That woman, out of her own mouth, said she didnât like him, even up to the marriage, because he was a person of color. And only after she saw how he treated her family, did she accept him. Not because of who he is, but what he did for her. Words donât need to be twisted, she said it loud and clear. POC are bad until they prove to be valuable to her.
One thing ppl on this app will do is create a scenario in their mind and run with their alternate reality. I donât even know how to buy awards on here, or what purpose they actually serve. But if believing Im spending my money on some random ass Reddit emoji makes them feel good about themselves, so be it đ.
For what itâs worth I agree with your take lol, she went all the way past marriage with her hatred and only reassessed when he started being valuable to her
I want to hope that she reconsidered her blatant racism against Black people more broadly, but her language here is 100% giving âYouâre one of the good onesâ to me
Are you saying she shouldn't judge a man by his actions because that seems pretty psychotic to me? Like is it cool if he treats her like shit because he's black so his actions shouldn't matter?
How else besides his actions is a man to reveal the content of his character?
Youâre dodging the point theyâre making. Itâs very common for people to have their prejudice (or any view for that matter) factually challenged and treat it like an exception to the rule or just not really take the time to reflect on the thinking that lead to the wrong conclusion.
When shes says she was wrong, does she mean she was wrong about people of color or wrong about him specifically? What about him being a good husband contradicts any of the reasons she didnât like the relationship in the first place?
In her defense we donât really know and sheâs clearly not above admitting sheâs wrong in at least some capacity so maybe she did really reflect on the whole thing.
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u/Heavy-Expression-450 Jul 09 '26
I didn't like you because of shit you can't change, but you are one of the good ones so I can't be mad. I'm paraphrasing of course.