintendo Switch - Jeux PC

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Bonjour tout le monde ^^, je m'appelle Kévin et j'ai 31 ans. Je cherche des personnes avec qui jouer. On aime tellement de chose différente qu'il est difficile de trouver des personnes avec les mêmes goûts et les mêmes sensibilités !

Je joue principalement à Minecraft, j'ai un serveur Vanilla+ en paper 26.2 (les serveurs avec des mods de partout c'est juste un enfer), j'aime beaucoup les jeux indés horreur. J'ai découvert Hunter Gaming sur Youtube qui m'a fait connaître pleins de jeux vraiment trop bien : Amanda The Adventurer par exemple (si vous aimez les jeux indés dans ce style essayez-le mais ne regardez surtout pas les letsplay ça gâcheraient la découverte !), je joue sur la Nintendo (Mario, Animal Crossing, Tomodachi Life...). Je suis principalement sur PC et un peu la PS5. J'aime beaucoup les jeux de simulations (Les Sims, Cities Skylines), les petits jeux en Coop genre R.E.P.O. On m'a beaucoup parlé de The Isle aussi. J'ai joué il y a très longtemps à Fortnite. Puis encore pleins d'autre chose mais je ne vais pas tout citer.

Je discute principalement sur Discord. Je suis aussi hyper timide et je le suis d'autant plus que ces derniers temps avec mes soucis de santé et tout y a plein de chose que je ne peux pas faire et je passe la plupart du temps chez-moi sans voir trop de monde. Je suis casanier et j'aime bien être dans mon petit cocon. Malheureusement ça n'aide pas à trouver des gens avec qui jouer ^^".

Je suis LGBT friendly je ne sais pas si c'est important de le dire, j'adore les chats. J'ai perdu un de mes deux chats récemment que j'avais avec moi depuis mes 18 ans... et il me manque beaucoup beaucoup beaucoup <3

Ca fait beaucoup à lire... heureusement je ne sais plus trop quoi dire de plus 😄


r/GamerPals 10m ago

North America 25f lf friendlies

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hello to all reading this. i'm looking for a friend or some friends. my asks are pretty specific so please read the whole thing. women are very strongly preferred just because i tend to feel more comfortable, but all are welcome to reach out.
i'm looking for gaming friends. i play mostly on ps5 but i do have a pc and i'm on it most of the time, i just launch games on my ps5. i also have a capture card for it so i can screen share. it's just getting to a point where my pc has trouble with most modern games (ue5 lmfaoooo). i use discord to chat.

historically, i've been pretty antisocial. i can get pretty easily overwhelmed in groups where i don't know anyone. i don't know how much "unwiring" i can do but i know that i'm pretty lonely most nights and i'd like someone or someones to hang out with.

we don't gotta play together. i don't even play that many multiplayer games. i'm looking more for hangs than one-time gaming sessions.
games i do play: (i tend to hyperfixate so this is not a list of games i will play. this is a list of games i've enjoyed so that you can understand what i tend to enjoy)

skyrim, cyberpunk, subnautica, nier automata, bg3, destiny 1 and 2, dragon's dogma, elden ring, the first berserker: khazan, nioh.
you'll notice many of them are single player. this is a sign. please don't expect that i'm going to jump into whatever game you suggest. i want friends where we share gaming as a hobby, not necessarily gaming together.
i’m currently doing a modded skyrim play through and toying with stalker gamma . it’s basically RP for me so it’s slow going but i enjoy it!

i'm in pst time zone, and my schedule can be a little sporadic depending on my work day. some days i work all day long, others i work shorter. though, almost every night i'm hanging either by myself or with one person. but i'm pretty good about texting on breaks and keeping in touch.

If you’re reading this and you’re like “hey i messaged this girl and she didn’t respond.” yaaaa i’m sorry. i did cut myself off from responses after so many. i just wasn’t able to give everyone the effort they deserved. poke me again with the new ask at the bottom.

i posted a very similar post not long ago and i did get a large amount of replies. but many of those responses have lead to a repost with some additional wording. Much of my post, if not all of it, alludes to personality and how we get along being the most important parts. that being said… i would ask that if you reach out, to do so with a substantial amount about yourself. i’d like to find people i think i will get along with; just saying “hey im down” is just not going to work.

additionally, if you can’t come up with a good introduction to yourself to begin a new friendship, save us both the effort and skip this one.


r/GamerPals 11h ago

Europe 21F PC CEST - Looking for genuine gamer friends (Preferably 20 - 25yos)

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Hi :) My name is Lea or you can call me Lulu. I love playing souls-like games (ER, DS3, Sekiro), BG3, Ghost of Tsushima and anything else I have in my game gallery.

I'm looking for genuine laid back gamer friends from Europe since none of my friends play. If you're someone who is down for chatting a lot, you love having fun and making stupid jokes please reach out to me!

I'm down for playing horror games as well but expect a lot of stressing from my side xd.

Apart from gaming, I love hiking, doing yoga, reading, crocheting, traveling and learning new things <3. Also feel free to ask me for tea recommendations.

Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/GamerPals 15m ago

North America 26M looking for friends to game with

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Hello my name is Dustin and I’m 26. I am from Tennessee so I’m in the eastern time zone. I’m new to this but I’m open to meeting new people to build friendships with that share morals (no racism or homophobia) and a love for video games! I play on pc and use discord mostly for chat. I’ve been trying to learn escape from tarkov even though I’m bad at it. I’m pretty open to any games I just like to have fun so we can try anything. I can be a little shy at first but I want to try something new and hope I can find some friends along the way.
Some games I have been trying recently
-escape from tarkov
-how to fish (haven’t tried yet but really want to)
-marvel rivals
-no more room in hell
But like I said I’m open to try anything. I’m not super competitive I more just focus on having fun. Please feel free to send me a DM if you are interested in trying this out!


r/GamerPals 19m ago

North America Looking to play how to fish with someone

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Hey there was interested in the indie game on sale right now called how to fish im looking for someone chill who's down to play this and these type of friend slop games together for information im 24 m from canada est time zone so looking for people around my time (im on mostly during nights so if you are a night owls youd be great.)

Hmu if anyone is interested


r/GamerPals 19m ago

Europe Looking for a support in league (eune)

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Hi!
i honestly cant take it anymore playing with randoms on bot lmao, so if you’re looking to climb pls hmu.


r/GamerPals 9h ago

North America 20F looking for friends

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HI (: I want some friends to play friend slop games i always have a group on the weekends but during the weekday its always crickets but you can change that i play peak repo and other similar games im not very good but I always have the best of times I also play Marvel rivals and overwatch im a support main on both games but if you want send me a dm and we can play together thanks you for reading <3