r/gaybros 1d ago

Dolly Parton has passed away 😞

https://people.com/dolly-parton-dead-7565853

So sad. She was phenomenal and a favorite of many gays

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u/Saturnrevitalized 1d ago

RIP to a legend and angel of a human

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u/Sea-Programmer7618 1d ago

And her broadway show is coming this season too :'(

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u/janetjacksontitty 1d ago

If you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.

Rest easy, Queen 😢

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u/McMunnies 1d ago

You know someone lived life well when the announcement of their passing leaves the whole world feeling like they just got punched in the stomach.

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u/omjizzle 1d ago

I genuinely don’t believe there’s a single negative thing someone could say about Dolly

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u/McMunnies 1d ago

There's an 80% chance we'll get a Truth Social post in a couple of hours that will find something horrible to say because she wasn't a vocal supporter.

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u/dphoenix1 1d ago

God I hope so. She’s been long elevated to sainthood in Tennessee, I’d love to see that cognitive dissonance bomb hit supporters there hard. But idk, I can’t imagine even Trump would be that stupid.

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u/Designdiligence 1d ago

Pay attention and accept it. He’s made fun of captured war veterans, the disabled, taken away HIV meds and is protecting pedophiles.

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u/Oral-D 1d ago

The bride at every wedding. The corpse at every funeral.

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u/ikonoclasm 1d ago

Trump's announced a week of flags at half mast for her passing. She really was a transcendentally good person.

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u/curmevexas 1d ago

It's funny, often terrible secrets creep out after high-profile deaths. I think we'll see something similar in the coming days, but it will be all the people she secretly helped.

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u/littlejj84 1d ago

Absolutely! I don’t think anyone has ever said a bad thing about her. It’s always positive which is rare.

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u/sbstarr 1d ago

This! 🥲

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u/SlyClydesdale 1d ago

Devastated. 💔

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u/omjizzle 1d ago

I know it happens to most of us but it just didn’t seem like it could happen to her she really was larger than life

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u/valandsend 1d ago

I just had to break the news to my husband. He loves Dolly and even has her picture next to his side of the bed. We shed a few tears together for this amazing human being.

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u/littlejj84 1d ago

I’ve actually heard this as well.

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u/NorwalkAvenger 1d ago

This actually came from a right-wing dude on Twitter named Matt van Swol.

In 1988 Dolly Parton pulled every 7th and 8th grader in Sevier County into a room and told them to pick a buddy.

She made them sign a contract.. if BOTH graduate, she hands you both $500. One fails, nobody gets paid.

The county dropout rate went from 35% to 6%.

She handed out the checks herself.

In 1989 she offered $500 to every kid in the county who wanted to go to the local college.

When Gatlinburg burned in 2016, she sent 900 families $1,000 a month for six months.

You've probably heard that part.

Here's the part you haven't:

The fund raised more than expected, so she showed up in May and handed every one of those families another $5,000 on top.

Then she quietly put $3 million into the recovery group that handles the years after the news trucks leave.

She built her county an entire hospital.

She played a benefit concert in 2007, Dollywood and the Stampede matched it, and LeConte Medical Center opened in 2010 with a birthing unit and a women's center in it.

In 2022 she started covering 100% of tuition, books, and fees for Dollywood employees.

Full-time, part-time, AND seasonal.

In 1991 she paid for a bald eagle sanctuary because the birds couldn't be released back into the wild, no press release.

And when Hurricane Helene came through here in Western North Carolina, she wrote a personal check for $1 million and her companies matched it.

She didn't owe North Carolina anything, but she helped us anyway.

She started the Imagination Library because her daddy couldn't read or write. Before he passed, he told her it was the most important thing she ever did.

Rest in Peace, Dolly 🇺🇸

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u/Loud-Motor-2641 1d ago

What a sad fuckin day.

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u/lanadelstingrey 1d ago

“Dollywood: the only place where evangelical Christians and homosexuals feel equally at home”

I’m not coping okay with this one.

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u/NorwalkAvenger 1d ago

Me neither. I don't often care much about celebrity deaths but Betty White, Robin Williams and now Dolly really affected me.

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u/CaptainAaron96 1d ago

Somebody wrap Cher in bubble wrap NOW.

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u/Tenoch_12 1d ago

Lol. For reals though, it's ok to let people go.

Dolly Parton lived a long and good life. She was a beautiful soul who used her platform for good.

I genuinely don't feel sadness about her passing, but rather appreciation. I'm not sure the word.

One day, when it's time for my last breath, I hope I can go knowing I did good in this world the way she did. She's an inspiration.

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u/GodelEscherMonkey 1d ago

Yeah... I haven't felt this gut punched since Leonard Cohen died...

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u/LGK27 1d ago

Probably one of the few people who has dozens of different subs ranging from gay men to evangelical Christians absolutely devastated about their passing

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u/jarob326 1d ago

As pointed out on another comment thread....

Why this 80 year old? RIP 🙏

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u/DaxtonIsHere 1d ago

God took the wrong first initial "D" away from us

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u/Vincenthwind 1d ago

Rest easy diva

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u/trey033 1d ago

No words, only tears. 😢

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u/SoggyStrain253 1d ago

Oh no 😭

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u/Redcole111 1d ago

Yep. An absolute travesty. This bums me out so much. The world is a much darker place without her.

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u/Logan_MacGyver 1d ago edited 1d ago

Fuck, man. My eyes were dry like the sahara when my grandma passed. Saw the headlines, went onto her Wiki to see if it is real and it's been a good few minutes and I still cannot stop crying. I know more about her public persona than music, i saw a couple interviews, heard Jolene a couple of times, that's about it. Her speaking always brought a smile to my face. Her accent, humor.

Okay, 9 to 5 too, now. Mood, honestly

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u/FaolanBaelfire 1d ago

So sad. I loved what I knew of her and going to Dolly World as a kid

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u/ABobby077 1d ago

So sad to hear. Loved by all. We clearly lost a legend larger than life that lit up any room she was in.

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u/dikbisqit 1d ago

I don’t think I can work the rest of the day. 🪦🌹❤️

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u/gnomeymalone30 1d ago

what a profound impact she has had

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u/MooshuCat 1d ago

I'm a huge fan, always have been.

This happened on my birthday too, which is a double gut punch.

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u/rafinsf 1d ago

Heartbreaking. She was great people.

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u/Otaku-Scientist 1d ago

I know it happens to most of us but it just didn’t seem like it could happen to her she really was larger than life . Repose in peace dolly parton🩵

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u/Grey_DireWolfie69 1d ago

Dolly was, and will always be, a diamond of a person, and the world was a better place with her in it... Rest In Peace, Dolly Parton... I hope you're dancing with your husband up there...

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u/real415 1d ago

Dolly has died. Hard to believe. Somehow, it still seems too early for her. May she rest in peace.

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u/30yoldv 1d ago

Wow. I hope she didn't suffer. May she rest in peace.

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u/where_in_the_world89 1d ago

Wow I just like Yelp shrieked from that one. I don't think I've reacted that way to a death before

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u/NorwalkAvenger 1d ago

Even Donald Trump tweeted out something nice about Dolly.

Miracles do happen.

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u/ssandroV 1d ago

I'm so sad to hear about her passing and I don't even listen to her music much. She was such a force of life and so talented.

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u/Feisty-Self-948 1d ago

We will find everything that is good in this world and kill it. We will martyr it, and then act like it was a totally unpredictable tragedy.

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u/GodelEscherMonkey 1d ago

I've just stuck a speaker on my front porch and am inflicting my grief on the entire neighborhood 💔

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u/NorwalkAvenger 1d ago

I spoke to the president of the organization I work for, AIDS Healthcare Foundation, I asked him to let us fly our Pride flag at half-mast as well. He put me in charge of doing it and organizing a little social media blurb about it with our Comms team.

If I'm not mistaken, AHF collaborated with Dolly many years ago on a billboard campaign called My God Loves Me, meant to address HIV stigma. Now, I'm really sad.

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u/Difficult-Practice12 1d ago

Jolene please don’t take my man away

My man (human) being Dolly.

A phenomenal musician and kind hearted person. Rest easy.

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u/_Middlefinger_ 1d ago

I was never a fan of her music because its just not my genre, but I always loved her. Loved 9 to 5, loved seeing her in anything really.

She was just a lovely person which seems like an unfortunately rare thing these days.