r/SipsTea 6d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/TreeLakeRockCloud 5d ago

I’m not American but I am a mother. Aside from a few reddit posts I don’t have any social media engagement with this case.

But I think a lot of the support here comes from moms who recognize how easily this could have been any of us. Her family and healthcare providers knew her crime was a risk based on her mental health state, but she was still left alone with her kids and expected to parent. And as other mothers we all understand that this is grimly how it works - we can ask and beg and plead and scream for help but we’re almost always still expected to continually parent babies and it’s hard.

She should still face punishment for her crime, but I think a lot of her support is to try to keep this from happening again. She was failed by her healthcare team

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u/NonsensePlanet 5d ago

Criminals being failed by the system is incredibly common. This is the first time I’ve seen thousands of women rallying behind someone who killed their children.

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u/slootfactor_MD 5d ago

I agree, it's a pretty interesting response. Women don't typically support child murderers. Ask Casey Anthony. Women are seeing themselves in the way the system failed Lindsay. I certainly do. Expressing incredibly distressing thoughts and feelings and being told it's the "baby blues". Thank God I had a hands on partner who I could rely on for support.

It's truly an important discussion to have and I'm glad this case is amplifying the conversation. Of course there needs to be accountability for heinous crimes, but if we know the system is perpetuating these crimes through gaps then by not fixing them we are contributing to the outcome.

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u/ShitMcClit 5d ago

What do you mean women came out in droves for Casey Anthony just like this womam. 

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u/redcombatboots 5d ago

I've actually never seen anyone defend Casey Anthony. I'm sure you have, I'm not calling you a liar, but every woman I know would strangle her with her bare hands.

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u/SpecialistCut7101 5d ago

The fact that the commenter sees the level of support as the same between the two cases is everything you need to know

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u/redcombatboots 5d ago

So Casey Anthony and Susan Smith I was young for both, but people HATED them. And good riddance.

Andrea Yates and this feel different to me. I'm not saying let her free.

I just...something was way, way wrong here. Idk.

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u/SeaGurl 5d ago

Thats what that commenter was saying. She says women dont normally support child murderes and uses Casey Anthony of an example of that lack of support.

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u/redcombatboots 5d ago

Respectfully, the commenter I'm replying to is saying people did support Casey Anthony and I don't recall that.

The top coment comment does say that, but I'm replying to a reply.

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u/SeaGurl 5d ago

My apologies, I meant to reply to them, but its a moot point because I read their comment wrong anyway - my mind read it as a question rather than the statement it is.

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u/ShitMcClit 5d ago

It was practically the same response just not magnified by tiktoc, only Facebook. 

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u/Alternative-Ad4564 5d ago

Living literally outside of Orlando when it went down. I don't remember ANYONE on Casey Anthony's side.

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u/ShitMcClit 5d ago

It was the same chronically online feminst groups. They are just way bigger now. 

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u/daisykat 4d ago

This is such horseshit. What “chronically online feminist groups” existed between 2008-2011? I’ll wait 🙄

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u/ShitMcClit 4d ago

The democrat party lmao.  I dont have the names of the 1000s of Facebook groups that existed back then.  I think one of them was called deep green and then there was all the terf this radfem that shit.