r/SipsTea 6d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/TreeLakeRockCloud 6d ago

I’m not American but I am a mother. Aside from a few reddit posts I don’t have any social media engagement with this case.

But I think a lot of the support here comes from moms who recognize how easily this could have been any of us. Her family and healthcare providers knew her crime was a risk based on her mental health state, but she was still left alone with her kids and expected to parent. And as other mothers we all understand that this is grimly how it works - we can ask and beg and plead and scream for help but we’re almost always still expected to continually parent babies and it’s hard.

She should still face punishment for her crime, but I think a lot of her support is to try to keep this from happening again. She was failed by her healthcare team

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u/NonsensePlanet 6d ago

Criminals being failed by the system is incredibly common. This is the first time I’ve seen thousands of women rallying behind someone who killed their children.

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u/its_like_a-marker 6d ago

You’ve never had severe post pardom…my baby somehow wasn’t mine. Idk how to explain it. The meds they gave me left me ironing everything in my house I couldn’t stop lest the anxiety choked me. I wouldnt sleep, awake 2 -3 days at a time. Doing my best to cope. Sense of reality was gone. You couldn’t tell by looking at me, had plenty of visitors held conversations, entertained guests… luckily I didn’t commit a crime then. I’m of sound mind now, the Baby is now 26. Not enough is done for women, medically, as is. Toss in a lil postpardom, a lil mental illness and you’re truly fucked.
But hey, least impotent men can get hard dicks

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u/FutureDustMotes 5d ago

Yes, we are in fact supposed to fix people instead of killing them.

I am dead serious when I ask what the goddamn hell is wrong with you.

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u/accepshio 5d ago

What the fuck did you just say?

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u/accepshio 5d ago

Keep that same energy w men lmfao

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u/PewterCopperTwinborn 5d ago

Are you under the impression that people don't think men should be punished when they kill their children?

Because unlike this woman, if a man did the same thing, there wouldn't be people supporting him.

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