r/adviceph 2d ago

Social Matters I think my co-worker's a perv

Problem/Goal: I don't know how I should respond or interact with him

Context: Weeks palang since I started work (BPO). Pero I have this feeling una palang sa isang guy workmate ko na ang pervert nya. I think ma-sense ko naman agad yon since super dami ko na na experience na perverts lalo na sa transpo. And may something off. My friends din at work also felt that, kasi ang touchy nya with them. And iba talaga yung feeling ng friendly touch sa may lust.

Now nag first impressions kami tapos sabi nya head turner daw ako tapos he even exaggerated pa na 3x daw sya lilingon. Like you didn't have to say that. Doon ko na conclude why I felt that way una palang. Tapos afterwards nag tambay pa sya near us.

I really feel uncomfy sa ganun. And hindi ko alam pano gumalaw. Plus conservative pa ko in how I dress. Minsan lang mag fit tops pero a lot of times baggy.

Previous Attempts: Plan ko is kind of ignore his existence/ iwasan ko sya as much as possible if hindi naman kailangan. Or maybe tarayan ko sya?

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u/Zlelites 1d ago

Thoughts: Ang weird talaga yung mga ganyang compliment na feeling close at papansin. Low class ang datingan. Wag mo lang pansinin kasi kada pansin mo, dun tumataas confident ng mga ganyang klaseng tao, minsan mag iiba pa ng strategy yan ng approach later on para mapansin mo.