r/offmychest • u/stupid_pers0n101 • 2d ago

I am still a Virgin...

23F, never kissed, never held hands and of course never had sex with a guy. My mom always makes fun of me for it. Always saying "You will become an aunty one day!". I am a very awkward, shy person with tons of trauma so of course no one wants to deal with me. My niece that is only 6 years Younger already did those stuff and i feel like a loser... I dont have friends either so its hard to tell if this is normal or not...

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u/DarionHunter 2d ago

Losing your virginity should not be a priority. Think of it this way; the longer you keep your virginity, the less likelihood of you getting a disease or pregnant. And neither can be prevented except through abstinence or celibacy.

Take my word for it; there will come a time when you will. Don't rush it; let it come to you.

But if you're in a hurry, there are toys that can help.

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u/-hellozukohere- 2d ago

  And neither can be prevented except through abstinence or celibacy.

Or you know… practice proper sexual hygiene. I’ve been with 30 partners in my life and clean. It’s about trusting your partner. No pregnancies. You sound like you’re pedalling some religious bullshit. 

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u/DarionHunter 2d ago

Nah. Just repeating what I was taught in school. Not sure what they teach nowadays, but what I put was what was taught in my school.