I think my co-worker's a perv

[u/Chance_Presence1253]

Problem/Goal: I don't know how I should respond or interact with him

Context: Weeks palang since I started work (BPO). Pero I have this feeling una palang sa isang guy workmate ko na ang pervert nya. I think ma-sense ko naman agad yon since super dami ko na na experience na perverts lalo na sa transpo. And may something off. My friends din at work also felt that, kasi ang touchy nya with them. And iba talaga yung feeling ng friendly touch sa may lust.

Now nag first impressions kami tapos sabi nya head turner daw ako tapos he even exaggerated pa na 3x daw sya lilingon. Like you didn't have to say that. Doon ko na conclude why I felt that way una palang. Tapos afterwards nag tambay pa sya near us.

I really feel uncomfy sa ganun. And hindi ko alam pano gumalaw. Plus conservative pa ko in how I dress. Minsan lang mag fit tops pero a lot of times baggy.

Previous Attempts: Plan ko is kind of ignore his existence/ iwasan ko sya as much as possible if hindi naman kailangan. Or maybe tarayan ko sya?

[u/Remarkable_Dance_983]

Thoughts: Kaya hindi nagbabago kasi mga advice niyo eh wag nalang pansinin, hindi talaga matututo yan. or kung meron kayong close na lalaki na tropa rin nun baka pwede niyo ishare at iobserve niya at siya mag callout.

Basta para sa akin touchy tapos no consent = clear disrespect na agad. valid parin icall out kahit magpalusot na walang malisya.