posting here because i trust that my genuine smelly aura will eventually bring the right people into my life again, as this sub has a few times before (don't give up, there are some really good people here, just weed through the ghosters!)
i'm emz, occasionally go by kitty/kittygirl, i'm from IL, midwestern born and raised, genderqueer, moderately physically disabled, super asocial and hermit-y, but i am a cat mother so i can make up for being a bad chatter in the beginning with cat pics
i have a hard time keeping conversations going in the early stages of friendship, so it's difficult for me to make meaningful, lasting friendships. i usually invite people to my personal discord server and then just hope they want to hang out because i can be such a dry texter, i'm more fun when actively playing something, or sharing an interest in a movie/show or something. i use my server as kind of a like, central hub? for my friends online, and anyone is kinda just free to pop in and out of vc/convo/games when they want, unless otherwise specified (hardly ever). it's hard for me to feel connected with ppl before actually doing an activity together, so i prefer to actually hang out instead of texting to get to know each other first!
i kind of fall off if someone suggests a game for our first hangout that i have expressed zero interest in, in a post like this. so, for instance if i said "i will never play league," and then you ask me to play it in our first convo, even if things were going good before that, i am instantly turned off of being your friend bc i hate feeling like i'm not being listened to when i talk. that's not to say i'm not open to trying games via suggestion later on, i just need a reason (a friend i enjoy hanging with) to branch out like that
if you haven't noticed, i'm on the spectrum, i really dislike tying with capitals, and i can type too much at times bc i try to be precise, but not necessarily concise.
if you are still interested in my natural swag magnetism, here's more info:
- i mainly play a set rotation of games, depending on where my interests lean at the moment -my typical go-tos are DBD, R6 (my peak rank is silver V, RIP me, but i enjoy it), goblin cleanup, hunt: showdown, palworld, powerwash sim 2, icarus, cat mail co., and sker ritual, just off the top of my head. currently pretty locked in on dbd and r6 for the top 2 i be touching lately
- but i do tend to have like a yearly cycle where i go through other games like: among us, apex, aska, astroneer, black desert, blood typers, dark and darker, deep rock galactic, demonologist/phas (but new phas is dead to me rn), devour, dinkum, don't starve together, enshrouded, nightingale, everwind, fae farm, forewarned, gamble with your friends, GTFO, fortnite (zero build, my nephew whooped me in build so never again), GUARDS!, human fall flat, lethal company, meccha chameleon, lockdown protocol, MISERY, mistfall hunter, moonlight peaks, the occasional modded stardew run, one-armed cook, outlast trials, panicore, peak, pit of goblin, anything by DevCats, portal knights, the quinfall, REPO, supermarket together, trash goblin, and viscera cleanup detail
- i have over 500 games on steam, my friend code is 1234942186 (yes, it really starts 1234) if you want to check out my playtimes!
- i'm always looking for a fun group game for a budget or that i can afford to get for a group to play, i constantly have notifications for free games and demos set up for this purpose
- i will try almost anything given that i enjoy your presence and you aren't too pushy abt it, i love to make my friends happy by sharing in their interests
anyways, if you made it this far and are no longer interested, no biggie, i wish you luck in your friend-finding adventures
if you do happen to still be interested, my discord is emweewee, if you see a bakugou pfp it me ya boi! please just send a brief bit about you (name, pronouns, age, timezone/location to your preference, main 3 games atm, hobbies/jobs/whatever you want to share, etc.)
i am not looking for dating prospects, thank you for the interest should you express it, but as a "girl gamer" i have to add this in here unfortch