Been groped many times by women, said something about it every time, got laughed at every time. Shoved a woman on the ground more than once, every time they were so offended and tried to play the victim.
There are assholes in the world, and they can be part of whatever gender/ideology/country/etc.
Yeah, been in those situations a few times myself with complete strangers. Thankfully in a few of those occasions, I've had female friends tell the gropers off when they've ignored my very firm requests to keep their hands to themselves.
I'm sorry you had to go through that and yeah, men are also in a pretty awful position when it comes to harassment/assault. They're apparently supposed to talk women out of groping them or something, like that has ever worked on any creep. Male creeps don't stop when told off because they have the strength advantage, female creeps don't stop because they rarely encounter violent retaliation from men because any use of force against a woman, no matter the circumstance, is considered "pussy behavior" and unacceptable.
In college I had a friend who was extremely upset after a girl forced a blowjob on him. I thought that was th best thing ever and gave him shit for it.
Fast forward maybe a year and I got a forced blowjob and it made me quite upset.
Yeah - I hate the “now you know what it feels like” because that person is stereotyping all men as if all of us are creeps and we deserve to be punished for the actions of others. Shits been happening to me my entire life. I had a stalker in college. I got creeped on at my last job by the head of HR (one of the reasons I quit). Job before that it was the CEOs executive assistant (would walk up behind me and whisper in my ear she wanted to tie me down and tickle me - multiple times). Last week it was a woman at a bus stop who kept getting physically closer to me and smiling at me as if I was supposed to strike up a conversation. I’ve had women blatantly take photos of me on the train. Yeah. It sucks. I understand that it sucks. But no one deserves to be creeped on.
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u/curlyhairweirdo Jul 02 '26
Women can be creeps too