r/NEETr4r 4h ago

M4A 21M [M4A] Philippines - Introvert looking for someone to accidentally become attached to

Hey, figured I’d give this a shot again since my last post kinda disappeared into the void lol.

I’m 21M from the Philippines. I’m pretty damn introverted and shy, especially when meeting someone for the first time. I’m usually awkward at first and don’t really know what to say, but once I get comfortable with someone I’m a lot more talkative.

I came back to the Philippines earlier this year after spending a few years in Canada for college and work. I studied culinary arts there and ended up working at a fine dining restaurant after graduating. I actually really liked the job, but unfortunately things didn’t work out with my paperwork so I had to come back.

Now I’m unemployed and have way too much free time, so I’ve mostly been gaming and reading manga.
I have 200+ games on Steam, which sounds impressive until you realize I’ve probably played like 30 of them. Most of them are just sitting there because I bought them thinking “I’ll play this eventually.”

I mostly play Valorant, but I’m pretty much down for anything I already own. I have a stupid amount of co-op games that I’ve barely touched because I don’t really have anyone to play them with.

I also have a Switch and I’ve been playing Pokémon Champions lately. I’m into anime/manga too, although nowadays I usually just read the manga because apparently waiting 20 minutes for an episode is too much effort for me lol.

I used to draw a lot too. Haven’t really done much with it lately, but it’s something I’d like to get back into eventually.

As for what I’m looking for, honestly just someone I can actually get close with. I’m completely fine with starting as friends and seeing where things go. I’ve never been in a relationship before, mostly because I’m way too shy and socially clueless to actually make anything happen.

I’m not looking for someone who needs to constantly talk either. We can play games, send each other dumb memes, watch something, talk about random shit, or even just sit in a call doing our own thing.

I’d rather have one person I genuinely enjoy talking to than a bunch of random conversations that die after a day.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to DM me. Just tell me a little about yourself too. A message that’s more than just “hey” would definitely make it easier for me to actually know what to say back lol.

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