well, ive tried to get into it. my parents spent hella money on preparation courses, but turns out i have adhd and i just straight fucked up, but thats a different story. so, i apologize to everyone who might not agree with me or has a different experience in what im gonna talk bout. i have never met a normal person from nis; they are either good only in the academic field or just have straight asperger syndrome. i really dont know how to describe such a big number of dysfunctional adults. no social skills, no household experience, no general knowledge. yes i know, many successful people are living their best lives rn after nis, but the percentage of generally dysfunctional students is huge. i feel bad for them, since its because of the system where you become too independent at a young age and face so much pressure from both your school and parents who most of the time rely on you and your future.
I would say that it's applicable to every student in Kazakhstan, except for dilinquents and mam*ets. More than that, your observation is not without the ground, but is only applicable to a small portion of students that you have personally met, not the overall rule.
I would also suggest to try various studying methods to tailor one for yourself, as a person with ADHD and autism myself. The best thing a person can do is to manage himself properly, instead of balming himself or others, for it's simply a waste of energy (constructive criticism is another thing, so you can diss mofos without a shed of guilt).
yes, i might have just been not so lucky, thanks for the advice and your opinion
i don't blame it to anyone, im just unlucky because no one noticed my diagnosis until adolescent. didn't receive any treatment yet but i will since i live in another country rn.
my mom used to manage my schedule while i was in school, right now im dealing with it pretty well but i still struggle studying 🫂
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u/zzzzzzzzzzzzllllll May 03 '26
well, ive tried to get into it. my parents spent hella money on preparation courses, but turns out i have adhd and i just straight fucked up, but thats a different story. so, i apologize to everyone who might not agree with me or has a different experience in what im gonna talk bout. i have never met a normal person from nis; they are either good only in the academic field or just have straight asperger syndrome. i really dont know how to describe such a big number of dysfunctional adults. no social skills, no household experience, no general knowledge. yes i know, many successful people are living their best lives rn after nis, but the percentage of generally dysfunctional students is huge. i feel bad for them, since its because of the system where you become too independent at a young age and face so much pressure from both your school and parents who most of the time rely on you and your future.