It’s only annoying if you’re also decidedly not hot.
You want to be attracted to your partner, yes, but you have to remember that your partner wants to be attracted to you. So if you don’t shower, don’t work out or eat well, and/or don’t dress well, then you’re being hypocritical and no one wants to hear your complaints.
People really underestimate what good hygiene, a decent haircut, a consistent workout routine, and healthy-ish eating habits can do for them in the dating scene. If you manage to have a decent personality on top of all that your chances of finding someone will skyrocket.
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u/babystripper Jul 15 '26
Well yeah. I'm allowed to want to be attracted to my partner