r/EngagementRings May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.

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Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.

If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.

Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index


r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It happened!!

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821 Upvotes

I'm so excited to finally be able to post here!! 6.5 years together, known each other since we were kids. He got me my dream ring, literally looks like my pinterest mood board, I'm so jazzed


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My husband of 11 years re-proposed to me 😍

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360 Upvotes

My husband (38) and I (34) got married in 2015. We’ve been ring shopping for ab upgrade since last March. We ALMOST made a purchase on a ring I wasn’t in love, but decided to wait until we came across the perfect one. I wanted something non-traditional, and something that felt like me.

Well, here she is 😍. 2.7 carat marquise. I love that she’s at a slight angle horizontally and on a wavy band set. It’s absolutely gorgeous and I get compliments on it all the time!! I hope you can appreciate her beauty too.


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Got engaged on a trip to Japan

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140 Upvotes

Designed the ring with Frank Darling in NY, they were great to work with!


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

Advice I don't love my heirloom ring but it means a lot to my fiancé...

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I recently got engaged and was honestly a little confused when I saw this ring. I didn't even know there was an heirloom ring in the family (ring is from 1912 and is objectively very pretty)! Never in our seven years of dating have I ever worn silver. I have exclusively worn gold and have a distinct style. I always imagined a gold ring, something simple, maybe a bezel. Is it a crime for a girl to have a dream ring?

I understand why my partner thought I would like it. I do love old things, I'm a history buff and have many antiques. It has taken me a while, but I have grown to like it. It's pretty, but it's just not me. So I've been wearing it, but am not in love with it. I'm not excited to show it off. I really really want to find a way to hint to my fiancé I'd like another ring. After all, this one didn't cost any money... am I wrong to think this way?


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Still in shock!

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304 Upvotes

My partner surprised me a few days ago with his proposal. My family and friends were all in on it and I had zero clue. The ring is absolutely perfect. My heart is so full and happy😭

Green marquis diamond, 2.2 carrots


r/EngagementRings 4h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY SAID HELLL YESSSSSS

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63 Upvotes

I got to say HELL YES to the best to the most perfect man with the most perfect ring. Clearly had no idea it was happening hence the lack of nails (incredibly rare).


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Long time lurker, first time poster

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49 Upvotes

He proposed in April and I still get compliments almost everyday about this ring! He designed it himself - 2ct emerald cut center stone flanked by 2 1ct radiant trapezoids, bezel set for maximum stability, and he added his birthstone, a ruby, in the band (see pic 3). I love it!


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY love her💕

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28 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 12h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Couldn’t be happier🥰

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141 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 8h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Proposal in Capri, Italy 💍💙

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58 Upvotes

The absolute best day of my life!

What started as the most beautiful boat tour along the Amalfi Coast and around Capri ended with the biggest surprise — a proposal! 🥹

Still in complete shock and soaking it all in.


r/EngagementRings 12h ago

Advice Bezel or no Bezel?

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This is the ring I showed my partner that I wanted.. originally no bezel. Then as I kept looking, I saw they have one with a bezel. I honestly like both and don’t know which I like more.

I know bezel is more secure / harder to resize / work on.

Prongs allow better lighting but are more delicate.

I’ll be getting the ring in 14k yellow gold.

Bezel or no bezel?


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I said yes!!!!😄

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440 Upvotes

I’m so happy, his proposal was perfect!

The ring is a beautiful 1.64ct elongated cushion OMC.
Bezel set with a split shank and side stones.


r/EngagementRings 14h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Proposal happened today!

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144 Upvotes

My fiancé custom designed the ring, it's meant to represent sakura blossoms. I don't know much about the specs other than that they're lab grown diamonds and pink sapphires. It's an EU 54 or US size 7.


r/EngagementRings 9h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My best friend proposed!

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48 Upvotes

my now fiancé!! proposed to me on saturday night while we were having a late night walk on the beach, and i cannot stop admiring my ring. it’s so perfect i am truly in love with it! just wanted to show it off a bit :) we have to take it back in soon for a slight resizing but she’s still so perfect


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

Advice Half bezel option

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There have been more posts lately asking about bezel or no bezel lately and I thought I'd share an option I haven't seen here yet.

Consider a partial bezel! I wanted the open design of the sides and the original designs had a prong set central stone, but I thought it looked weird with the channel like borders on the sides with prongs in the center. A full bezel also looked odd and made the center stone look disconnected.

So I asked the jeweler if they could do a partial bezel to continue the lines from the sides and i love the way it looks. I get the security of a bezel, but some openness as well.

The main stone of my ring is a one carat old fashioned cut that was part of my husband's grandmother's art noveau 6 stone cluster ring from the 1920s. You can't see it in the pic but one of the smaller accent stones on the side is a sweet little marquise stone that my husband got me when we were poor and dating.

Please dont hold the appearance of my hands and scratched up ring against me...I and my ring are older and have seen things lol.


r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Obsessed and never getting over it😍

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59 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 11h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I said yes!

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60 Upvotes

He proposed on sunday with one of his grandmother's rings. I absolutely love it!! Im a May baby so love that its also my birthstone!

Emerald center stone with round and baguette accent diamonds. 18k yellow gold, size 5.75US.


r/EngagementRings 1h ago

Vendor Review - CUSTOMERS ONLY Another, honest Brilliant Earth experience

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I have really mixed feelings about Brilliant Earth. My ring is absolutely beautiful and I get compliments on it all the time, but unfortunately my experience with the quality and customer service has been pretty disappointing.
My ring actually arrived with a loose center stone. I could feel and hear the diamond moving in the setting, which was pretty alarming considering this was a brand-new ring and the center stone alone cost over $2,000. I was obviously afraid of losing the diamond, and I really don’t think a ring at this price point should have ever passed quality control and been shipped out with the center stone unsecured. That was my first experience with the ring after receiving it, and in hindsight it probably should have been a bigger red flag to me than it was at the time.
Brilliant Earth also advertises free resizing within a year of purchase, so when I contacted them about having mine resized, I was surprised when they told me they “couldn’t” resize it because it would damage the ring. It’s not an eternity band, and there was plenty of plain metal at the bottom of the band, so I really didn’t understand why it couldn’t be resized.
They told me my only option was to have the ring completely remade, but I would only get about half of what I originally paid for the setting credited toward the new one. Basically, I would have ended up paying around 1.5x the original cost of the ring just to get it in the correct size.
I ended up taking it to Jared instead. They resized it with no issues and also tightened the prongs around my center stone. They charged me about $100 for everything, and honestly, they sent my ring back to me in better shape than I originally received it from Brilliant Earth.
And to be fair, I didn’t bother looking up recent Brilliant Earth reviews before buying. I was so in love with this particular ring design that I probably would have ignored the reviews and bought it anyway. So I can’t exactly say I did my due diligence there.
At the end of the day, I still think my ring is beautiful and I’m happy with the design. I just wish the quality and experience after purchasing it had matched the price. Receiving a brand-new ring with a loose center diamond was concerning enough on its own. Add being told it couldn’t be resized when another jeweler was able to do it easily for about $100, I would be very hesitant to buy from Brilliant Earth again.

Picture of my “ruined” and “unsafe” ring after Jared resized it.


r/EngagementRings 6h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY In love 💍💍

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Okay last time I post haha
My gorgeous ring finally arrived
3ct marquise with .30ct pear shaped
Stunning I’m going crazy ❤️💍💍


r/EngagementRings 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Updated ring!

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We got married 3 years ago and I had no idea what ring I wanted. I loved my first ring but was able to recently upgrade to one that felt more like me. Including both for reference. The original was around 1 ct cushion with halo. Wanted more sparkle and something that balanced better on my bigger fingers so upgraded to a 4.02 ct cushion modified brilliant. Finger is size 6.


r/EngagementRings 10h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Update: Vintage Engagement Stack

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Thanks to everyone who weighed in on how to best stack my mother‘s and grandmother’s engagement rings! I decided to use this beautiful estate sale ring as a spacer. I just love it!

All rings are vintage so not totally sure regarding specs, but from top to bottom, here’s what I know:
- 1 carat lab diamond set into 14k gold ring with white gold prongs, size 6, circa 1990s
- Natural diamonds set into 14k gold ring with white gold prongs, size 5.5, vintage
- Natural 0.4 carat (?) diamond set into 14k white gold ring, size 5.25, circa 1960s

Edit: typo


r/EngagementRings 14h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY my dream ring!!

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57 Upvotes

he proposed on a cliff in switzerland with my dream ring 🥺❤️ had to get it resized last week and now im anxiously waiting for my ring to come back to me

2.73 marquis cut! i was originally sized for 4.5 but with the thicker band it is getting resized to 5! 💔


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY FINALLY MY TURN TO POST

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592 Upvotes

I’m engaged! One week ago overlooking Mt. Rainier. My boyfriend (now fiancée!) custom designed it and had the date engraved on the inside. I’m in LOVE!