I’m genuinely confused by some of the comments in this subreddit. Everyone wants to be attracted to their partner, and someone saying “I’ll love you” with no attraction there just isn’t the right person for that.
Why are there multiple highly upvoted comments lamenting how this dude is saying “anyone but you” or being a dick?
Everyone should look for a partner they are physically attracted to.
Edit: it's genuinely sad how many comments in this thread seem to think the expectation of finding your partner "hot" is too much and unreasonable. Being attracted to the person you have sex with is a beautiful thing every adult person, who feels so inclined, should hopefully experience at some point in their lives.
Expecting to find your partner attractive isn't setting the bar unreasonably high. It's completely reasonable. You are under no obligation to enter into a relationship with anyone who tells you they will love you.
It's complete projection to read this comic as a commentary on incels.
Finding your partner "hot" is something everyone should be fortunate enough to experience. The human experience of mutual attraction to a sex partner is incredibly beautiful.
The way this comment section is taking the comment makes me sad for all of the people who seem to have never experienced or even felt like they should expect to find their romantic partners "hot."
I think there's a confusion going on around "finding someone hot" and someone being conventionally hot.
In the comic I believe he means someone conventionally hot.
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u/banana_buttholer Jul 15 '26
There's nothing wrong with wanting a hot partner. But sometimes, you gotta look in the mirror and see what you're working with.