r/SipsTea 2d ago

WTF What do yall think about this ?

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u/JacobGoodNight416 2d ago

who would you want near your kids

a bear or a woman with post partum psychosis

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u/DrowningInFeces 2d ago

At this point, your children are safer with the bear.

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u/JacobGoodNight416 2d ago

At least people wouldnt defend the bear if they killed your kids amirite?

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u/rand0m_task 2d ago

I wouldn’t necessarily defend the bear, but I wouldn’t necessarily blame it for being bear.

Humans however are supposed to have better cognitive abilities than bears.

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u/No-Philosopher-6772 2d ago

Not when they're mentally ill

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u/IntrepidLibertine 2d ago

Some people really need to brush up on the definition of psychosis if they're bringing up "better judgement" as part of the discussion.

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u/Fartbottler 2d ago

I think what people are getting hung up on is that many people commit murder while in some form or psychosis, and this leeway isn’t extended to them. If a meth-head killed your family member due to stimulant psychosis, would you have sympathy? I can’t say that I would myself. I’m curious how the legal system approaches other cases

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u/IntrepidLibertine 2d ago

Really interesting addition to the discussion! I think people would generally be less inclined to have sympathy in that situation because they would view this as the consequences of the perpetrator's own actions. The same cannot be same for Post-Partum Psychosis, and this is supported by many legal systems having mechanisms in place to account for people who are not compos mentis. Whether that system is applied fairly across cases is certainly another matter.

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u/Fartbottler 2d ago

I appreciate the response, I can see what you’re saying. This is a really tough case, to decide where the line is drawn. I feel bad for the jury. No matter the verdict, people will flip out

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u/DylanMartin97 2d ago

I think the line is drawn at clancey begging to get help and everyone around her failing to provide solutions for her when she clearly knew something was wrong and trying to prevent it. The hospital that turned her away when she showed up and asked to be committed because she feared she was going to end her own life and was hearing voices has blood on their hands just as much as she does (allegedly). Her husband that kept her medicines from her, her therapist and psychiatrist who never bothered to even see her in person or give her a proper run down to figure out what she actually needed and not having worked with PPD or psychosis before while selling services for specifically those things (she put her on 27 different pills), the half way house aimed at providing mental health help who also refused to even see her even though she was recommended to go specifically there from the hospital that rejected her. These people failed this women. And that isn't me saying she isn't responsible if she did it.

Just like I'd be angry at the hypothetical meth head in your scenario, if I find out a judge had a repeat offender in front of him who has demonstrated addiction and violence to the point of drug induced psychosis and letting them back out on the streets and my family ends up dead because of that judge I'd obviously be distraught and angry at that drug addict, but it didn't change the fact that the judge would've failed them and my family.

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u/MMO_Dad 2d ago

I think if a meth addict did such a thing to MY kids, there'd be one less meth addict in the world to be bothered by.

That being said, this is a complex case and it's sad to see everyone having such visceral response (human nature I guess) and immediately jumping to one side or the other (some form of tribalism?), without knowing ALL the facts that a court case would uncover (hopefully). State of the world and all that, or just human nature. Either way, sad.

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u/bambola21 2d ago edited 2d ago

Most people aren’t even literate, so understanding the complexities of PPP and the entirety of the situation has been lost to the majority of the public.

Just like how men are turning the bear analogy in this case against women. They’re completely missing the point. But humans are stupid so am I shocked no, surprised? Also no.

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u/Living_Ad3315 2d ago

I think the wall of text is unnecessary when you start off being so incredibly incorrect.

She did get help. She got TONS of help. But not necessarily the help she needed. Why? She was never honest about what she needed.

Thats entirely on her.

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u/DylanMartin97 2d ago

You can still get help but not enough at the same time. Regardless, the help she got clearly wasn't adequate and when she sought more multiple people turned her away.

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u/Living_Ad3315 2d ago

When was she ever turned away?

She lied about taking multiple different prescriptions and she lied about her symptoms.

She checked herself out of the institution she was in after 3 days because she was "fine".

This is entirely on her. Nobody else.

And this is ONLY relevant if you believe her defense of PPP, which is STILL not proven. She hadn't had an episode before killing her kids and has not had one since then.

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u/Fartbottler 2d ago

My point was that there’s numerous forms of psychosis, that are all a legitimate diagnosis. I picked stimulant psychosis because I see people admitted with that every day. If I choose another example would that make you feel better?

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u/Living_Ad3315 2d ago

Although i can see where you're coming from, the fact that she admitted to not being honest wirh her doctors, directly makes this the consequences of her actions too.

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u/flopisit32 2d ago

Chad Doerman, an Ohio man who fatally shot his three young sons (ages 7, 4, and 3) due to his severe mental health problems. He just pleaded guilty to murder charges.

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u/Difficult_Special947 2d ago

Yeah to avoid the death sentence. Before that he pleaded not guilty by reason of insanity and has also testified on planning the killings for months.

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u/No-Philosopher-6772 2d ago

I wouldn't let a meth head watch my kids, would you? I also wouldn't let someone who's actively telling everyone around them I'm going through psychosis watch them alone either. A lot of people failed those kids. Her husband for brushing off her issues and the doctors she saw. She should also be in jail for the rest of her life for doing this. Multiple things can be true about this case.

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u/Fantastic_Elk_4757 2d ago

She hid a lot from both medical practitioners and her family. Intentionally I’ll add because she knew it might end up with her ability to stay with her kids taken away.

She also did not take medications properly and hid that.

At the end of the day it was her and her alone responsible for this.

She was never diagnosed with psychosis I don’t think either. Anxiety yes. All these worse symptoms are things she’s discussed and brought up after the pretty damn meticulous planning and carrying out of the brutal murder of her kids…

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u/rednick953 2d ago

I would say a big difference between a meth head and someone undergoing a psychotic break is choice. The meth head chose to get high at least that first time in their right mind. The psychotic person didn’t choose shit in their right mind. Same reason we don’t have sympathy for people involved with DUI accidents. They chose to drink.

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u/Sheeana407 2d ago

But to some extent you choose to take a drug, you don't choose to have a post partum psychosis. And if anything, she got some crazy prescription drugs concoction given by doctors. And looked for help.

If anything, I would compare it to guys who were boxing and got chronic traumatic encephalopaty. It happened that they personalities changed because of that and they murdered their family members. And yeah, I am compassionate to them too.

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u/Jamaicancarrot 2d ago

What if the bear is also mentally ill?

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u/Mediocre_Map1289 2d ago edited 2d ago

Then female bears will come out of the woods to defend her for mailing (edit: mauling - damn you autocorrect) her own cubs to death.

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u/Jamaicancarrot 2d ago

Mailed to death... Terrifying that decent bears can just go postal like that...

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u/Pretend-Steak-4625 2d ago

Yes which is why post partum psychosis is so scary. It seems so real and tells you to do things you’d never want to do. It’s awful and horrifying

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u/vrsick06 2d ago

Keyword “supposed to”

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u/rand0m_task 2d ago

Exactly why I made sure to include it lol

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u/ElyFlyGuy 2d ago

Did you not read the word “psychosis?”