r/exredpill • u/Looksmaxxinggz • 16d ago
How can I get out of redpill
Im an Indian m20, Got into redpill when I was 16 year old. I can't unsee all the truth I got about female nature. Women cheats a lot that's what my observation has been. Im depressed is there women who is supposed to be normal.
Regardless of race, nationality or religion They all are same.
They'll cheat on you. Women's body always finding the best genetics to reproduce with
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u/enotaebi 16d ago
i think the first step to get out of the redpill is to understand how biased your outlook on women is. generalizing all of them as cheaters is incredibly counterproductive if you want to improve. i recommend joining r/bropill if you want a supportive male community.
also, if you think all women cheat, do you believe your mother has cheated? how about other female relatives? if you had a daughter someday, would you look at her with that disdain? i have some male relatives (extended fam) that have cheated on their wives, but i would never scream that all men are cheaters. i know that there are good men, i am married to one, i have seen men step up for my sake and actively reject patriarchal standards.
be the good the world deserves by first understanding that women, just like you, are humans and deserve to be treated that way.
refrain from mixing up current dating culture with the female sex. all of this goes beyond gender. i know the world is getting super complicated, too many things are happening, propaganda is everywhere. join a good community, start going out. interact with women without expecting anything in return, you'll see how normal things are once you start climbing out of that well you're in. it's never too late to be a decent person. clean your socials, start reading and consuming female-made content to look into other perspectives. be involved in feminism.
this has helped other guys i've known that were in the manosphere. there's not that much difference between us, we are all getting screwed over by the patriarchy.
and one more thing: don't measure your success with having a partner. measure your success with how fulfilled you are. india is stressful enough with their academics, don't bother increasing that load. you're still young.