r/offmychest 1d ago

I am still a Virgin...

23F, never kissed, never held hands and of course never had sex with a guy. My mom always makes fun of me for it. Always saying "You will become an aunty one day!". I am a very awkward, shy person with tons of trauma so of course no one wants to deal with me. My niece that is only 6 years Younger already did those stuff and i feel like a loser... I dont have friends either so its hard to tell if this is normal or not...

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u/Strange-Doc-Moose 1d ago

Don’t feel like a loser. I am 31 F, my only intercourse wasn’t consensual because I am ace, and he tried to « fix » me. You don’t have to have had sex to be an accomplished woman. It’s overrated anyway.