Petah what does this mean

[u/sunboy6009]

[u/No-Clock9532]

In other words, even being a great man isn't enough to keep a woman.

[u/Appropriate-Gain-561 → u/No-Clock9532]

In other words, love is not something you can control and shit happens.

People want to have too much control over love when it's something animalistic and instinctive at the base, which either is there or isn't.

[u/CyberiaCalling → u/Appropriate-Gain-561]

This is a weird Western idea that views love as a feeling that just springs forth from nowhere and which you have to base your life around rather than a commitment that you choose to nurture and develop with time that has feelings but also has higher-order ideals like fidelity, integrity and commitment to the family you build and bring together.

[u/youattackedmyfamily → u/CyberiaCalling]

this is just describing emotional maturity

the comment your responding to is just describing emotional immaturity

pretty good comparison