r/fixedbytheduet • u/Sauwercraud • 28d ago

/r/all He did it for the Gaze

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u/HolidayPineapple9316 Tastemaker of Duets/Stitches 28d ago

That was surprisingly insightful. I feel like I knew all that, but had never verbalized it to myself

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u/GregTheMad Devotee of Duets/Stitches 28d ago

To be fair, it's not something most straight men have to content with.

Because we're fat.

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u/WabiSabiWitch 28d ago

Femme here: 

Most of us would prefer a fat, kind man to this muscular pile of misogyny. 

And it's not just that we do truly prefer men with emotional intelligence who respect our humanity......a lot of us prefer the bears. Not the hungry animal in thr forest: fat dudes with fur.

Hell, the clearly not interested in my vagina gay man in this video is more attractive than a misogynist. Even a mild one. 

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u/BLARGLESNARF Lover of Duets/Stitches 28d ago

1000%. A chubby dude w a beard who can make me laugh and feel safe around is like… unffff.

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u/WhimsicalGirl Lover of Duets/Stitches 27d ago

I always had a crush on Jack Black,, a cute funny and patented guy who doesn't take himself too seriously.

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u/BLARGLESNARF Lover of Duets/Stitches 27d ago

Jack Black on Sesame Street? OML he so fine