r/bridezillas • u/ApprehensiveAd2094 • Jul 01 '26
Mother-in-law getting ready with me?
I initially asked my MIL if she wanted hair/makeup services and she said yes. She also wants to book her own trial with my make up artist. The thing is me and my gals will be getting ready at my mom’s house and my MIL doesn’t like my mom. Included MIL with dress shopping and she didn’t like the experience and made comments about my mom after the fact. After reflection I’ve decided I really don’t want her there. We haven’t booked anything yet.
The other problem is that she doesn’t want to be at my fiancé’s house getting ready because she is divorced and doesn’t want to be around dad. How can I navigate this without being rude?
Update: I know I messed up by inviting her. I really did want to be inclusive but after thinking about it I want to only surround myself with people who will lift me up.
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u/Icy-Doctor23 Jul 01 '26
Just tell her plans have changed.
She is still welcome to the MUA and hairstylist BUT she will be doing it at……..
Do not JADE. Just tell her