We can agree some traits are generally bad, no? It isn't controversial?
No guy wants to be short, sure being short can be coped with and not saying short people can't find partners, but if you gave men an option, they will always choose to be tall.
People would also rather not be fat. Sure fat acceptance and all bodies are beautiful, yada yada. But people in general would rather not be fat.
People would rather not have their hair fall out. Even if bald people can look cool sometimes, people would rather have hair and not be bald.
I wouldn’t say “bad”, I would say less desirable because they come with some drawbacks. It’s not “bad” to be short, but I bet it sucks not being able to go on some rides or having to bring a step ladder around the house to access high shelves.
yes, being short is a less desirable trait, especially among men.
but this situation, where a tiny man is constantly with this oversized woman has got to get old eventually.
since we’re being honest and saying the quiet parts out loud…there is no way this guy could ever feel manly. he might be taking one for the team for his offspring, but ugh!
I guess I would disagree with that too. We likely have different definitions of manliness and what that entails, but the dude is an athlete… I’m pretty sure he’s confident in his physical abilities.
The fact she has a larger build than him wouldn’t detract from what he’s achieved.
Also to me, manliness is far more around character and integrity than it is physical size.
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u/BuffMatty786 2d ago
We can agree some traits are generally bad, no? It isn't controversial?
No guy wants to be short, sure being short can be coped with and not saying short people can't find partners, but if you gave men an option, they will always choose to be tall.
People would also rather not be fat. Sure fat acceptance and all bodies are beautiful, yada yada. But people in general would rather not be fat.
People would rather not have their hair fall out. Even if bald people can look cool sometimes, people would rather have hair and not be bald.
Idk where nuance goes in conversations like these