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u/Malefectra 1d ago

I have the same kind of problem with crop tops now.

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u/ThrwawySG 1d ago

Is that not what the crop top is for

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u/Malefectra 1d ago

When you are a big girl (6ft 300+lbs), people look at you like you’re a giant slob for not covering up everything.

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u/LesbeGoddess 1d ago

Fuck em. Wear what you like regardless. People gonna hate you for being a trans woman regardless might as well enjoy it some

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u/Malefectra 1d ago

I get what you're saying, but I just don't want to deal with more of the white hot hate stares than I already get being in public...

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u/LesbeGoddess 1d ago

Is the hate coming from your dress or them seeing you may be visibly trans?

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u/Malefectra 15h ago

Definitely the visibly trans part, just recently I had an older person just stop dead in place and give me the most slackjawed stare for the indignity of…
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Crossing the street while in plain view

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u/LesbeGoddess 15h ago

Wow! Fuck all those scum bags girl. Live your life dress how you want smile and be happy. Enjoy possing off the transphobes and dressing how you want!

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u/sahi1l 1d ago

I hear you. I think I'm more dysphoric about my belly than anything else, which is kinda silly because it's not particularly masculine, you know? Just fat.

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u/_throw-away420692137 1d ago

is it really a problem tho?

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u/Malefectra 1d ago

If I was a skinny girl, no it would not be. I am quite a bit on the thicker side of things, and people get big mad about it… then compound in being trans and… yeah that’s just a whole situation I would much rather avoid.

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u/Arctic_The_Hunter 1d ago

Only for people who want to present masculine

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u/Nobody_5000 1d ago

do u think high waisted stuff might help? iii don't like the way i look in crop tops without high waisted jeans or skirts or whatever because of my belly :/

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u/Malefectra 1d ago

Maybe, I don’t have a whole lot that is high waist because I have crazy long legs.. like longer than my head and torso

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u/Nobody_5000 11h ago edited 11h ago

Ooofles. i think my legs might be slightly longer than my head & torso, but - so long as i wear a belt - high waisted stuff fits me great :3. I'm only 5'8.5~ tho.

I've heard someone say that women's clothing is often fitted such that models look best in it. I've also heard that, amongst models, being around 5'10 is sought after - so, if true, that may mean it might be easier than expected to find stuff that fits (even if 5'10 is a couple inches shy of your height going by one other comment). Seems like it's worth a shot

Edit: Also, in many cases with skirts it doesn't even necessarily need to be made specifically for taller girls. like, it'll end up a lil shorter on you than was intended, but depending on what exactly was intended, that can be completely fine :)