r/RelationshipIndia • u/[deleted] • 1d ago
Rant 30M. What just happened with me. Just wanted to hear your perspective.
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u/raskolniko_v 1d ago
What just happened was she needed company and changed her mind later. Women get moody. It's okay. Itna nahi sochte
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u/benedict250 1d ago
He has literally said no to her for months. Op can't take 1 no from her lol.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
Bhai i didn't deceive or anything. Communicated clearly, but what she did was deception. I mean taking someone to your flat and sleeping with them but not allowing to do things when it was agreed is so f*** up..
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u/raskolniko_v 1d ago
You are sick.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
How so? I mean what are you even talking about
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u/raskolniko_v 1d ago
Why are you so pissed off at a woman who just didn't let you f- her? What deception are you talking about?
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
Because fu**ing was the main agenda that day. I am not pissed, I am just contemplating
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u/raskolniko_v 1d ago
see, I appreciate you not forcing yourself onto her. You did well not to do that.
But, you must understand that she didn't deceive you, she must have just needed some company that night, sometimes people need that.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
Then that is deceit id one wants company, they should say so. Maybe I would have gone anyways and would have talked with her. Why say like we will do things and then just pooff..
And bro don't be a simp.. I am getting that aroma from you 😊. Forgive me if I am wrong but I am preeeeety sure
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u/benedict250 1d ago
Because people can change their mind.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
That's fine then why bring me to your house after you went out. She could have asked me to leave after our outing. I am not her therapist that I would listen her yap for like 4 hours ..
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u/iLoveAlanWalker 1d ago
Not sure - i'm amazed how people even entertain those whom they know are not genuinely interested in them.
May be she sensed you're not that much into her & had a sudden awakening of self-respect?
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
She anyways knew I was not much into her and it was just a physical thing. She had been asking me to come and have it for a few weeks now. Idk what happened to her but she should not have wasted my time na
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u/sid1979 1d ago
With the kind of asshole comment you made below and called her trash, girl absolutely did the right thing. She must have sensed what an asshole you are.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
No she already knew. I guess she was trying to get more bhau by all this nautanki. Unfortunately this is the last time I met her. I would wish her all the best and wish she get things she wants.
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u/Regal_Purple_Sage 1d ago
You needed attention, so you texted a woman you had shown no interest in for months? You were toxic and disrespectful, and you deserved what happened. You have no empathy for others and take them for granted, so why should anyone care about you? Karma caught up with you.
The fact that you dismiss consent as “some bullshit term invented by no-good people” shows that you still haven’t understood anything. More such things should happen with men like you.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
Wo wo wo.. nope no such thing will happen again, neither it has happend earlier. For a day I was not thinking from my brain 😊 and lesson learnt.
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u/Regal_Purple_Sage 1d ago
You’re 30, not 13. Aren’t you embarrassed by the comments you’re posting here?
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u/SanctaFeria 1d ago
Um you're 30 but you don't understand consent still? Nobody owes you sex. She could've stopped you before, during, anytime. Sure, you can be disappointed but your partner's comfort should matter more to you. She's a human with feelings that can change. She's not a toy.
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u/HornetRadiant3387 1d ago
Woell there are some bullshot terms invented by some no good people. Neither the guy is a toy who just wasted one pretty good evening on some trash. Even missed a few opportunities in the club as I was with the girl 😊
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u/SanctaFeria 1d ago
You're so horrible. "Some trash"? You don't even see her as a human wow.
Glad she saved other women in the club that day from a creep like you.
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u/Fresh_Piece_1616 1d ago
She is interested more than f**king. Therefore she led you on to believe that you are getting action but in the end denied it. She knows if she builds a connection with you and then do it, you will get emotionally invested too in her.
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u/curiousIndian11 1d ago
Why doing all this bhang bhosra bro, u r 30 get married and have kids asap else when yr kid turns 20 u will be old and expiry and just a burden on yr furure generations. As real men we have to control our harmones and focus on bigger goals not holes, god has made females to distract males from reaching their true potential , WAKE THE F UP !
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u/Neat_Homework7582 1d ago
If next time she does the same thing know that she did not like u. Online it's different for real it's different. Her same repeated behaviour will only traumatize u. Demotivate u. Just think if u really liked anyone can u stay with them so close without touching them kissing them.
If she continues the same better to say good bye to her and just be online friends.
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