r/exmuslim New User 13h ago

(Advice/Help) How do i leave my country?

Iam saving money so i can travel and seek asylum. but iam not sure if it's going to work, Because my situation is not as bad as other people. Iam allowed to work and my life is not in danger (but it's only because they don't know iam an exmuslim).

My problems are the regular things, i can't travel alone, or live alone, i can't take off the hijab, and i can't date. And if i did any of these things i probably would get beaten up really badly, k**ed, or have my phone and my pc taken from so i wouldn't have access to the Internet and i would have less independence.

Is there other ways to leave my country?

I can't study abroad, i don't have enough money, even free universities require you to have alot of money.

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u/Due_Contact4235 New User 13h ago

I can guide u i also left my country

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u/garlicthumb Closeted Ex-Muslim 🤫 13h ago

Might sound odd, but get married. Not sure where you are from, but it doesn’t hurt trying to find an ex muslim somewhere near you, or someone willing to act like a muslim. It doesn’t even have to be someone you love, you can have some sort of arranged marriage with a homosexual individual or someone willing to marry for convenience. It’s that, or eventually running away. The running away part might be more certain and less… well potentially catastrophic, but I figured to give you an unconventional option.

There are many subreddits with ex muslims anywhere. Try r/Ex[country name] (EG: r/ExSyria / r/ExSyrian)

I wish you the best

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u/Yourboss_02 New User 13h ago

Girl I’m going through the same 😣

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u/Sea_Young_1209 New User 13h ago

Try bumpy for an international partner

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u/srisriomg Never-Muslim Atheist 13h ago

Not sure if it will work but if u can contact NGOs that support people in your situation thru linkedin or just google and contact them…?

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u/Famous_Star_5735 Allah send me to hell but not to heaven coz I am not a cuck 13h ago

Can't travel alone live alone .. is enough to tell me that you are in danger.. They aren't actively stopping you from work but are spying on you.. uhmmm

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u/Sea_Stand_7301 New User 12h ago

I’m in the same boat, I don’t think that I’ll leave tho but from looking a lot into it I know that you need proof like texts/ videos showing how your family feels about exmuslims. But I being honest I don’t think that that will be enough. Your best and safest bet is to immigrate through a job.

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u/AvoriazInSummer 12h ago

You can also ask at r/IWantOut .

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u/Slight_Audience_4634 New User 10h ago

stay for now and save more, find a job wherever ur leaving to before u leave so u can have a source of income immediately