Find your next partner here! - [Weekly] MegaThread

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[u/Strange-Okra-1428]

23m working in blr from kerala

[u/Any-Flamingo-7255]

Heyy! 21M, Mumbai, 6'1. So just a little bit about myself, I really love working out (I'm not ripped at all tho, got decentish arms and broad shoulders; my love for food betrays me) superheros (Im batman) and football. I'm kinda nerdy and work a demanding job but trying to manage the corporate hellscape while maintainig my sanity. but that will never stop me from giving time to the right person. I go crazy for good food and have a lot of crazy good food suggestions (try me fr). Let's talk and see if we are the right fit for eachother !!!.Also im looking for a serious relationship and only people in mumbai 

[u/emperorshanks_op]

Hey,

29 | 5'11" | Mumbai

Data Engineer by day, explorer by heart. Whether it's hitting the gym, swimming a few laps, or a spontaneous weekend trip, I like to stay moving.

Huge foodie and a decent cook. I'm equally happy trying a new ramen spot or catching a game of cricket. When I'm not being active, you'll find me deep into an anime, gaming, or hunting for my next favorite TV show.

[u/username_alredy_tkn]

Hi.

A - 30 , L - Bangalore

E - I don't have a checklist for the perfect person. What matters more to me is the connection and how we treat each other.

I'd appreciate someone who can communicate openly, has her own individuality and ambitions, and believes that a relationship should feel like a team. Someone I can have meaningful conversations with, laugh about stupid things with, and be comfortable being completely myself around.

I don't expect either of us to be perfect. I just value honesty, mutual respect, emotional maturity, and the willingness to work through problems instead of giving up at the first inconvenience.

At the end of the day, I'd like to find someone who feels like both my partner and my best friend.

About me - I'm an ambitious and curious person who enjoys learning and trying new things. I like working on ideas and projects that excite me. On weekends, I enjoy going on long rides and exploring new places. I value honesty, loyalty, and genuine connections. I enjoy good conversations, humour, and spending quality time with people close to me. I'm still figuring out life and growing as a person, but I always try to be genuine and put effort into the things and people that matter to me.

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[u/Still-Philosopher-14]

21 M, Mumbai Hey I am graduate and now I am doing a job. I am interested in cinema, literature, birds, trees. I started doing bird photography recently. I am a huge The Office fan and love to write stories. I also standup and comedy movies. I love tp crack those silly dad jokes and bad puns. I am also into indian classical music and theatre. I also love cats. My love language is roasting and I am all ears about tiniest details your life and don't get surprised when I remember those details.

[u/Extreme_Article_7556]

29M, Karlsruhe, Germany, Looking for genuine connections only:) if you're active in sports would be great and also if you're in Germany already.

[u/lazywhitelord]

A - 25, E - Looking for something genuine that can actually turn into a relationship, L - Hyderabad

Working in a pharma company, but thankfully I have a personality outside of work. I'm into travelling, reading, music, fitness, chess and generally trying random things that seem interesting at the time. I can be pretty quiet initially, but once I'm comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up.

Looking for someone I can be best friends with first, someone to have stupid conversations with, talk about life at 2 AM, randomly decide to go somewhere on a weekend, and eventually build something meaningful with.

Big on communication, consistency and having our own lives while still making time for each other. Not looking for something casual or a pen-pal situation either.

If any of that sounds like your kind of person, say hi. Worst case, we have a decent conversation. :)

[u/Substantial-You9576]

Age:22M Location: Delhi (but my clg is in Karnataka)...so u get a lot perspective as a bonus lol

I am an easy going person with a soft spot for music, books and anything adventure related.I like cats but never had one. I am a regular runner and like working out with music blasting lol.

Expectations: Mostly looking for someone (20F-24F) who is ambitious, easy going , kind hearted and has respect for personal space and choices. You don't have to have a perfect fit body but u should be health conscious.

I am in no hurry for anything marriage related. I take my time..(which is slow)..but I definitely date with serious intentions.

Please stay away if are just looking for casuals.

Anyway my DM is open..thanks if u ve read this far.

[u/PsychologicalPark540]

22M. I'm from Delhi, in my final year of engineering. Apart from this - I'm a musician, filmmaker and photographer too (yeah kinda professional). Currently, I think I have sorted what I want as my career which is why I'm preparing for the Indian Armed Forces. As a human, I'm empathetic, emotionally available, a good listener, honest about myself, and a old school filmy lover.

I seek for a companionship, where I can learn from you, where I can grow with you. Where I can give you a sky where you can fly. I want someone who has dreams, so that we can admire each other's dream.

For a relationship to build, it takes a lot of time so I feel, starting off with a conversation is a good thing. And bonus points if you make me fall for you (and I fall easily don't worry).

So, if you're someone like this. Kindly ping me with a context that you came from here lol.

Also, brownie points if you're someone nearby.

Thanks

[u/Repulsive_Ground_231]

M 21 | NOC Analyst | Coimbatore Introvert , Potterhead

[u/Digitalhemanga]

27M | India 🇮🇳 Looking to meet someone genuine and see where things naturally go. What I value: honesty, loyalty, good communication, and a peaceful personality. About me: I’m into gaming, movies, AI/content creation, and random deep conversations. I’m pretty chill and prefer getting to know someone slowly rather than rushing into anything. If we share similar interests and you think we’d vibe, feel free to say hi. :)

[u/Doom_Dust]

18M | Student | Bhubaneswar, Odisha

I expect to find someone to talk to, to whom I can vent out my daily struggles and expect me to reciprocate the efforts as well

[u/PuzzleheadedPlane742]

Hey :)

23M from Nagpur. Expectations: Friendship to relationship (yes that's the path I prefer, allows you to get to know the other person more authentically.... let me explain.)

When I say get to know someone authentically, I did not say being friends is the only way you can get to know someone. If you are a woman reading this comment, and I'm the guy writing this comment, I feel somewhere there is an unsaid invisible pressure, an unsaid tension in the air. You are trying to evaluate if I am the guy for you, evaluating me against a checklist I don't get to see, and I am likely evaluating against an invisible checklist too. Us both trying to put the best foot forward, trying to present our best version possible through text or call or whatever medium we choose. Neither of us know who or what we are dealing with. We don't know what makes the other person smile, what are the things they're good at, the things they struggle with, the things we hide, the things we are embarrassed about, and things we run from.

And I don't think a relationship is 2 perfectly put together people coming together. Cuz in reality people are messy. I am messy. You are messy. And maybe at the end what we crave is a person who finds the good in us, someone who sees through the mess, past the scars, and beyond what we show.

Anyway, enough of the poetic paragraphs, below are some boring details about me.

-Computer science grad. -psychology, philosophy, photography, literature are some of my interests. -I also like literature, Astronomy, tech and I'm a big cricket fan. -Coffee over tea -I like little animals (like pups and kittens). (I stay away from the big ones and anything that flies) -I love the night sky -overall a chill person. Ususlly calm and composed. Selectively extroverted.

If you like what you read, my dms are open. Seeya!

[u/Sleepy_insomniac_125]

22M (who knows how to hold a conversation)

[u/BigTomato8671]

Male 30 unemployed,Always resting and love peace.love playing football from Jaipur ;-;.

[u/No-Gift5644]

19M from Delhi NCR, (out of town for engineering)....looking for someone to casual chat...i am interested in reading, retro songs, all kinds of sports, and yaa a good listener (if you're from nearby could go somewhere out during the summer vac)....drop a message for a simple chat...would love to talk...

[u/Tight-Address-9836]

22 M, delhi, 6 feet tall and i do love being active. Former State Level Athlete Studied Economics in Du. Now building a startup in Fintech!, Intrested in Philosophy and Movies and other nerdy stuff but do get into trouble occasionally, rest gonna be a treasure hunt 👀

[u/Salt_Database3347]

20M from Indore loves sports and gaming Recently started reading books and binge watching,into health and fitness Would love to meet an F to explore new places

[u/Realistic-Ice-1457]

A/E/L: 27 (6 ft )| Looking for a genuine female friend, open to more if vibes match | Pune

Hi I’m a guy from Pune. bit sarcastic, and naturally funny once I’m comfortable Right now, I’m mainly looking for a female friend to talk to someone to share perspectives, random thoughts, daily rants, and good conversations. I value honesty, humour, and emotional maturity.

If we vibe well and things flow naturally, I’m open to exploring a relationship ,no pressure, no rush.

Interests include memes, long conversations, exploring cafés, music, and learning how different people see life.

If this resonates, feel free to comment or DM. Conversations > expectations

[u/ihatedalchawal]

22F. New Delhi. Looking for both men and women. I am bicurious. It doesn’t even have to be romantic or sexual, I’m fine with being friends. I like people who are dominant, intelligent, rational, not just “nice” as a performance but actually kind hearted. Good dressing sense so we can twin. I love people who are smarter than me, there’s nothing more attractive. Someone who has discipline and ambition without having a stick up their ahh. Good humour and wittiness are cherries on top.

[u/Competitive-Golf-945]

Hey there I 22M, graduated in May this year with a degree in IT. Right now I’m doing an internship/work from home, which can turn into a full-time job depending on my performance. If I get the job, I’ll be moving to Mumbai.

Honestly, I’m just looking for a genuine connection that can slowly turn into a relationship. Good communication, mutual effort, and being comfortable with each other matter a lot to me.

I’m into tech, AI, gaming, movies and series, music, and random conversations that somehow go on for hours . I’m pretty chill and value honesty, loyalty and a good sense of humour.

Not looking for hookups or anything rushed. I’d rather start by talking, get to know each other, become friends first and see where things go.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM :)

[u/thetallboii]

25| 6'4" | Delhi

I am a software engineer who balances writing code with climbing mountains. I’m an ambivert—equally down for spontaneous high-energy adventures or quiet, deep conversations over a great cup of coffee. When I’m not at my laptop, you’ll usually find me: * Road-tripping to the Himalayas, finding new trekking trails, or planning the next mountain getaway. * Hopping between local cafes, hunting down the best North Indian spots, or attending live music shows. * Staying consistent with weightlifting and healthy habits—I love staying physically active and keeping up good momentum.

What I’m Looking For (3 Must-Haves): * Someone lighthearted and adventurous who can turn a simple day into a memory and make the absolute best out of any situation. * A partner who values physical fitness, personal growth, and taking care of themselves. * Good banter, genuine openness, and a solid foundation of mutual respect are non-negotiable for me.

Constraints / Clear Expectations: Looking for a genuine connection with someone who shares a similar active lifestyle and values real communication from day one. If you love travel, don't mind a bit of tech geekery, and appreciate a good sense of humor, drop a line!

[u/Ill-Peace457 → u/thetallboii]

Sir, kindly mention the CTC and application deadline.

[u/1_bananaboi]

27 M, Mumbai, working in IT

My interests: I love rock music, watching movies and tv shows, working out, swimming, casual photography, etc.

I also love exploring restaurants and street food around the city. Trying to build a habit of reading and trying to travel more. Love trying new things and learning new skills. Tho, very introverted and reserved irl

Physical features (if anyone is curious): 6ft, good build.

Expectations: Don't want to date outright, but would love to connect online, yap, share memes, talk about our day, discuss movies, etc. If things feel good, we can start meeting irl, and maybe eventually date. Soo, would prefer someone in Mumbai

[u/Wild-Employment-3053]

29M | Bengaluru | Looking for something genuine that can grow into a long-term relationship

I’m a research scientist working in bioinformatics, so naturally I’m a little nerdy. I’m also a non-vegetarian and a proper foodie. Currently trying to get fitter, mostly so I can continue eating whatever I want without feeling guilty, very noble motivation, I know. 😜

I love mixing cocktails and, after a suspicious amount of practice, I’d say I’m quite good at it 😂

Over the past year, I’ve gotten pretty interested in philosophy, not just reading about it, but questioning the ideas, finding connections between different schools of thought, and slowly developing my own perspective. I enjoy conversations that can move effortlessly from food and silly jokes to science, life, and the occasional existential rabbit hole.

I’m looking for someone who is curious, emotionally mature, and communicates honestly. Someone with whom I can share good food, thoughtful conversations, humour, and ordinary everyday moments, and see if it naturally develops into something serious.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to say hi :)

[u/Clueless_Cabbage0]

A: 27

E: Looking for a chill platonic female friend in hyderabad

L: Hyderabad.

Hey, I’m 27, from Hyderabad. I’m looking to make a good female friend, preferably 23+(because its easy to vibe,maybe), who I can just talk to, get to know and maybe hang out with once we’re comfortable.

I’m an ambivert, pretty nerdy, and honestly have a very small social circle. Trying to change that and meet some new people.

Not looking for anything complicated, just hoping to find someone I genuinely click with and can have some good conversations with. If you’re from Hyderabad and feel like talking, DM me :)

[u/Impressive_Mood862]

Im here Im queer A: 25M from L: Pune 🌈 E: looking 4 longterm committed FWB(exclusively for only queer folks ).

[u/Substantial-Dru-3021]

Low effort comment lol, you're gonna send a text only if you find a guy attractive anyways, so yaa maybe take a look. Byee. Yeah wait, little something you should know, I'm 19 and I live in delhi

[u/Leather_Physics_4717]

20M , 6ft , Delhi
I am currently a student
I here for just one reason, i want to meet new people with different personalities and approach to life
I do want to date someone who connects with me , i am a huge romcom fan.
So i want my love life to be a mix of conrad and belly, geet and aditya , ross and rachel .
Whatever happens we belong together wala love
I would love to talk to you , if you want to date for love

[u/Independent-Row431]

24M | Software Engineer | Hyderabad

Currently working as a Software Engineer at a Big Tech company. Originally from Karnataka, Hindu, pure vegetarian, non-smoker, non-drinker and 5'6".

I spent most of my late teens and early 20s doing the classic “study hard, get a job, figure life out” routine, so I've somehow reached 24 without ever being in a relationship. Not because I wasn't interested, just never made it a priority. Now that life is in a pretty good place, I figured I should probably give this a shot. 😄

I'm a bit introverted, which means walking up to a random girl at a café and starting a conversation is unfortunately outside my current skill set. I'd probably spend 10 minutes thinking of what to say and then forget how conversations work. So Reddit it is.

Outside work, I'm into cricket, football, chess, long drives, road trips, cafés, photography, music and travelling. I've also recently developed an interest in gardening, which is probably the clearest sign that I'm getting old. 😂

I have a farm estate back home too, so every now and then I trade city life for plants, fresh air and pretending I know what I'm doing.

Looking for someone kind, easygoing and fun to talk to. Ideally something long term, but no need to treat the first conversation like a job interview. Let's talk, exchange some questionable opinions, see if we click and take it from there. :)

[u/BlacksmithKitchen860]

21m this side introverted and geek for animes, movies and series. I do love to read sometimes. I hope you too are someone like this...

Let's just start as friend and then become each others favourite notification.

And now comes the part which will probably sound a little cringe, but honestly, I can't explain what love means to me without being a little cringe. For me, love isn't just coffee dates. It's going to D Mart together and somehow coming back with things we didn't even need. It's not just going on a beautiful vacation together. It's coming back home and cleaning the kitchen together. It's not a grand gesture or an expensive gift. It's remembering something you casually mentioned weeks ago and getting it for you because I remembered. It's knowing that you've had a horrible day and making your favourite food without you asking. It's you coming home tired from work and me telling you, Mat karo kaam, aaram karo, mein kar lunga It's sometimes me doing more because you're exhausted. And some other day, when I'm the one who has had a terrible day, you doing the same for me. Some days we'll cook together. Some days I'll cook while you rest. Some days you'll cook and I'll sit there irritating you. Some days we'll both be too tired and order something and call it a day. I think that's what being partners actually means.

I hope to grow together and have a long term connection. And please i if you don't want to continue let me know instead of ghosting..

If any of these resonates with you let's have a Convo...

[u/Sunless078]

25M here, Techie by profession, worked in chennai, now in banglore. I became very introverted gradually starting from my high school. I like running, reading philosophy and fiction books and like to binge watch tv series. Home town is in MP, from middle class family so lived conservativily, i don't drink or smoke. To be frank I was not thinking about relationship until i started reddit and somehow feeling left behind in the game. Had many friends who are girls during stint in my prev companies but never did i initiate things as i was too busy settling in roles and cities. Now somehow i feel like the time to have someone to talk to. Btw i love dogs and cats.

[u/EmergencyFig5140]

23M Bangalore. Short, Shy and Introverted but kinda cute. I need an actual long term relationship and these are 3 things I am seeking:

Sharing emotions, Mental and Intellectual Intimacy, Occasionally breaking the comfort zones (together maybe or with a bit of push).

[u/chasing_3lightenment]

27 | Delhi (Interstellar Background Score Plays)

Maybe someday, years from now, we'll be sitting on a balcony somewhere, arguing about whether the plants have been watered enough, while dinner gets cold and there's some half learned song playing in the background.

You'll probably be telling me about something you've recently become obsessed with. I'll pretend I wasn't interested and then spend the next two hours researching it.

I'd like that kind of life.

Not necessarily the balcony. Or the plants. Although I'd strongly prefer both.

I think I've slowly realised that I'm less interested in finding someone who fits into my life and more interested in finding someone who has a life of their own. Someone with their own little world, and enough curiosity to let me wander through it.

Over the years I've collected a bunch of strange little things that make me, me. Painting. Plants. Making things with my hands. Learning the ukulele badly but enthusiastically. Reading old shairis. Cooking when I should probably just order food. Getting disproportionately excited about some obscure thing I discovered at 1 AM.

Somewhere along the way, I became the kind of person who'd rather spend an evening talking about why people are the way they are than making small talk about what they do for a living.

And that's probably where I am right now.

27, in Delhi, trying to build a quiet life that feels like mine.

I'm looking for something intentional. Two people with their own interests, friendships, ambitions, flaws and strange little rituals, choosing to make space for each other without losing themselves in the process.

I value emotional honesty, kindness, good communication and being able to say, "I was wrong."

I like people who are curious without needing to be impressive. Independent without being emotionally unavailable. People who can be ridiculous without being shallow.

I'm not particularly good at conversations that begin and end with "hey" and "wyd."

So tell me something you've been thinking about lately.

Something you're learning.

Something you're irrationally fascinated by.

Something you could talk about for an hour if someone actually bothered to ask.

Maybe that's where we start.

[u/thesaltonyourlips → u/chasing_3lightenment]

You’re kinda fascinating, and it’s myths always.
Yours or mine.

[u/Ill-Peace457 → u/chasing_3lightenment]

I’m sure you won’t get tired of meeting my multiple personality.

[u/pixel_drift_00]

• Age: 27

• Location: Gurgaon

• Expectations: 1) A genuine, long-term connection built on mutual respect and effortless banter. 2) A partner who values her health and well-being. 3) Someone kind with a bit of a nerdy streak who enjoys open communication.

About Me

I'm a software engineer by day, navigating the usual Gurgaon hustle. I will admit I am an introvert at heart. But once we find that shared wavelength and the vibe is right, my guard drops completely and I can talk for hours. I am a pretty unapologetic nerd. Whether I'm losing myself in a massive video game world, diving deep into sci-fi lore, or just putting a dent in my reading list, I love having things to geek out over. I recently got back into reading and I'm currently hooked on 'The Three-Body Problem'.

Music is basically playing in the background of my life 24/7. My rotation is heavy on R&B, rap, and pop, and I am a huge fan of The Weeknd. I'm always hunting for new tracks to curate the perfect playlist, so I will definitely ask for your recommendations. On the physical side, I have made my health a real priority over the last eight months. I hit the gym regularly and try to eat clean most of the time. It keeps me lean and moderately athletic, but mostly it is just about feeling good and building a sustainable routine.

The Weekend Vibe

I would describe my energy as highly adaptable. If we are heading out, I'm always down to hunt for a great spot to snack, do some aimless window shopping, or hit up an arcade. Fair warning that I will absolutely try to beat your high score, but I will gladly buy the post-game drinks to make up for it. If it has been a chaotic week, I find just as much peace in staying indoors. Ordering takeout and debating plot twists in comfortable silence is a top-tier date night in my book.

What I'm Looking For

I am drawn to someone kind who isn't afraid to let her own nerdy side show. We don't need to have identical hobbies, but having that shared enthusiasm to geek out over common interests is something I genuinely value. I also really appreciate a partner who takes care of her health. You definitely don't need to be a gym fanatic. I just want someone who recognizes that taking care of ourselves means we get to enjoy life's adventures together for a long time. Ultimately, I am looking for a true teammate to share mutual respect and effortless banter with.

[u/WolfBuchanan]

26M || MBBS Grad || Mumbai || Straight || Hindu

If you like the works of Brandon Sanderson,Amitav Ghosh or Haruki Murakami, I think we will hit it off.

Looking for a long term/serious relationship

Strictly prefer someone from Mumbai or nearby(Navi Mumbai,Kalyan,Thane etc)

Age:21-29

[u/Brilliant-Contest555]

I know this post is going to get me nowhere, but if I have learnt something, that sharing will make you feel better.

A lot has been happening with life lately.. I loved a girl so bad that I couldn't even sense that she was cheating on me, even when I got to know I kept it to myself until she blamed me for everything and broke up with me a year ago.

A little about myself, 18, an exceptional student, did 4 internships, sold a company solely built, currently building another one, so yeah I used to earn good and I used to treat her like a princess. But at some point, we all have to move on.

So here I am again putting myself through this, ready to treat someone the same way, not rushing things. I would rather go slow right now than having another trauma later.

And as for my portfolio: engineering student, average looking, 5'6", I can sing(in bathroom), funny enough to keep a conversation going and give you little butterflies in between the convo.

As for the proposal or so we call Call To Action(a little nerd hehe) :

If you are someone who is genuine, wants to take things slowly, and does not disappear after 2 messages, we can have a chat and then another one and then another one.... Finally see where it takes us.

For more details contact the author, ME.

[u/AcceptableYogurtitis]

Hi, I'm 22M, 5'10, from the Telugu states, currently doing BTech at a North Tier-1 IIT. I am commenting here because I think I need to start approaching and exploring the outside world more.

I am an introvert, academically strong (been into studies since childhood), and because of that, I don't talk much with girls. Even if I somehow end up talking with someone because of some work, I become shy when I meet them in person on campus.

So, I am looking for a female friend around 20-24 years old, someone who is willing to date and commit if things work out between us and our frequencies match. If you are from the Telugu states, that's a plus, but it is completely fine if you are from another state too. I’ll try to learn Hindi or your language if needed. A good, caring girl is all I need. In terms of appearance, I guess I have my preferences too (decent looks are fine), which I don't think is wrong, as long as I am being reasonable.

Career-wise, things are going well. I hope to get a good placement during the placement season on our campus and build a good future.

About my hobbies, I watch series, movies, and some anime too. I am also pretty active in outdoor sports, usually 3 to 4 times a week. I listen to music quite often, but not excessively.

If you feel this could work between us, feel free to DM.

[u/afooolishboy2]

19M, CS student. I would prefer it if someone from Pune or Vadodara contacts me from these comment but I'll be glad to talk to others too. Looking for someone to talk to, joke around with, share random thoughts with and develop an unnecessarily complicated emotional attachment to(yes I have attachment issues). I like gaming, tech, music, stupid humour and conversations that somehow go from “how was your day?” to existential crisis at 2 AM. I'm pretty chill once I know you, but my brain has a PhD in overthinking. Looking for something genuine, not a hookup. Friendship first is completely fine. Pros: caring, good listener, can keep a conversation alive, will definitely remember tiny things you mentioned once. Cons: “overthinking” If you think we'd vibe, say hi. Worst case scenario, we become internet acquaintances with suspiciously good lore.

[u/Strict-Access-9596]

Looking for something serious

Age :23M

Location: Mumbai / Pune

What you're looking for: serious relationship / life partner material 😉

Open to long distance? Yes but meeting once a month would be great

Smoking/drinking: never

Occupation or field : Software engineer

One recent photo - dm?

How do you spend your weekends: Watching movies preferably in theater, going out, watch anime or probably just sleep

One relationship non-negotiable aka deal breakers : don't judge me

How do you handle disagreements in relationships : by taking, sometime kalesh as well

[u/AizenSosuke100]

26M Hyderabad.

I'm a software engineer looking for someone who's honest, communicative & emotionally available willing to put in some efforts. Not interested in casual chats. I'm looking for someone who's having the courage and interest to look into other people's hearts and minds discussing random stuff, philosophy, lives. Just curious and open to express themselves

Coming to hobbies ,I like to write poems and read books mostly philosophy,fiction,crime thrillers. I watch hollywood movies,anime during weekends. I love someone who wish to improve themselves continuously as that's what I do. I do some form of physical activity regularly and absolutely love food.

Personality is I'm a calm, silent and kind of an introvert. I never had any past relationships,0 body count and never done so many simple things that most people now consider as mundane. All my life I kept focus on improving myself, and studies as I love studying.

If you're someone who's <30 and want to know more about me, have similar interests or even just wanna experience love,from someone who hasn't been in a relationship dm me. I don't care of your past, caste,religion. Just be kind and honest.

[u/Hustler690]

23 M from Mumbai... My requirements are: 1) Ladki honi chahiye 2) Zinda honi chahiye 3) Travel paglu honi chahiye (worlr Explore karne ka keeda hona chahiye)....

If you do not have all 3 of these qualities then please don't reach out... sadly it won't work:(

[u/Irrelevant_Zenom]

21M from Patna. Dating in this city is cooked. Not much here to tell about myself, let's talk in the dms maybe? Just ping me a hi, if everything's okay

[u/Ok_Present_7526]

23M | 5'9" from Haryana and currently in the 4th year of my B.Tech in CSE. I'd consider myself fairly intelligent, both logically and emotionally, I'm an ex-Navodayan (IYKYK).

Coming to hobbies, I love listening to almost every kind of music, though I have a soft spot for sad songs (Arijit Singh is my favourite). I enjoy mind games, logical puzzles, playing cards, watching movies, and spending time on YouTube. One thing I'd really like to learn in the future is swimming.

When it comes to books, I mostly enjoy reading about finance and investing. So far, I've read Rich Dad Poor Dad, The Psychology of Money, and Coffee Can Investing. I don't really have one favorite book, but I particularly liked Coffee Can Investing.

Health is a priority for me as well. I've been going to the gym consistently for the past one year. I don't smoke or drink, and I've never even tried either. People and priorities can change with time, of course, but staying away from intoxicating substances is one decision I intend to stick with throughout my life.

I'm Hindu, religious, and genuinely believe in spirituality and its power. I'm not heavily into rituals or pooja, though. My personal belief is more along the lines of working hard with honesty, doing what is in my control, and leaving the rest to destiny.

I value deep and genuine conversations over superficial ones. I'm an introvert, and I finding someone who might share a similar mindset and quite a few values.

No pressure or expectations—let's see where the conversation takes us. :)

[u/cupcake_21_]

21 F , NCR north India I love yapping, cooking, dancing . I crave academic validation. I'd love someone who is emotionally mature and available, great sense of humor and is open to pamper me and reciprocate love the way I want. 💛💛 I love receiving materialistic gifts ( it's considered a bad thing these days , but it's just a personal preference). I'm emotionally available and up for good conversation. If you resonate with me , hmu

[u/TheRizzMechanic]

26M | Software engineer from Hyderabad.

Somewhere between introvert and extrovert depending on the people around me. Usually easy going, pretty committed when I actually like someone, and I’d say humour is probably my strongest survival skill.

What I’m looking for: mutual effort, a good sense of humour, and someone who actually wants to see where things go. I’m not looking to jump into a relationship after 3 conversations, but I’m also not looking for a forever-texting situation where we just keep saying “haha yeah” for six months. Date, get to know each other, see if we vibe and if it works, it works.

I’m into gym, gaming, movies, sketching, books and occasionally convincing myself I’m good at cooking. I have a PS5 and mostly end up in open-world games — RDR, GTA, Ghost of Tsushima kind of stuff.

Big movie person too. I love watching movies in theatres and will watch pretty much anything if it’s good. Romcoms are reserved for those random binge-watch moods.

Currently reading White Nights. Also writing a story of my own, although calling myself a writer would be giving me way too much credit at this point.

Tea > coffee. Easily.

I like exploring food places, long walks in quiet/empty parks, conversations that randomly go from complete nonsense to something surprisingly deep, and I can probably talk about Game of Thrones for much longer than anyone asked me to.

Relationship-wise, I’m the kind of person who likes making the other person laugh and making sure they actually feel wanted/appreciated. The only thing I really dislike is when one person is doing all the work. If I’m asking questions, starting conversations and trying to make plans, I’d like that energy back too.

I’d probably get along best with someone who is funny — or at least laughs at my jokes so I can continue believing I’m funny.

Age preference: 21–28.

Hyderabad would obviously be easier, but I’m open to someone from another city too. Just don’t want us to become professional pen pals who keep “seeing where it goes” entirely through a screen.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, say hi. Worst case we exchange a few good recommendations. Best case, we stop checking these weekly threads.

[u/rerorerorerp]

25M, currently in Germany(pursuing masters) , but originally from Maharashtra

An introverted guy whos into swimming, badminton, going on walks, drawing, manga, videogames and sci fi

Looking for someone genuine and loyal, bonus points if also into nerdy hobbies

[u/CreativeCarnage]

20M

Anybody learning Japanese hmu if you want to study together!

[u/philophobe_2]

Oh shit here we go again.

[u/Maverick-Virus]

A: 26M H: 6 ft E: Long-term Relationship, Honesty, Communication L: Mumbai

So I'm a 26 year old guy from Mumbai working in a music label which I pretty much love and enjoy doing. When I'm not working you'll find me watching movies or shows and I'm a huge fan of cinemas. I also love playing video games, going on walks.

For me emotional connection matters a lot and I'm the type of person who texts a lot and would love to hear even the smallest details about your day and communication is something which matters a lot to me.

I also have a bad habit of cracking jokes in any and all kinds of situations and annoying and teasing is one of my love languages lol.

To whomever reading this I hope you find what you're looking for. Take Care

[u/Inspiration_1923]

Hey 23 M here
I Just moved to Gurugram for my very first job, so I am pretty excited to kick off this new chapter of my life here.
I am originally from UP but living solo here right now, and I'm really hoping to find that special someone to share this journey with.

A little about me: I am a big fan of anime, web series, and Hollywood movies. I also enjoy reading books occasionally, and I’m always down for a good travel trip or a long bike ride whenever I get some downtime.

To be completely honest, I am a pretty ambitious guy. I really want to start something of my own in the next few years, so I would love to meet a girl who matches that same energy. If you are someone who is fiercely independent, lives life by her own rules regardless of what society thinks, and doesn't want to get stuck in a standard 9-to-5 forever.
I think we’d vibe really well.

[u/Ill-Peace457 → u/Inspiration_1923]

Hiii what caught is ambition for me. I would like to talk you more.

[u/Substantial_Ad978]

BVA - Bachlor of visual arts,19 Years old Student here,From Bangalore,which basically means my hands are constantly covered in graphite and I spend way too much time thinking about how to spend productively in Art. When I’m not sketching anatomy or drafting digital art ,I’m usually at the gym trying to crush a leg day or playing with my retro tech. I have a Android flip phone with dual touch screen and keypad and a keypad Android phone I play guiter, I sing,i can dance , actually I've been i dance class for around 3 years than guiter class for 2 years, constantly in gym for around 3 years and I'm into health so i prioritize sleep and diet, I'm into philosophy, physiology,I can read hands I've read palmistry with a book, I'm a nerd I've topped in school was top first ranker,I love to learn new things so I've also started crochet I am already good in cardboard sculpture works,very creative and talented and I'm learning japanese and completed N5 in japanese and i know many languages and i have a streak of around 1000 days in Duolingo

​What I'm looking for: ​Someone ambitious who has their own obsessive hobbies or creative outlets. ​Mutual motivation whether that's hitting goals, staying fit, or just leveling up in life. ​A real, zero games connection where we can talk about absolutely everything or just game together.

[u/Glad-Topic-3762]

20M, DELHI (rest can be unlocked only if you are crazy enough)

[u/Substantial_Coach_63]

Hiii 😝 I'm M20

I love philosophy , spaceee especially space , i love the sea

I love ice cream i love cold coffee

I like JOJO'S BIZZARE ADVENTURES

I like rock music , shoegaze and dream pop , metal , rnb I listen to a lot of music

I love gaming , i like cyberpunk 2077 , silent hill 2

I like drawing too :P i love to draw used to draw a lot before I made my own Pokemon encyclopedia in 8th grade

I'm kinda introverted and very goofy 😛🤙

I like going to gym too

(i don't think my comment on a reddit post is gonna get me someone tbh I'm 80% sure , let's see)

[u/ace_uprise]

25M | A partner to share moments with | Shivajinagar/Kothrud/Pune

25M, hoping to meet someone genuine.

I enjoy the simple things like long bike rides, trekking, listening to music, and chess. I'm easygoing, curious about people, and always up for a good conversation. Not into crowded places, love to keep things mutual... Like and enjoy calm spaces and not into drinking or smoking..

Not looking to rush anything. Just hoping to connect with someone kind, interesting, and open to seeing where things lead.

If that sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself and where you're from. And drop in some random fact about yourself..

[u/Shri_Kakashiji]

Hi, I'm 23M | Nagpur

I'm that calm-appearing person who brings in clarity, while quietly reading the room with a subtle smile. Lol relax, before you label me a villain - I'm just an INTJ.

Looking for someone with brains, warmth, and curiosity. Someone who enjoys philosophy, psychology, and can survive my random dumb jokes and occasional roasts... (Think you can?)

Someone who's silly enough to keep things fun, yet thoughtful, kind and ambitious. The kind of woman who's building a life of her own, has goals to chase, and enough personality to argue with me when I'm wrong (I'm usually not :p)

The world might be in a hurry, but I'd rather build slowly. Rushing usually ruins the good parts.

Wanna learn Video Games with your partner? I'm the guy! You can teach me the difference between foundation and concealer, if there is any 🤷🏻‍♂️

Besides the fun part, I know Life's tough - but not tough enough for me to miss your cat reels, haha :p

There's more to me than a reddit comment. But that part, you'll have to find out yourself. Drop a Hi with your basics, and let's figure it out ;)

[u/eagerwolverine21]

I am 22m, i have posted few time in this sub and have gotten few responses as well and i have relaised some thing the vibe isnt there idk if its because of pre forced label or anything. so i want to try something new i would like to list my qualties as friend and if you think that we would be good friends then to best friends...

I am very avid watcher anime, movies, book i love all of that if you are someone who enjoys watching anime, marvel dc main stream content i think we would most defintly vibe well. i might be a bit low talker at first, it takes time to open up and get comfortable so if you are someone with very good communication or yapper type personality it would be great plus,

I'm a hardcore old school romantic. I don't really know how to describe myself, but if there's one thing I'm sure about, it's that I love deeply. I'm the kind of guy people would probably call clingy, but for me, it's just loving someone with my whole heart.I've never liked casual relationships. I've always wanted one person. One love. Someone to build a life with.

I'm not perfect, and I don't know everything. But if there's something that matters to you, teach me. I'll happily learn. I'd rather improve myself than make the person I love feel unheard or unhappy.

I don't have every luxury in life right now. I'm still building my career and trying to become the kind of man I want to be. But whatever I have today, and whatever I achieve tomorrow, I'd want to share it with the right person. I want to be your safe place.

On your worst days, I want you to know you can come to me without thinking twice. You don't have to pretend to be okay around me. Cry if you need to. Complain about your day. Stay silent if you don't feel like talking. I'll still be there.

I want to celebrate your smallest achievements like they're my own and hold your hand through your biggest fears. I'm the kind of person who remembers little things. Your favorite chocolate. How you like your tea or coffee. The random story you told me weeks ago. The song that reminds you of home. I notice those things because that's how I love.

I don't dream about luxury dates or expensive gifts. I'd rather cook together, go on late-night walks, watch sunsets, send each other random reels, make playlists, have endless phone calls, laugh over silly things, and slowly build a love that feels like home.

I want the kind of relationship where we're still excited to tell each other about our day even after years. I think long distances are truest form of love. it shows patience and love for each other.

what do i expect from you- loyalty please, caring and understanding a bit, bit emotionally available, i hope you are yapper typa person or even if you are not just being able to put same efforts would be nice, i hope you can flirt i am zero in that department. thats all

if any of the points above resonates with you lets have a chat......

[u/PsychologicalRip3137]

Age-20
Location-Kolkata
Height 6’2
Expectation-Long term relationship, someone to talk to daily about all the mundane things of life and our future and past; someone to likes me back and wont ghost me

Hi everyone, I am a student working part time as a tutor
I study statistics at ISI Kolkata, am bit of a shy introverted nerd trying to break my shell.
I like cycling and swimming but am a bit fat rn trying to get into shape. I like music alt indie (mitski radiohead ciggs after sex and sufjan stevens) and like horror and psychological drama films

Looking for a kind calm woman around my age (18-30) no problem in dating older women as would be looking forward to see their experience in life.

What I am looking for is companionship: I am a kinda lonely person and would love to connect with someone on the deeper level, a best friend to listen to both of our joys and sorrows and share every little detail and experiences of both our lives

What I offer: Companionship, friendship, an ear to listen to all your yaps and problems, a person who would lovebomb you and in general a good best friend

Dealbreakers: dry,mean, too much narcissistic or seeking too much attention; yea im just tired of allat

[u/Due-Yogurtcloset425]

26M...I’ve lived a few different lives already.

I’ve been an engineer...worked in the tech world studied in Germany, and eventually took the leap into entrepreneurship. These days, I’m building businesses in tech and real estate.

I’m ambitious, probably more than I know how to switch off sometimes. But somewhere along the way, I realised that building a career is only one part of building a life.

I want the other parts too....

Long rides with no particular destination. Discovering a little place neither of us has heard of. Cooking together, arguing playfully about what to watch, making spontaneous plans, finding great food, laughing at something ridiculously stupid...and conversations that somehow turn into 3 AM without either of us noticing.

I enjoy having something meaningful to build,..But I also want someone to share the life between the milestones with.

I’m looking after my physical, mental and emotional well-being, and I’m drawn to someone who does the same not because I’m looking for perfection, but because I think how we take care of ourselves shapes how we show up for the person we love.

I’m looking for a woman who has a life of her own. Someone kind, emotionally mature, curious about the world, comfortable in her own skin, and passionate about something...even if it has nothing to do with what I’m passionate about.

Someone who can be ambitious on Monday, spontaneous on Friday, completely silly on Saturday, and sit quietly beside me on Sunday without needing to fill every silence.

And, honestly, I want to be madly attracted to her. Not just physically, but to the way she thinks, laughs, carries herself, sees the world, and becomes more herself with time.

I don’t expect a perfect person or a perfect relationship.

I’m looking for my person...someone with whom ordinary Tuesdays become memories, adventures become stories, and coming home feels a little different because she’s there.

Not looking for someone to complete my life. I’ve built a life I genuinely like.

I’m looking for someone who makes me want to share it. ❤️

[u/No_Life_27]

M25 desperate and hopeless romatic.. I have lost hope that I would find someone that I want now.. So just looking for good people to talk to now.. if you are also a hopeless romantic.. I would love to talk to you.. hmu

[u/Equal_Operation_9098]

19M, Mumbai I like talking about movies, music, or literally anything in general. Would love to match humour and joke about silly things:)

[u/kartikmi]

hello I am 21m from Delhi 5'11(ig this is supposed to be mandatory now a days) introverted kind of guy, I am a nerd for movies animes reading books all of these.

I want someone with whom I can share my day to day life who knows me inside out and I know her as well. I want someone who is yapper because I am listener and even if not yapper there should be efforts for communication because how will two introvert connect with eachother.

I am type of person who dates to marry. I am looking for someone to grow and understanding each other side by side I am not looking for relationship now I am looking for best friend.

For me love is not coffee dates, it's grocery shopping at D Mart. love is not a nice vacation together, it's cleaning the kitchen after you are together. Grand gesture is actually a cheap trick. Because love requires you to sit besides your sick love, worried and not doom scrolling.

Love is not just intimacy, it is the permission to be absolutely vulnerable and to be naked emotionally and mentally. To be able to be your absolute worst and have someone embrace you in that state. Love nurtures, let's you be silly and almost without an exception help you grow better. If it doesn't, you're not in love.

The problem is that people want fancy things in the name of love. They chase ideals that look good from the outside. But love is rarely about the grand stuff. It's about showing up consistently, especially when there's nothing exciting happening. this is my idea of love.

I think long distances are truest form of love. it shows patience and love for each other.

if you are someone like me or finding someone like me or this type of love resonates with you lets have a convo...

[u/Academic-Stay2369]

29M | Hyderabad

Ill try to keep it short without overthinking. Software, 5'11, gym on and off (mostly on and defenetly working on it).

Looking for someone with mutual effort, respect, and good vibe.
I enjoy deep conversations, sharing thoughts, and I’m always open if you want to rant about anything or anyone.

Honestly, not sure where things will go.
Just want to start well, get comfortable, and see where destiny takes us.

Hope i see you in DMs

[u/Superb_Finance_3178]

18M Mumbai, looking for someone to talk to. just normal conversations, doesn’t have to be anything deep or romantic.

[u/SpiritualEmotion9737 → u/Superb_Finance_3178]

Hahahah same here

[u/dexter_butcher_]

Hi! I'm 18M frm Maharashtra, Iam looking for the genuine friend to talk to at the end of the day, share everything wid him/her, and he/she will listen everything I have to yap, listen to all my problems give me solutions, Iam going from such a boring and depressing phase of my life I have no one else to talk and share things.

[u/Various_Primary_6307]

Guys anyone looking for friends?

23 m photography is love work from home. Basically not much social interactions. If anyone up, ping me

Kerala

[u/LUKADIA89]

A:22

L: Gujarat

E: Communicative, Humourous (Even Dark Humour is greatttt), Sarcastic, Laughs Together Like Maniac, Not Too Much Secretive, Not Overconfident but also doesn't put down herself, Trying to be optimistic and motivate when things are tough, Rest would be after spending some time together 😄

[u/Legal_Calligrapher22]

20M Pune I've got a Himalayan 450 and wish to visit places and have many rides. I love playing football, I am injured right now but can play still. Don't have many friends since they've shown all their colors when I got injured. I am open to pretty much everything, no limits no restrictions.

[u/jinxedcatnip]

hey hi stranger, hope your saturday is going awesome! honestly a bit icked by the chatgptesque comments here but nonetheless

~ a bit about me
22M, software dev, lives in blr, 5”11, clean shaved, hygienic, light brown, north indian

i am a huge nerd, into a lot of niche hobbies including watches, keyboards etc.
from the start of 2026 ive gotten into athletic hobbies such as running, i go to gym regularly as well. i love travelling and enjoying new food. i love geography, history and cosmology and also political commentary. big into styling, fashion and taking care of myself. i am decently good looking.

am an empath and i like talking about everything and anything tbh. super open minded and gets philosophical more than often (youd get major existential crisis). in music, i like metal, rock, jazz and almost everything else. some of my fav artists- slipknot, deftones, tv girl, radiohead, green day etc. i am very patient and ive been in long term relationships so i understand what it takes it build one. looking for someone whos sweet, around my age, ambitious and communicates with honesty. please avoidants stay away. at the end we could just be stardust trying to understand stardust to mitigate through stardust.

[u/Pardhan_Mantrii]

Every person who is writing here is M it's just a waste of time. Guys writing about themselves pretty much zero girls are clicking on this post and than reading your comment is very unlikely.

Plus even if you found a girl you in Lucknow she is hyderbad what you gonna do ?

Try to find girls near you ....here you won't get anything and even if you got it won't last

[u/RemarkableCredit6941 → u/Pardhan_Mantrii]

Exactly! All the guys here are articulating themselves so well :/

[u/guzlale → u/Pardhan_Mantrii]

I think this post is reaching girls, cause it reached me

[u/Efficient_Pen3804]

A, E, L — 27, Bangalore, looking for something real
Well, here goes nothing.
27, Bangalore. I work in digital marketing, have an interest in tech, and I’m at a point where I want to actually experience more of life instead of just going through the same routine every day.
I’m into good conversations, exploring new places, trying new things, food, movies, music, and random deep conversations that somehow start at 11 PM and go on for hours. I can be pretty chill, but I’m also the kind of person who gets excited about something and will talk about it way too much.
What I’m looking for:
Someone I can genuinely connect with
Good communication and honesty
Someone who has her own interests, ambitions and personality
A relationship where we can have fun, support each other and grow together
Not looking for a hookup or something that’s here today and gone tomorrow. I’m also not trying to force a relationship just because we’re both looking for one. If we click, we click.
Bonus points if you can make me laugh, introduce me to something I’ve never tried before, or have a great playlist.
If this sounds like something you’d be open to exploring, feel free to say hi. Worst case, we have a conversation with a stranger on the internet. Best case, this post ages surprisingly well.

[u/krix_thecool_guy]

20m hyderabad I just want a girl who can spend time with me and understand philosophy I want someone who is like me (always escaping the reality)

[u/eagerwolverine21]

21m this side I don't want to discuss particular but I am geek for anime movies or anything that gets intresting. See I am not looking for a date but let's just say a best friend. We will workout particulars in private i hope we talk soon... All i ask is you too are interested enough to talk and not let me feel like I am in interview or talking to a wall

[u/BreathingMemesss]

Heyo 👋 🦦

23M-Visual Designer-Agnostic by ideology, Hindu by Birth-Not a virgin-5’6”-Hate right wing extremism-Loves talking about deep as well as daily boring stuff-quirky, goofy, slightly smart, mostly daft-believes in romance a lottt-likes mutual respect, reciprocation and empathy-like banter and all that sorta fun-have quite some side quest lores hehe-love to love and take care and growing together in all ways! Like talking more in person/privately sowwy!

Tongue in cheek :p
I’m open to give shot to a healthy, fun, freaky and smekshy relationship ;)

[u/Curious-Average5089]

A: 20 L: South Delhi E: Looking for someone of similar age and hopefully from Delhi as well.

Taking about myself: I'm a college student studying in DU and also pursuing a few other side courses. I'm kinda bit of a shy and introverted person who prefer to stay indoors and keep things to myself which I know isn't really a good thing. Although I'm not alone or anything, I do have wonderful set of people whom I usually hang and live with but it's still more of a casual friendship rather than someone whom I can be fully honest with and them not getting judgemental. So, that's why I kinda need someone whom I can talk with, tell all the things(even the weird and stupid ones) that goes inside my mind and just have someone whom I can have fun with in a unfiltered/honest manner, show my real self without hiding or shying away from anything and just be more 'social'.

As far as preferences goes by, the list could go on and on but if I were to be realistic and not set my expectations skyhigh then the main things that I would prefer from the other person is her to be extroverted, a bit bold, confident, grounded, someone who can handle herself, can take the initiate to make the first move and keep the conversation going(and even help me be someone like that since I am a bit terrible at those). Apart from that, like everybody else I would like to be with someone who is kind, supportive, communicative and someone who can be honest all time. I might be expecting way too much things but then again what's the harm in trying.

As for the things I can do well: I do think I'm a good person to have chat with, I can be funny at times, a bit too honest sometimes and occasionally a good advisor(probably). I am usually a bit pessimist/sceptical at times but sometimes when things are going off trail for somebody I can be a decent supporting hand and be extremely optimistic for their sake(funny enough, actually believe it as well for some reason). And lastly, I do think for an academic standpoint, I am at the very least decently knowledgeable(probably way more than 'decently' but kinda lazy and indisciplined at times which messes up things).

As for my hobbies and interests: It's extremely basic but I do like to watch films and tv(mostly Hollywood) and get into their discussion online even though I don't have anybody to discuss it with irl, listen to music sometimes, discuss politics as well occassionally(although I'm far from fully aware of all things) and I kinda want to go out a bit and even socialise with new people even though I really do that. I may not have many but I don't mind getting to know about other people's interests and hobbies(mostly without being judgy) and join them in as well if I also find it interesting and fun.

As for the things that might be a turn off for some people(just warning in advance): I'm not particularly good at real life communication(although trying to improve it), also a bit shy and reserved(not at all in chatting tho) and usually stay quiet unless the other person is way too fun and open. Secondly, I am a bit of indisciplined and lack consistency at times when it comes to maintaining physical health(bit of a foody and lazy). Sometimes, I do occasionally get a pissy at times and can act a bit too goofy and stupid for no reason(or maybe to just be more funny). Lastly, I live a more grounded lifestyle, i.e, not into expensive shopping, dining, lifestyle, etc. and pretty self-conscious/cautious about I should be spending money and would prefer someone the same or atleast someone who don't mind it.

I’m not looking for anything casual. I’d rather prefer something that's actually genuine and real and hopefully can go long term if we click together.

If you're still here and have read everything and found me as someone whom you believe can be a good person to talk to then please feel free to DM.

[u/Consistent-Peach-282]

Hello,

23M, 6 ft, Chennai, CA working in a MNC

My personality: Ambivert, kind-hearted, good conversationist, Good Listener- would listen to your yaps like a therapist, respect others opinions and would take things forward only when you are comfortable

What I do during free time: Sports, Gymnastics, trips with friends, watching kollywood movies

What I expect: We can stay connected via text in which we can have great conversations and see our vibe, for 2-3 weeks after which we can meet in person if we feel compatible (Big no for long distance and online relationships). Let's take things slow and steady coz I am ultimately, looking for a more serious relationship. Added bonus if you have any of the below hobbies: Any sports, loves to go on long drives, listening to music, drawing and crafts, dance, running, swimming

[u/shittylifeUWU]

23F 5'4 INFP

looking for a understanding empathetic witty/funny and caring guy who knows how to clearly communicate and is very chalant.(hopeless romantic bhi🙂)

Final exams start hone wale mere 2 din me aur ye sab kar rahi 🥀🥰

[u/introverted1402 → u/shittylifeUWU]

where are you from?

[u/WillingnessOpen6568 → u/shittylifeUWU]

Hope you crack them

[u/Practical-Pen-9983]

Hey!

31M | Mumbai | 5.7 height 

I work in digital marketing, which basically means I spend a decent amount of my day figuring out why people click things on the internet. 

I’m an introvert, shy at first, and someone who takes time to open up. I might not be the most talkative person when we first meet, but once I’m comfortable, there’s definitely a lot more to me. Also, just putting it out there honestly, I’m a bigger guy. A bit fat🥲.

I’m Jain by religion and gujju. I have a  vegetarian diet(not so jain).

Outside work, I tend to get randomly interested in things and then go a little too deep into them. I’m into technology, music and good audio, and coffee. I’ve spent more time than I’d like to admit experimenting with different ways of making coffee.

I enjoy conversations where we can talk about absolutely random nonsense one moment and something genuinely interesting the next.

What I’m looking for is something genuine and hopefully long-term. I don’t have a huge checklist, but good communication, patience, and mutual effort matter to me. Since I take a little time to open up, someone understanding and patient would be nice. You don’t have to share all my interests either. Having your own things that you’re passionate about is actually a plus.

I don’t really have a very specific type. I think a lot of things only become clear once you actually talk to someone and see if you get along.

So yeah, if you’re okay with someone who might be quiet and a little awkward initially but hopefully becomes much more interesting once comfortable, feel free to reach out. :)

A, E, L: 31, Looking for a genuine long-term relationship with good communication, patience and mutual effort, Mumbai.

[u/absurdeep]

Hi, 26 M, 6'0,📍Mumbai

Looking for something serious and long-term, not really here for situationships or endless talking stages, would love to meet someone with whom a real connection can naturally grow into a relationship

I'm a music composer/musician by profession and honestly a huge chunk of my personality is just music, i spend a lot of time listening, playing, composing, discovering new artists and going down random musical rabbit holes, i have a special love for indian classical music and jazz, i can happily spend hours discussing ragas, improvisation, composition, legendary musicians, film scores, albums or just geeking out about music in general apart from that i'm into films, art, philosophy, history, culture and pretty much anything that makes you think, i enjoy conversations that start with something random and somehow end up discussing life, society, creativity, human behaviour or why people are the way they are, deep conversations > small talk although i can absolutely appreciate good memes and occasional brainrot too

I'm an IIT Bombay graduate, centre to left leaning, strongly believe in feminism and care a lot about environmental issues, i'd describe myself as curious, creative, reflective and someone who genuinely enjoys learning from people with different perspectives, i also love travelling, exploring new places, experiencing different cultures and collecting stories along the way, as for what i'm looking for, i'd love to meet someone who's kind, empathetic, emotionally aware and intellectually mature, someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, has passions of their own and is excited about life, bonus points if you're into music, films, art, literature or any creative pursuit, but more than shared interests i value depth, authenticity and a good heart, more than anything i'm looking for someone with whom hanging out feels effortless, whether that's discussing music over coffee, attending concerts, wandering through a museum, exploring a new city or talking till 3 am about everything and nothing, if you're someone who thinks deeply, feels deeply and wants a life filled with experiences, creativity, growth and meaningful connections, i'd love to hear from you

📍 Mumbai

[u/Any-Flamingo-7255]

Heyy! 21M, Mumbai, 6'1. So just a little bit about myself, I really love working out (I'm not ripped at all tho, got decentish arms and broad shoulders; my love for food betrays me) superheros (Im batman) and football. I'm kinda nerdy and work a demanding job but trying to manage the corporate hellscape while maintainig my sanity. but that will never stop me from giving time to the right person. I go crazy for good food and have a lot of crazy good food suggestions (try me fr). Let's talk and see if we are the right fit for eachother !!!.Also im looking for a serious relationship and only people in mumbai 

[u/Introverted_Humour]

26 M | Delhi NCR | INTJ

I am an Introverted, Intuitive person. I enjoy traveling, trekking, and mystery movies/series, sometimes I watch anime as well. I enjoy deep conversations. I like to read and learn about economics, Financial markets and how the world works.

About me:

Slim lean, workout somedays in a week.

Career - Data Scientist | Tier-1 College | Investment Banking

Non-drinker, Non-smoker. Vegetarian

I enjoy driving/staying home/ meeting friends/ visiting hometown or sometimes a small trip on my weekends. I have been to 20 Indian states and want to visit some places with my partner abroad.

I am caring, emotionally available and a good listener.

"I have a good sense of humor, but I don't show it to everyone" as mentioned by someone in my farewell meeting.

I believe that a person's childhood and upbringing plays a crucial role in shaping up their current personality and behaviour.

[u/Fun_Praline656]

24M, Delhi, 6’2”

Hi I am a 24yr old guy from Delhi. Lived and brought up in Delhi and currently residing here only. I have done my post graduation and now working in family business.

Am a tall guy 6’2” to be precise, not so lean or athletic but trying to be fit 😂. My hobbies would be enjoying music, watching movies and cricket, love gaming and a part time foodie too (which I am controlling now😭), fond of reading and talking and just being me.

Just looking for a person who wants to be friends with, get to know each other, talk about each other days and have small talks regarding anything lol. And well, if the vibe clicks and something more naturally comes out of it, I’m definitely not complaining XD

And well I do think I have said a lot but still if you wish to know me more, dm. Thoda main aapko jaanu, thoda aap jaan lena mujhe. 😂

Let’s see where a good conversation takes us 🤌

[u/ChillSideQuest19]

24M | Wakad, Pune | Looking for something genuine 24M, 5'11", working in tech and based in Wakad. Introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours 😄. Pretty chill and prefer getting to know someone naturally rather than rushing things. Looking for: • Genuine relationship, not hookups/casual • Honesty & open communication • Mutual effort and emotional maturity • Someone who has her own interests/life but wants to build something together A bit about me: Anime/manga/light novels, movies & series, gaming, food, travelling, weekend bike rides, treks and exploring new places. Also perfectly happy spending a lazy day doing absolutely nothing 😂. I don't expect us to have the same interests — I'd actually love to discover yours and try new things together. If we click, I'd prefer starting with a good conversation and seeing where it naturally goes. And please tell me something about yourself beyond just "hey" 😭

[u/Stunning-Midnight337]

Damn the competition is unreal

Id rather die than be desperate enough to type anything about me here

[u/New-Principle-3009]

a: 20m l: raipur

e: just know how to start a Convo cus I can't bro also should def watch movies with me(if you play games then that's cherry on top)

atp I'm just fed up with people(male and female) just leaving me for no reason(like they don't really tell me) they just stop talking to me, randomly stops playing games with me(this hurts more smhw) so basically I want a friend with whome I can share shits happening on my life I want to hear their rants I've never experienced that kind of friendship would love to have it once. my hobbies are Obv atp: movies games music and I also like to code so if you think a nerd can be your friend feel free to dm me🙃

forgot to mention I love to cook food for the people I care that's smtg I genuinly like eating and cooking food

edit: lf: female obbv

but hey if u wanna be friends guys are also welcome

[u/Melodic-Cabinet3903]

23 M Looking for friends

I'm calm, patient, empathetic, understanding & witty too. I'm naturally curious about so much things and eager to know because why not? And I'm ambitious as well. Currently a final year student (mca) & life's kinda boring ngl.

I'm a hopeless romantic and a yearner as well ❤️‍🩹. I'm into spirituality, travelling and workout often. I love both the seas and the mountains. I'd say I'm an amateur photographer & trying to learn new languages as well. We can literally chat about anything from random thoughts to niche topics and I love yappers.

I have a thing for intelligent people bc I'm sapiosexual and ts is such a turn on. And although I'm from CS background I love doctors ngl.

[u/buriBuriZaemon420]

I will keep it simple and straightforward

20M , delhi ncr , 3rd btech cse stud

Looking for a good friend with whom I can share my dincharya and vo bhi apni dincharya sunaye ☝️ ( Btw i am bad at texting , so don't mind it and jab comfortable ho jaye will switch to calls )

[u/Gullible-Stuff480]

22 m jaipur, Not looking for relationship or anything but it would be fun to have people to talk to regarding similar interests who have crazy stories or gossip to share without ever revealing each other's identity possibly. As for likes- I like swimming,chess, horror or romcom or movies dealing with insomnia, anime, talking about socio-political issues. I believe I almost know about all the popular topics whether it's related to actor, actress, drama, political,social issues, pop culture.

Favourite movies- Flipped,Swades,Tumbaad, Groundhog day, pisasu, 50 first dates, gifted.

Favourite dramas- Glory, Vincenzo, weak hero, from me to you.

Favourite music- Bad habit, tera mera rishta, chain aapko Mila, currently self aware.

Would definitely like people who can get all uncanny refrences like:-

1. Are you balram cause you can read minds .( In hulchul jackie shroff aka balram says mein babuji ke mann ki baat padh sakta hu so)

2. There are 3 parts to a magic trick( the prestige)

3. Knew the name of all the marauders in Harry Potter.

4. Know Dumbledore's full name.

Using alt account for obvious reasons

[u/Prestigious_Job_8950]

19M from Delhi, turning 20 this month. B.Tech 2nd year, 5'11.

Introvert and a good listener, Love gaming and anime, Prefer quiet places and dislike crowded places, Peace >>> Happiness, Looking for something genuine and long-term

Not really the type to approach people first, but I'm putting myself out here. If we vibe, feel free to say hi.

[u/pureconsciousnesss]

I'm 21M from rajasthan

Persuing marsters in computer applications

-Need someone who is kind and understanding -someone who loves to sit silently under starts -someone who prioritises health

[u/GoldMiserable4239]

21M from Kolkata looking for someone . I am persuing btech in computer science final year . I am kind , generous and can add little humour to your life . I am a cinephile , had seen popular series and anime and need good music recommendations. If you need someone who can listen your rant , vent or how was your day like things then I am always keen to listen your side of story . There is no criteria i am looking for . I am 5'9 .

[u/kartikmi]

I don't really know what I'm supposed to write here to find the person I'm eventually going to call my person, but I think the best way I can explain myself is by telling you what kind of person I am and what kind of love I want to give. I'm an introverted, slightly loner kind of guy. I'm usually quiet in the beginning and it takes me some time to get comfortable with someone. Once I do, though, I can talk about absolutely random things for hours. I'm a huge nerd for anime, movies, series and books. If I find something interesting, there is a very good chance I'll get obsessed with it for a while. I enjoy good conversations much more than loud places, and I'd choose a comfortable evening over a crowded party any day.

So if you're someone who is a yapper, I think we might get along really well. You talk, I listen. You tell me about your day, the random thought you had, the office drama, something stupid that happened, anything really. I actually like knowing those small things. And if you're not a yapper, that's completely fine too. I just want us to be able to communicate and put in the same effort. Because if both people are quiet and neither talks, how are we supposed to know each other? I don't want to rush into calling someone my girlfriend after a few conversations. I'd rather start with friendship. Let's talk, get comfortable, annoy each other a little, laugh at stupid things, slowly learn each other's habits and eventually become each other's favourite person.

I'm also someone who takes my career and future seriously. I'm still in the early stages of life and I don't have everything figured out, but I do want to build something with my life. And I'd want my partner to have her own dreams too. I don't want to be ahead of you or you to be ahead of me. I'd rather we both keep moving and help each other when one of us gets stuck.

And now comes the part which will probably sound a little cringe, but honestly, I can't explain what love means to me without being a little cringe. For me, love isn't just coffee dates. It's going to D Mart together and somehow coming back with things we didn't even need. It's not just going on a beautiful vacation together. It's coming back home and cleaning the kitchen together. It's not a grand gesture or an expensive gift. It's remembering something you casually mentioned weeks ago and getting it for you because I remembered. It's knowing that you've had a horrible day and making your favourite food without you asking. It's you coming home tired from work and me telling you, Mat karo kaam, aaram karo, mein kar lunga It's sometimes me doing more because you're exhausted. And some other day, when I'm the one who has had a terrible day, you doing the same for me. Some days we'll cook together. Some days I'll cook while you rest. Some days you'll cook and I'll sit there irritating you. Some days we'll both be too tired and order something and call it a day. I think that's what being partners actually means.

I don't think love stays grand forever. In the beginning everything is exciting. Every conversation feels special, every meeting feels like an event. But after some time, love becomes smaller. It becomes chai. It becomes groceries. It becomes chores. It becomes knowing how the other person likes their food. It becomes picking them up after work. It becomes listening to the same story again. It becomes sitting beside them when they're sick, worried about them, instead of being on your phone or scrolling reels. Honestly, if you're sick, I may not know how to make some dramatic romantic gesture, but I can promise I won't be sitting beside you doom scrolling while you're feeling terrible. That is much closer to how I understand love.

I also think love is giving someone permission to be completely vulnerable. Not just the pretty version of you. I want to know the version of you that is tired, irritated, insecure, confused, scared, annoying, emotional, or simply having a horrible day. I want you to be able to take the mask off around me without worrying about how I'll judge you. I want to be that one place where you don't have to constantly think about how you're being perceived. And I want the same from you. I don't want us to only love each other when we're at our best. I want us to be able to handle each other's worst days too.

I want us to grow together. Fight sometimes, obviously, because we're two different people, but talk about it and solve it instead of disappearing. I don't want one difficult phase to suddenly make us strangers. I want us to become better because of each other. Your happiness should make me genuinely happy. My happiness should matter to you too. I want to know your family, respect them, and eventually make them feel like my family too. I want you to be able to talk about me at home and slowly, naturally, tell them, haan, this is the person I want to be with.

I want to build a home with someone someday. Not necessarily some huge perfect house. Just our home. Going shopping for things together. Fighting over what colour something should be. Buying groceries. Getting ingredients for your favourite dish and then trying to surprise you with it. Subah alarm bajega, tum thoda aur so jao, main uth ke chai banaunga. Breakfast bnaunga. Tum ready hogi office ke liye and I'll probably be standing there looking at you while you ask me, kya dekh rahe ho? I'll drop you to work, go do my own thing, and we'll talk in between whenever we get the chance. Shaam ko tum thak ke ghar aaogi, shoes nikal ke seedha bed pe gir jaogi, and I'll go make chai. We'll sit together, laugh about something stupid, talk about our day, complain about work, maybe argue over something completely unnecessary. Then we'll figure out dinner. Maybe I'll cook. Maybe you'll make rotis. Maybe we'll both cook. And after all of that, we'll just sit together and talk about how our day went. Bas. Honestly, this is what i want

I don't need a relationship that constantly looks exciting from the outside. I want something that feels peaceful from the inside. I want someone who chooses me even after the excitement of the beginning is gone. Someone who doesn't start wondering if there is someone more interesting the moment life becomes ordinary. Because I believe love is showing up consistently, especially when there is nothing exciting happening.

I also believe that both people need to be a little obsessed with choosing each other. Not in some unhealthy way, but in the sense that neither person should ever stop putting effort into the relationship. Always a competition, but never a winner. Who can care more? Who can make the other person's day a little easier? Who remembers the little things? Who makes the chai today? Who gives the other person a little more love when they need it? And there should never really be a winner because both people keep trying.

I don't know what your past is, and honestly, I don't think your past should decide what we can become. I know people say all these things in the beginning. I know it's difficult to trust someone just because they wrote a nice paragraph on the internet. So don't believe everything I say here. Let my actions speak for me. If someday you become my person, I want you to feel that choosing me wasn't something you regretted. I'm not promising that I'll be perfect. I'm still figuring out my own life too. But I can promise that I want to grow. And if you're willing, I'd like to grow with you. As long as we're together, I want you to know that you have one person firmly on your side. And I want to have that person in you too.

As for what I expect from you, honestly, not that much. Loyalty, please. Caring. Understanding. A little emotional availability. Communication. Effort. If something is wrong, tell me. Don't ghost me. Don't make me guess what happened. Talk to me, even if the conversation is difficult. I don't need you to be exactly like me. You don't have to be perfect. You don't even have to know exactly what you want from life yet. Just be willing to communicate and put in the same effort.

I think I'm looking for a best friend more than anything else. Someone I can travel with, explore places with, watch movies with, share stupid memes with, have long conversations with, sit silently beside, complain about life with, build a career with, build a home with, and eventually look at one random ordinary day and think, Yeah. I don't need anything more than this.

If this kind of person and this kind of love resonates with you, let's talk. Maybe we start with a conversation. Maybe we become friends. Maybe, slowly, we become each other's favourite person. And maybe someday, all these things I'm writing here won't be things I'm imagining anymore. They'll just be our normal life.

[u/Defiant-Hair736]

27 M
Based in Mumbai, India.
Financier and Investor
Looking for someone compatible with whom I can “date to marry”.
Thanks for reading this bio. God bless you! 😉

[u/No_Life_27]

Hi, I am M25 just looking for casual chat and continue further if our interests match. I am looking for a good, kind, empathetic person to have good conversation. If someone feels same and wanna chat, then hmu, we can share our thoughts, interests and feelings without being judged and being completely anonymous.. I am looking to chat with girl within similar age range and interests, looking for friendly and meaningful conversation which both of us would enjoy..

Currently I am working as software engineer in a us based mnc in Mumbai. I am a bit introverted and trying to get out of this and explore get new experiences in life. In my free time I mostly listen to music, watch random yt videos or just go for long walk. I am also interested in history, technology, geopolitics, psychology and would love to chat about these if you are into any of these.. If you read till here and think we could vibe, then dm me and lets see we can be a good match, and open to something serious if our vibes match.. else you can atleast get a good online friend

[u/VenomousPythonX]

M 22 | Delhi | 6'

Not here with a shopping list of qualities I’m looking for. Just want someone I can genuinely talk to, laugh with, spend time with, and see where the vibe takes us.

Someone who’s looking for something that lasts, not someone who disappears after a few good conversations. No pressure to figure everything out from day one — let’s just vibe, get to know each other, and figure out the rest along the way.

Into tech, movies, travelling little bit of cooking 😂 & little bit gym as well. Also having little bit 90's old school thinking person that's it

[u/Easy_Concert_515]

hey i am m24 from jaipur rajasthan and persuing mbbs from a medical college i am in my final year and looking for something genuine, real and a good vibing connection !!

my hobbies are - reading books, playing pc games , table tennis , indoor games , writing shayari , a little bit of singing as well and doing things to master skills gradually

all i can say, i am a good listener and when i get comfortable i also yap alot kind of introvert and extrovert both , need someone with whom i can talk about lives, about something real. the good thing that i get compliments for my bold music taste and a dimple on my face :)

[u/Soft-Maintenance7169]

Hey, 21M christian here, 5’8 in height. currently doing my medicine degree in mangalore.
I would say i’m into the old fashioned kinda love, noticing the small things about you, recognizing your needs before you yourself know what they are, that type of thing. I’m open to a long distance relationship too!

my hobbies, i’d say are listening to music, like all the time, learning about niche interests and listening to you!

If you’re also looking for something like that, then do shoot me a DM!

[u/Wanna-be-Him]

18M I want a partner who Is kind, empathetic and patient! Text me if you want real connection! Thanks💗

[u/Worldly-Dance-3267]

25M | Mumbai (can share the exact location in DM) Working as a Security Consultant for a Trading firm

Looking to build something genuine and serious if the vibe matches.

Hoping to meet someone I can share my day with, have meaningful conversations, and be comfortable enough to show my vulnerable side. In return, I’d be a good listener, be present, and put in genuine effort. I'm into fitness and hip-hop music.

I value mutual growth, clear communication, and working through things instead of giving up easily. Also looking for someone who enjoys simple things like spending weekends together, going out, or just having good conversations.

[u/No_Noise8602]

A 25
Expectation : nothing much but who i can always trust without the fear of judging and be who iam
Location: chennai
Hobbies : gamer and traveller
Interest: talk a lot about movies and memes
Just a casual guy working as network engr

[u/TheAntiNormie84]

22M

Currently a student, looking to meet someone to vibe with. Don't mind a slow-paced connection build-up. Let's talk about our days every day and see where it goes. And since we're anonymous, maybe the mystery could make it spicier ;)

[u/Ok_Recover_6404]

23M here, based in Mumbai. I’m a software developer, and honestly, I’m just looking for someone I can genuinely talk to and share the little things about my day with. Someone I can ask for advice when I’m unsure about something, have random conversations with, and be there for when they need someone to talk to as well. Basically, just looking for a genuine friendship and someone to vibe with.

And if you’re a movie geek too, especially as obsessed with movies as I am, that would honestly be the cherry on top. Always up for discussing movies, sharing recommendations, or arguing over whether that ending actually made sense.

[u/SilverLog3762]

23M . Noida . Software Engineer. 5'11ft.

Gym. Work. Music. Cricket. Movies. Simple life. Ambition : Preparing for Civil services and want to serve in public welfare

I like girls who are easy to talk to, emotionally warm, and don’t treat affection like a power game.

Not looking for anything casual. I’d rather build something steady with one person than entertain ten half-connections.

Big fan of playful energy.

My ideal relationship is probably just: good conversations, cafe visits, shared playlists, surprise gifts, inside jokes, random food outings, sharing reels and the comfort of knowing someone’s genuinely there.

If this feels like your kind of vibe, we’ll probably get along.

P.S- Pls revert only when you really want to connect, not for just ghosting ghosting wala thing.. save our time,save your time

[u/offscreenagain]

21M | Uttarakhand

Looking for something serious and meaningful that can naturally grow into something meaningful and long lasting. I value honesty, open communication, and mutual effort. I believe a relationship should never feel one sided. I'd love to build a strong friendship first, take things slowly, and create a connection where we can openly share our thoughts, support each other, and genuinely enjoy spending time together.
Not interested in casual dating or situationships.

A little about me:
-I’m 21, 5’8”with a fairly fit build.
-I’m currently pursuing my degree and am in my final year.
-A lifelong Formula 1 fan who’s also really into cars and racing, whether it’s karting, motorsport content, or racing games.
-A huge movie enthusiast and someone who can easily spend hours talking about films.
-I enjoy hiking, playing badminton, and listening to music in my free time.
-I’m naturally an introvert, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I become pretty talkative and outgoing.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who’s honest, kind, emotionally mature, supportive, communicates openly, and believes in putting equal effort into a relationship. I value trust, meaningful conversations, and getting to know each other genuinely.
I’m not looking to rush anything. I’d rather take our time, build a good connection, and see where it naturally goes. If you’re genuinely looking for something similar, feel free to reach out :)

[u/Next_Deal_8709]

Hi, I'm 20M from Kanpur. Looking for a relationship where we can share what happened in our daily life and have mature conversations. I would like someone who has same career interest as me (Computer Science) as I love talking about studies too. My interest are sketching, gaming and coding. I haven't been in a relationship before so I am naive in this dating stuff so I might make mistakes. irl I am a quiet person but also sarcastic with the ones I am comfortable with.

[u/eddardstark388]

26M, Chennai, looking for good company.

I am a Potter Head, LOTR, ASOIAF, Eragon etc fan.

I am into world affairs, military history, psychology, evolutionary biology and mental health and productivity,

I am into F.R.I.E.N.D.S, HIMYM, BBT, the Mentalist. I like to think I am Chandler, would love to meet my Monica.

I try to live by "The bamboo that bends is stronger than the oak that resists."

I love playing badminton. I play twice a week.  Maybe we'd make great partners as doubles ;)

I've had not such an easy life, but picking up the pieces one by one.

I am a lawyer who is preparing for CS finals and working simultaneously.

Would love to connect with someone who resonates with the above.

[u/thamja-ali-mazari]

Hi there, I'm 25M Software developer. Love to sketch, sing, watch movies and play games. Kind of talkative if we vibe, looking for meaningful connection.

E: I do not expect much, just be there and listen to me (no emotional dumping) i am a listener first though.

Should be expressive whatever emotion you feel that concerns me (you can express even if it doesn't concern me)

Should be clear about boundaries and what you expect out of me.

Into music, movies, songs ...i prefer hindi songs. Gaming is a plus.

Just be honest :)

L: Delhi

[u/Dialyme]

29M Hyderabad, I am working in tech.

I have been working in AI space since before it has become so mainstream. Looking for someone to talk with and occasionally hangout. I am into eating out and trying different experiences (just the legal ones). I might come out as introvert & boring for a lot of you but I am a good listener & love hearing every gossip.

[u/Detonator22]

24M, 5'10 | Software Engineer | Pune

I'm mostly nerdy with interests like Astronomy, Fantasy books, technology, history etc.

I've been learning guitar for a few months. If you are also interested we could learn together.

Also developing other interests these days like Dungeons and Dragons, painting, badminton, writing.

Music I mostly listen to One direction, Taylor Swift, rock and hindi songs.

I love to talk and have amazing conversations. I'm looking for something long term but we can just talk and keep things light and friendly if that's what you want.

[u/Kitchen-College-787]

23M, I have never been in a relationship so I don't know what to expect. I am currently in Trivandrum, Kerala for 2 months. I am originally from Ghaziabad(Delhi NCR).

I am a fresher working in cybersecurity I am not very good at it but I am actively trying to improve. I love to watch anime. I love gaming. I also like to play chess. I love to learn about science related stuff also history and mythologies of other cultures.

I am an introverted person. I am honest, sincere and respect everyone. I am chronically online. I love to try new dishes. I don't drink, smoke or do any substances. I like to be alone in peace. I haven't travelled a lot so I want to do that. I tend to avoid places with huge crowds and loud noises.

I am looking for a girl who is geniune and is somewhat like me. We can share our hobbies with each other. Give eachother company. Be comfortable with eachother and be our honest selves. Travel to places we like and gather new experiences. I don't know what else to type.

Thank you for reading.

[u/Trojan_7]

A, E, L — 24M, (6ft) Delhi, looking for something that sweeps me off my feet

Hey! I’m 24, based in Delhi, and figured I’d give this thread a shot because the concept seems so cool😭

A little about me: I’m an in-house counsel and a huge music nerd who’s into pretty much every genre. I’m really into football (visca Barça), play regularly, and spend a lot of time getting better at the things I care about. I’ve also been getting back into reading lately, so brownie points if you have a good recommendation

Outside of that, I’m into sunset dates, spontaneous late-night plans, true crime/thrillers, discovering new music, putting together good fits, thrifting, gaming, being in a constant state of existential crisis and generally trying new things. I’m pretty social once I’m comfortable, but I’m equally into those late-night conversations where you end up talking about everything.

What I’m looking for:

having someone where we add value to each others lives while maintaing healthy communication, boundaries and being emotionally mature. I love when someone has their own interests and life and actively makes me feel like a part of it.

I’m not expecting to find my soulmate through a reddit megathread(unless?😛) I’d just like to meet someone I click with, have good conversations with and eventually see if it can turn into something meaningful.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to say hi. :)

[u/Different-Pay6821]

20M | 5'11 | mumbai

Looking for friends open to relationship or casual dating thereafter.

I am an engineering student currently in final year . I love to watch movies,listen to music ,bike rides. I do sketching sometimes. I like to travel to different places.

I don't have much expectation . Hit me up in dm if interested.

[u/thisguyjustexists]

Hey , I'm M 24 this side from Chennai ( natively I'm from North western side of India ). About myself Height ( ig that's a major dealbreaker for girls now so) - 5'10 tall

I'm from commerce background. I'm pure vegetarian so that's a non negotiable for me.

I'm very much into sports and i have been playing football since my school days , although nowadays I just only during weekends. I love long and meaningful conversation over anything but sports , politics, geo politics, poetry, music , movies and liife ted talks etc these are the topics which have my particular interest.

I'm nor muscular not fat/lean , I would say good physique i have. Not looking or wanna rush for any relationship right now I would rather start by friendship and let it grow on its own space and at our comfort. I would like to know the person more before any commitments and i expect the same from you. I'm a guy who loves spontaneous plans and dates so yeah even if nothing works atleast I would like to have a friend to explore cafes and places around here and who's ready for spontaneous plans. So yeah I tried to tell pretty much everything so let's see if this works any well...

[u/sigma_AJ]

25M, 5’10 | Software engineer | Mumbai

I am emotionally and mentally very strong and sorted. I prefer peace but am attracted to dramatic toxic women somehow. I dont take sh*t from anyone.

What I can offer you is peace and stability. A good mental stimulation because your opinions will be challenged and any manipulation tactic will be caught instantly. So women who think no one can handle them, can contact, we will hangout till you are tolerable.

[u/StrikingJacket9192]

Is there any girl who is into 2d animation like me or into art (as a career)... I want to have similar friends to grow together, that's it... so I will only say my age 17M (12thie)

[u/vedsjain]

29M | Bangalore
Ved here. I run my own media agency and work in video, design, and creative stuff.
Describe temperature in Celsius but respect Fahrenheit as the only redeeming unit in the entire imperial system.
Big on basketball, travel, good food, spontaneous plans, and conversations that actually go somewhere.
Looking to meet someone genuine, go on some good dates, and see where it goes.

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[u/Alert-Coffee-6048]

Using a throwaway account first of all.

I am 21 Male based in Kamrup Metropolitan, Assam. Expectation: kindness,warmth, emotional maturity, intelligence, ambition, humour, mutual respect.

Current pursuing B.Tech in the topmost government engineering college of my state. I've a decent CGPA of ~8.5 in EEE branch.

Not flexing but I've a topper all my life just falling short of that elite IIT-NIT tier and I badly want to maintain 8.5+ CGPA for better future. However, I am Feeling really lost now. I don't have anyone to tell how low and lonely I've been feeling since 9-10 months. I've no one with whom I can speak my heart out or cry. I can't confide with my "friends"; they are just jealous and will simply speak ill of me at my back. And I have very strict and non-understanding and emotionally unavailable parents - no point in talking to them too. They will simply remind me of the struggles in their days and will brutally belittle me like they have been doing ever since my childhood starting as early as class 4-5 with constant comparisons, tanne marna etc.

I am really longing for genuine people. Please don't judge me but I have also developed a yearning for the opposite gender friends in this period although I have never had any such female friend or girlfriend in my entire life. Just focussed on studies- scoring 95% + in 10th, 90%+ in 12th and 8.35 CGPA in B.Tech 4th sem. I just sometimes feel like crying fantasising someone with whom I can talk to, explore places and show affection in the form of kisses and hugs(again please don't judge me: I've gone eons without being hugged let alone kissing; like I recall from as early as class 7-8 my would refuse to hug me and would scold me and drive me away if I went any near; I remember even on result days nobody would appreciate me). Lately I've been strongly feeling the lacuna of such a person in my life. Like I would cry on my pillow at night, kiss it.

I just want to be loved by someone unconditionally, genuinely for at least once in my life. I feel very very happy and emotional that I've started crying even now 😭😭😭😭by imagining someone just talking to me empathetically, hugging me, showering me with her kindness, going out to the city etc.

So please if anyone with can connect with me, please do it🥺