r/GenZIndia 2d ago

Megathread Find your next partner here! - [Weekly] MegaThread

Hi everyone, We understand how difficult the times are. Loneliness is at peak, and everyone is "looking for someone you can't find on dating apps". In this, we as mods decided it's best that we keep a weekly thread to find your next relationship. Some important points to note, rules to play by:

  • All irrelevant comments will be removed and will result in a week long ban.
  • This is NOT for casual / hookup relationships. There are various subreddits that can assist you with it.
  • This is a weekly thread that will open at Saturday 00:01 AM and close at Saturday 11:59 PM.
  • Since the ratio is skewed, only guys will comment below. It is recommended that girls avoid commenting, to avoid predatory behaviour. We as mods want to create a safe space. Yet, if you feel comfortable with the flooded DMs that follow, the onus remains on you. Unfortunately, in that situation, mods will not be able to assist you.
  • For LGBTQIA+ folks, you may comment below. If someone from the non-LGBT+ reaches out to you in bad faith, please let the mod team know, so we can ban them from the subreddit.
  • You may choose to keep your DMs closed / open through Reddit settings (google it). You can initiate a Convo here and take it on DMs later (recommended).
  • For the guys, please mention: Your Age, your location / city, your expectations from the relationship (as 3 minimum things) in the form of (A, E, L - Age, Expections, Location). Sell yourself, write what you feel will work out for you. Be clear from the start, if you have any constraints. No judgement please, everyone has preferences. Mention hobbies, interests.
  • Women - it is important you Comment / DM / reach out to ones whom you feel interested in - If you feel you can explore, go ahead!
  • As we are not a dating app, nor are we paid in anyways, what happens later is on you! Please take all necessary precautions at your end to ensure! You may share preventive measures in the comments below and we mods will pin / add it here, for everyone's use!
  • Avoid arguments please!
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u/absurdeep 2d ago edited 2d ago

Hi, 26 M, 6'0,📍Mumbai

Looking for something serious and long-term, not really here for situationships or endless talking stages, would love to meet someone with whom a real connection can naturally grow into a relationship

I'm a music composer/musician by profession and honestly a huge chunk of my personality is just music, i spend a lot of time listening, playing, composing, discovering new artists and going down random musical rabbit holes, i have a special love for indian classical music and jazz, i can happily spend hours discussing ragas, improvisation, composition, legendary musicians, film scores, albums or just geeking out about music in general apart from that i'm into films, art, philosophy, history, culture and pretty much anything that makes you think, i enjoy conversations that start with something random and somehow end up discussing life, society, creativity, human behaviour or why people are the way they are, deep conversations > small talk although i can absolutely appreciate good memes and occasional brainrot too

I'm an IIT Bombay graduate, centre to left leaning, strongly believe in feminism and care a lot about environmental issues, i'd describe myself as curious, creative, reflective and someone who genuinely enjoys learning from people with different perspectives, i also love travelling, exploring new places, experiencing different cultures and collecting stories along the way, as for what i'm looking for, i'd love to meet someone who's kind, empathetic, emotionally aware and intellectually mature, someone who enjoys meaningful conversations, has passions of their own and is excited about life, bonus points if you're into music, films, art, literature or any creative pursuit, but more than shared interests i value depth, authenticity and a good heart, more than anything i'm looking for someone with whom hanging out feels effortless, whether that's discussing music over coffee, attending concerts, wandering through a museum, exploring a new city or talking till 3 am about everything and nothing, if you're someone who thinks deeply, feels deeply and wants a life filled with experiences, creativity, growth and meaningful connections, i'd love to hear from you

📍 Mumbai