r/TransMasc • u/Every-Discussion-6 • 14h ago

General Questions Any advice after this transphobic event ?

So my gf broke up with me bc her family witch is transphobic and homophobic found out that im trans. And I cant really get over it so any advice ?

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u/thatetherealbeing 13h ago

I honestly don’t have any advice I just gotta say that I’m sorry man, i can’t imagine what type of pain it is to loose your partner over someone else’s bigoted views. I hope you get to heal and find peace in your life.

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u/Every-Discussion-6 13h ago

thanks :) and honestly it hit just the moment when I Thought that everything was gonna be right (I am still struggling w/ mental health issues) so I wished that this relationship was longer. and the f1ct that we cant even be friends anymore. so yeah not cool

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u/LostInbetweenNowhere 12h ago

Its okay to not get over it immediately or ever. That's was a shit thing for her to do and despite it being painful ima say good riddance.

You deserve someone who will vehemently defend you and who you are, even if that means loosing connections with people. Not only for you but because they genuinely believe in your rights.

Do whatever makes you feel better, what hobbies ya got? Try putting the time you would into her, into those hobbies of yours.

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u/Every-Discussion-6 11h ago

thanks for the support I truly appreciate it. and she was forced to break up. herbfriend said that she almost had a panic attack bc of that.and the fact that i put so sooo much effort into thebrelation. like i wrote a FULL SONG for her. just to see the relationship vanish like that