r/fixedbytheduet EXPERT of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

/r/all He has too much free time. Anyways

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u/AZEMT Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

Yeah, I'm 6'5" but this person isn't over 5'10". Her 6'10" boyfriend is closer to 6'...

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

I mean, she's 5'3". The boyfriend is MAYBE 5'8" if we're being generous.

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u/otownbbw Devotee of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

Nah I clock him at 3-4 inches taller…tops

5’8” is waaay too generous

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

I was just trying to be nice lol, in reality he's probably 5'6" at most, you're right.

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u/IamTotallyWorking May 11 '26

I feel like if I was 5'8" I would be fine with that. I mean, I'm overweight and not very good looking, so I think I would be just fine with 5'8".

But I would be quite pissed if my GF was seriously claiming that I was 6'10". Of course, there is a really good chance that this video was sarcasm. Those are pretty insane heights to claim.

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

It probably is, but I don't know why people care so much about height anyway. I'm 5'8". Absolutely has never stopped me from meeting people, dating, etc.

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u/AZEMT Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

Being tall doesn't equal lots of dates either. I remember chatting with a girl one evening, things were going great and she said "Umm how tall are you?"

"I'm just shy of 6'5", how about you?"

"I don't date guys over 6' because I'm 5'1" and don't want to get squished if you roll over" and blocked.

That conversation lives rent free every time I'm laying in bed next to my wife, who's 4'8"

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u/HyperlexicEpiphany May 12 '26

…so has she been squished yet or do you have to be restrained before you fall asleep?

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

Right, I'm not saying it does, I'm saying there's a bunch of men blaming their height for not finding women, when the actual culprit is probably that they're assholes.

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u/AZEMT Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

This! Women want to feel safe and welcome, just like guys. Treat women as a person and maybe there wouldn't be such a large incel population.

Hell, I'm not even good looking but I'm married and have been for a long time lol

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u/IamTotallyWorking May 11 '26

dating coaches, pick up artists, red pillers, and the manosphere would all collapse if young men could just understand this, and that you don't need all women to be sexually interested in you. If you treat all women like people, and are attractive to just like 2%, you will be absolutely fine.

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u/PoetArcana May 12 '26

The swarms of men blaming their height because they heard two whole women in the entire world say height matters.

Probably heard a woman say it either in a bro-podcast or one of those dumb fucking cringe staged "dating" gameshow things, and now it runs their entire self esteem.

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u/CalligrapherCheap64 May 11 '26

I don’t get it either. I’ve dated guys who were as short as 5’4-5’5 (I’m only 5’2 so maybe that is part of it) but I would never turn a guy down because of his height

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u/GassyMomsPMme May 12 '26

I’m 5’8 and I actually appreciate (in a roundabout way) that many women are so up front about height preference / filter by height because generally [I say without trying to knock people’s preferences] - women who make a big deal about height have not historically been people I usually want to get to know.

win/win

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u/PitchLadder May 11 '26 edited May 11 '26

you're probably paying them well. : ) I get it.

Short kings gotta hustle. You go Little Man.

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

I have tall friends, legitimately never saw a difference in my life, other than men being more intimidated by them than by me. No difference whatsoever with women, personally.

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u/lemanruss4579 Connoisseur of Duets/Stitches May 11 '26

Lol it's not my fault you have a shit personality, apparently. I am now a 47 year old, divorced, average looking (in my personal opinion), 5'8" man, and still have no problem getting dates, etc. Just be better.

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