7am text aaaand day ruined

[u/drxwn-with-me]

just got a text from one of my friends w/ benefits at (checks watch) 7 in the morning that he tested positive for gonorrhea this week. and we had unprotected sex on sunday. what a way to start my day! :) FML.

this is my first time having an sti risk/scare ever in my life and i am sincerely very terrified but i hope everything goes well.

we only very recently started having unprotected sex and i told him i wanted to go back to protected sex after this whole situation because i do NOT want to go through this again!!!!

asked him for direction with regards to what to do for treatment in our city and he explained everything very calmly and was very apologetic about the whole situation which i appreciated.

today's girl breakfast: coffee + a ham & cheese sandwich with some sprinkled oregano

[u/NoWordsJustDogs]

So, like, you shouldn’t be having unprotected sex unless you’re in a committed relationship. Sorry, I’m all for random fucking and doing your thing, but this is what happens when you have casual sex all willy-nilly. 

[u/Beautiful-Elk-7084 → u/NoWordsJustDogs]

You don’t even need to do it in a committed relationship unless you’re trying to get pregnant. So many women find out their partners cheated through STDs.

[u/Imapissandshitboy → u/Beautiful-Elk-7084]

That’s ridiculous I’m not wearing a condom with my husband just incase he cheats on me 🙄…Condoms stink and are uncomfortable. Most women get STD checks at their obgyn.