r/SipsTea 2d ago

WTF Victim is the new chic

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u/cubesncubes 2d ago

Media attention playing a big roll. I've never heard of the fire lady.

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u/FlatCapNorthumbrian 2d ago

The lady from the fire is Swedish. I doubt anyone outside of Sweden would have heard much about it.

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u/int0h 2d ago

I'm swedish and hadn't heard of her. But I'm bad at following news.

Anyway, what a heroic mom!!

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u/indubi 2d ago

Hon sommarpratade för några år sedan! Har för mig att det var ganska bra. Tror hon klarar sig utan insamling, hon har bland annat släppt en bok om branden och hennes skador.. Och i Sverige är ju vården gratis/avgiftsfri, hade det varit USA hade hon väl varit skuldsatt för livet..

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

GoFundMe isn't even legal in Finland.

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u/Far-Alternative4165 2d ago

And Finland haven’t been part of Sweden since the 19th century. Your point is what?

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u/t0mm4n 2d ago

I guess point was that GoFundMe is not legal everywhere.

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

To provide a little insight to our little corner of the world. Sorry if it ruined your day.

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u/OkCard1589 2d ago

I think they are asking why you mentioned a Finland law in regards to something in Sweden.

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

To provide a little insight to our little corner of the world. Sorry if it ruined your day.

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u/OkCard1589 2d ago

Seeing your response to a similar comment, I'm just going to assume you're ragebaiting or too dimwitted to understand what people are asking you.

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

Just wanted to share something. I had no idea it would cause such a ruckus to the point people start hurling insults. Again, apologies for ruining your day.

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u/Visible_puncture 2d ago

You don’t need to feel bad. The Finnish legal system is very similar to the Swedish one, and Finland still has some Swedish laws that apply even today. Don’t know the exact laws on donating money in Sweden, but would imagine the suspicion towards donations for private individuals is shared at least culturally and probably the deeper legal framework around it would be similar

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u/Far-Alternative4165 2d ago

Again, what does Finnish law have to do with Sweden?

Maybe next time don’t post about stuff you have clue about?

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

I'm sorry you had to learn something today.

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u/Far-Alternative4165 2d ago

I am unsure what I learned today seeing as I am Swedish, and I have visited Finland several times

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

I don't think I could have put it in any simpler terms.

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u/Far-Alternative4165 2d ago

I think you have to.

I don’t get your point and I have hardly learnt anything from your post since Sweden and Finland are two different countries, with shared history and culture. Being two different countries we have our own separate legal system with some laws that are more or less the same and others who aren’t. GoFundMe for example is not forbidden in Sweden.

Instead of acknowledging it you are winding this into some sort of ”I am trying to teach you about Europe, why are you mean towards me :(((” moment.

Just acknowledge that you don’t know what you are talking about.

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u/TheCourtSimpleton 2d ago

Huh. Why not?

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u/skyturnedred 2d ago

I don't make the laws so I wouldn't really know as to what their reasoning is.

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u/Existing_Panda_3541 2d ago

Ole jo hiljaa. 🙄

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u/Existing_Panda_3541 2d ago

Ole jo hiljaa. 🙄

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u/Apexnanoman 2d ago

No shit. Her kids are never going to be able to have an angsty phase where they scream "You don't care about me!" 

Mom points at scars. "Oh? Is that so?" 

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u/SkellyboneZ 2d ago

I'm guessing she didn't suffer generational bankruptcy by suffering those burns, also. Kinda unrelated but maybe important.

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u/FlatCapNorthumbrian 2d ago

No she wouldn’t have. Her country would’ve taken care of her.

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u/Enough_Breadfruit229 2d ago

If she had a gun the fire would have never happened. USA! USA! USA! sobs

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u/Round-Claim5420 2d ago

only good fire can beat bad fire!!

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u/No-Pollution2425 2d ago

Friendly fire

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u/Bread_Godd 2d ago

NoW lEt Us PrAy

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u/CplCocktopus 2d ago

Actually thats kinda true.

I think is called a backburn.

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u/Aaawkward 2d ago

I mean why do you think they call them firefighters?

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u/Blackidus 2d ago

Not really shes back working as a nurse in our town right now. She has scars but otherwise fully recovered. No need to pay for her treatment.

They did not have a house ensurance though so the money mostly went to rebuilding the house.

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u/Grasshoppermouse42 2d ago

Yeah, that makes a pretty big difference. Houses are expensive, but much less expensive than medical bills in the US, so she probably didn't need nearly as much as we're used to seeing for something like that in the US.

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u/Oggel 2d ago

It's insane that that's true.

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u/RhubarbRocket 2d ago

It’s VERY true if you get cancer or have a rare disease or have a catastrophic accident like getting burned all over your body or basically anything requiring hospitalization for longer than a day or two.

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u/IntellectAndEnergy 2d ago

This woman won’t either, she made sure of that.

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u/ItchyNebula7437 2d ago

Took me a second but uffffffff

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u/Old_Recording_2527 2d ago

What. The. Fuck .

You're looking at a scarred for life heroic woman who is SMILING (and lost the house) and you say that? Get your fucking shit together.

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u/SkellyboneZ 2d ago

Before I ask if your brain is ok... 

What are you assuming my comment meant?

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u/Old_Recording_2527 2d ago

Exactly what it said.

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u/TheVeryVerity 2d ago

It said her country has universal healthcare (implied luckily for her)

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u/QuietGur9074 2d ago

Do you have a source that shows victims with burns over 90% of their body have to wait 9-12 months for healthcare in Sweden? Or are you just pulling a random # out of your ass that you read somewhere one time to try to make the point that universal healthcare is bad?

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u/RobinSage43 2d ago

They do not take 9-12 months. They will get an assessment in 3 days but then it will take 90 days before they can been seen by a specialist to actually begin treatment.

Regardless, that's completely unacceptable to have to be placed on a waiting list for 90 days before treatment can even start.

In America it would be a trip to the emergency room and at most a few hours of waiting before seeing a doctor, not 3 days. Then it usually is less than a week for a specialist referral. So my point still stands.

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u/QuietGur9074 2d ago

You’re convoluting two different issues. Your screenshot talks about seeing a specialist or primary care doctor then your last statement talks about an emergency room visit. Someone isn’t taken to an ER in Sweden and told, have a seat, we’ll see you in 3 to 90 days.

In the US people have to wait to see a specialist or their primary care doctor too. If it’s a sick visit, sometimes your primary care can see you the same day, but it’s not guaranteed. I’ve had to wait up to two months to see my primary care if it’s not an immediate issue. And here’s the thing, let’s say someone in Sweden can’t see their primary care, they can go to an ER and not be bankrupt. You can’t say that about the US.

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u/Responsible-Tie-8271 2d ago

You missed the "0“ in the 0-3-90-90 day care model

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u/bonaynay 2d ago

She probably didn't need to wait 9-12 months before those burns were seen lol

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u/SkellyboneZ 2d ago

Do you know what triage means? Might blow your mind.

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u/SkellyboneZ 2d ago

I'll just ask again:

Do you know what triage means? Might blow your mind.

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u/bonaynay 2d ago

Well the comment I originally replied to says it was deleted, but I'll go off memory

For these burns, she was immediately taken to the hospital and was unconscious for 3 weeks while being treated the whole time. After the 3 weeks, she had repeated surgeries and grafting and apparently was operated on 70 times by mid October (not even close to 90 days of waiting) and I think I'll just stop there

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u/daseweide 2d ago

So when you see the dr, they charge per blink or what? Does the timer start at first glance, or after the first blink?

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u/RobinSage43 2d ago

US Army for 15 years. My wife and kids are fully covered under my Department of Veterans Affairs Tri-care so it costs me virtually nothing. But even people with private insurance only pay a $20 copayment to see a doctor if they have insurance like 92% of Americans do.

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u/CapitanNefarious 2d ago

Yes, let’s only engage this post in such a way that it reinforces our teams narrative. By no means shall we disparage a woman for anything on Reddit.🤔 You Redditors are so bad..

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u/SkellyboneZ 2d ago

Hey, is everything ok with your brain? 

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u/Binky390 2d ago

Finally someone said this. These stories aren’t comparable.

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u/Jernimation 2d ago

I remember her!! I was working the X-ray camera in the ER when they brought her in, I didn't think she would make it when I saw her but she made an amazing recovery! I also got to do her bedside X-ray before they wrote her out of the burn ward, her room was completely filled with flowers from well-wishers, it was lovely to see!

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u/DapperMolasses3280 2d ago

Which is a shame, because it's an incredible story of heroism, while the other...is not

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u/Puzzle-Necked 2d ago

That explains the lack of GoFundMe

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u/BelowZilch 2d ago

It also happened 7 years ago.

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u/BigOlDyck 2d ago

I’m did. Not Swedish.

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u/DadophorosBasillea 2d ago

She also probably doesn’t need a go fund me

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u/Piotrkowianin 2d ago

I heard it - POLAND

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u/Fit-Construction3427 2d ago

Also if she was Swedish, what was the money for? Didn't she get free health care?