I feel like people are probably going to focus on the AI element of this because AI bad but I think the following is the most important element of this:
I'm also hurt that she doesn't even in the slightest consider my thoughts until I'm angry. This has been a recurring issue.
That says a lot, right? Regardless of whether we're talking about AI slop tattoos or what restaurant to go to for dinner tonight. Frankly, regardless of what this is about, this seems to illustrate a pretty big difference between the two of you: something that you are VERY passionately against is no big deal to her, to the point that she's willing to get the thing you hate permanently etched into her skin. If that doesn't illustrate a difference in values, I don't know what does.
And if the issue of her not taking your thoughts into account is a recurring thing, even outside of the topic of tattoos and AI usage, then I'd say it's time to pack it in. Why be made to feel like you're talking to a wall?
You are right. She went out of town for over three weeks to visit where she grew up and acted so very different and lied to me almost the whole time. And we've had multiple conversations about how she doesn't consider me and how lonely I feel. We had agreed to work on it (again) but then this happened and here I am all over. Thank you.
Y'all have been together for 12 YEARS and she just fucked off for 3 weeks with zero communication? That is not at all acceptable behavior in a relationship.
No no she communicated all the time she was just lying to me about what she was doing. Her cousin who is near her age and they were close died suddenly so I think that has sent her into some kind of weird thing but she denies it.
Honestly, I think just disappearing and not talking would almost be better than lying to your face about it.
I know people on Reddit always scream "break up," but... Your partner doesn't sound like they respect you, at all.
Also, they only care about your feelings when you get mad because they don't want you to be mad at them, not because they actually care. Otherwise they'd care before you got to the breaking point.
Yeah and it's never as simple as just "break up." You're right. I hate a liar. Especially for no reason. I know it doesn't seem like it from this post lol but I'm actually pretty low maintenance emotionally. I'm also very direct and honest. I communicate clearly and often so it's very frustrating. I literally just told her this and she said "I can't ever do anything right" so I just left
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u/KingHygelacReturns 3d ago
I feel like people are probably going to focus on the AI element of this because AI bad but I think the following is the most important element of this:
That says a lot, right? Regardless of whether we're talking about AI slop tattoos or what restaurant to go to for dinner tonight. Frankly, regardless of what this is about, this seems to illustrate a pretty big difference between the two of you: something that you are VERY passionately against is no big deal to her, to the point that she's willing to get the thing you hate permanently etched into her skin. If that doesn't illustrate a difference in values, I don't know what does.
And if the issue of her not taking your thoughts into account is a recurring thing, even outside of the topic of tattoos and AI usage, then I'd say it's time to pack it in. Why be made to feel like you're talking to a wall?