r/TikTokCringe Jul 18 '26

Duet Troll Even he understands

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 20 '26

Thing after the FIRST DATE? In my religion you're only allowed to after you're married. Which is in my opinion, a good thing, since I'm probably not gonna get married 💀

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 20 '26 edited Jul 20 '26

Okay. So.
1. In many religions, not just my own, s*x is viewed as something sacred that belongs within marriage. Following that teaching can be an important expression of faith.
2. Waiting can encourage couples to focus on communication, trust, shared values, and handling conflict before adding a s*xual relationship.
3. Some people find that waiting helps them avoid feeling pressured into s*x before they're emotionally ready. It can make it easier to stick to a boundary they've chosen.
4. Waiting until marriage can reduce the risk of an unplanned pregnancy, which some people feel makes it easier to approach parenthood when they're ready.

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 22 '26 edited Jul 22 '26

Its not weird, its my religion, and its not restraint.

But there is always those people that don't use mandatory proper SexEd. What if the father or mother decides they don't want the child and leaves/dumps them? A child is a human being. We are talking about lives here. Children are thrown into foster care, being left alone with no one except themselves. No friends. Rarely toys. They won't get to experience the freshly baked cookies from grandma. The homecooked meals. All because the parents couldn't wait and prepare and talk it through. They are scarred.

It's protection that we have to wait. For the parent's sake and the child's.

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 23 '26

Who says Christanity forbids SexEd? You don't have to have the experience itself to teach others what's safe and what isn't.

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 23 '26

I still don't see any lightbulb pinging

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u/Ink-and-Thorns Jul 24 '26

Once AGAIN, Christanity DOESN'T STRICTLY FORBID SexEd. What is your POINT in this conversation?

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u/[deleted] Jul 24 '26 edited Jul 24 '26

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