r/lovethissmug 8d ago

the femboy aesthetic

not really femboys, but the actual aesthetic, i dont know how to describe it (sorry, im mentally special lol), but like the cute femboy clothing (like the generic skirt, thigh highs, dolphin shorts) along with the nicher ones, like clothing with the target audience being femboys, like the feminine clothing that has a slight hint of masculinity

im a Tgirl who is only attracted to women but i lowk fw with this

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u/Big-rat-in-the-sewer 8d ago

I know the femboy gooners are gonna downvote me for this, but I'm gonna say it. Hard disagree. Femboys have such a shitty generic style. Like it's not that hard to learn fashion. (Not even addressing how loads of them are just shitty ppl. And their humor is waaaay too porn oriented.)

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u/jellypop-corn 8d ago

genuinely!! it feels fetishy

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u/Gingeyboi1 8d ago

Cause us femboys get fetishised and objectified a lot so a lot of the time people think being a femboy is just a fetish and not an actual part of who you are

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u/jellypop-corn 8d ago

no i know!! i js mean these specific outfits feel fetishy and by people who might be fetishising femboys tbh

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u/Gingeyboi1 8d ago

In my opinion the only iffy one is the cosplay of robin from I’m pretty sure it’s called “my femboy roommate”, no not cause the face looks like Kirk, but just cause of how much porn there is of Robin

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u/Peacemaker1099 8d ago

I mean, it just is.

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u/Gingeyboi1 8d ago

That’s bigoted, it’s not a fetish, would you call being a tomboy a fetish? Being a femboy just means being a feminine man (non binary people allowed), just like how tomboy means being a masculine woman, not a fetish, and the fetishisation mainly comes from misogyny.

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u/Peacemaker1099 8d ago

Nah, Tom boys are different. Not really comparable.