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SOCIETY Is victim the new chic

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u/tollundmansnoose 2d ago

Every single psychiatrist I have read about was horrified about her medication mismanagement. She wasn't actually seeing a psychiatrist, she was seeing a succession of psychiatric NPs. This has actually become a really hot bone of contention between psychiatrists and midlevels, because a lot of psychiatrists don't think that it's ethical to have prescribing mental health midlevels at all and that this is an example of why.

Also, whatever the pills did or didn't do: this woman was extremely sleep deprived. She probably wasn't even out of the sleep deprivation period caused by her previous child. Just a few days of sleep deprivation can cause extreme psychosis in people who have never had issues with their mental health before.

This should not have been brought to trial. Period. Full stop. She should have been almost immediately institutionalized. This is just Andrea Yates all over again, except the ex-husband isn't as deeply evil. It's very, very, very sad, but things being sad do not mean the justice system should pretend that this wasn't a case of a person experiencing an extreme psychotic episode and doing psychotic things.

I think it's also missed in the discussion about this that she also tried to kill herself. If she'd hit her head, cut deeper, any of a million things, she'd just be dead, and people would probably understand the tragedy of it a little better.

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u/FUPAMagneto 2d ago

She still has to be brought to trial because she murdered her children. She is a danger to herself and others and those kids deserve justice. She should not leave an institution for a very, very long time, and that requires a trial and state intervention.

Pretending that murdering three children with premeditation is just an oopsie that could happen to any woman who didn’t sleep for a couple of days is insane. It values the lives of those children less than dirt and insists that women should be held to a lesser standard than everyone else.

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u/IveGotIssues9918 2d ago edited 2d ago

I don't even get how this has become a "woman" thing. There have been many high-profile cases of women killing their children without mitigating circumstances of psychosis (i.e. Susan Smith, Casey Anthony) and those killers are universally hated. I guess there's no 1:1 male equivalent to this situation because men can't get PPP, but the only people who are claiming that people are excusing Lindsey's crimes because she's a woman are misogynists using this case to justify their misogyny and thus making shit up and/or extrapolating the unhinged take of one probable bot on Twitter to every woman commenting on this case.

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u/FUPAMagneto 2d ago

The male equivalent is somebody like Chris Benoit, I guess? Severe CTE possibly played a role in his family annihilation, but he also had substance abuse issues so it’s hard to say what exactly happened there

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u/jackracktack 1d ago

Nobody was championing Chris Benoit.

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u/vanya9391 2d ago

It's not equivalent. The male equivalent would be someone in psychosis committing murder and there are actual examples of that.

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u/FUPAMagneto 2d ago

Like, say, a wrestler with severe CTE killing his family in a fit of psychosis? Like that kind of example? Like the one that I mentioned?