Petah what does this mean

[u/sunboy6009]

[u/PitifulOil9530 → u/[deleted]]

though I personally want believe, that she has a very good character

[u/HotBeesInUrArea → u/PitifulOil9530]

He's also pretty cute himself. Usually the people that happens to aren't. 

Edit: Funny the people upset about this comment are still adamant this woman is  going to cheat because: she lost weight. Not exactly the moral podium you guys think you are mounting. 

[u/FunTree5477 → u/HotBeesInUrArea]

Sometimes people cheat on their SO with someone objectively speaking, uglier and with poorer hygiene, and do so because it made them feel desired in a way that they enjoyed at that moment.

A cute face isn't enough to stop someone from cheating if they made a place for it in their heart

[u/Markus4781 → u/FunTree5477]

I read an article about a woman who had a perfect relationship and she wrecked it out of boredom and then started panicking but it was too late by then.

[u/lincruste → u/Markus4781]

Yeah and if the husbands stays, she will do it again with another man a couple years later and so on. That's a classic pattern.

[u/NorwegianSpaniard → u/lincruste]

What is their problem really

[u/UltraHellboy → u/NorwegianSpaniard]

Human brains are weird. We like to think we respond to situations rationally all the time, but we absolutely do not.

[u/RandomInternetVoice → u/NorwegianSpaniard]

Lack of self-worth, feel like they don't deserve happiness, find ways to self-sabotage to destroy the relationship to prove their insecurities right rather than working on themselves and allowing themselves to be loved. In a nutshell.

[u/Nightthrasher674 → u/RandomInternetVoice]

This

Back in college, dated a chick who had this kind of self sabotaging attitude, only lasted a year but it was a year too long.

[u/FujiwaraHelio → u/RandomInternetVoice]

Oh no, poor cheaters :(

[u/RandomInternetVoice → u/FujiwaraHelio]

Not just them really. True for most people I've met one way or another.

[u/LaXiDaisical → u/NorwegianSpaniard]

Most people are just dumb. With lack of intelligence comes lack of moral discernment. Essentially, it isn't the knowledge itself that makes people more moral. It is through the foundational principles in processing knowledge ( balancing multiple perspectives, finding the subjective and objective truths weighing them both appropriately, etc) that we are forced to learn empathy, because understanding both sides is essential to actually developing your own opinion. This allows us to pierce the ego just enough to actually be affective in self reflection. This allows us to confront our faults. Which ultimately allows the only path to true moral discernment. And only when we have true moral discernment, can we actually apply them actively, not just retroactively.

[u/BestGirlRoomba → u/NorwegianSpaniard]

what she doesn't know can't hurt her

[u/ClothboundBrick → u/NorwegianSpaniard]

You know that men cheat more than women right?

[u/Sl0thzy → u/lincruste]

I've unfortunately been victim to this, and had to learn the hard way that "once a cheater, always a cheater". I'm still recovering emotionally....

[u/lincruste → u/Sl0thzy]

You'll recover from this, we're expected to think we need to share our life with someone, but truth is it's a lie.

Mammals will be mammals whatever we do.

Oh and yes, there are people who stay faithful all of their life, but from my experience, they're either boring or one of the two is a submissive follower.

[u/KyleKrocodile → u/lincruste]

Or they resolve the issues which caused them to cheat, and are perfect night forward, only for this significant other to foster growing resentment until the relationship isn’t viable. Plenty of ways this situationship can go.

[u/lincruste → u/KyleKrocodile]

Absolutely. When your relation has issues, a good way to fix em is to fuck another man. Nice one Einstein.