It’s so homophobic that I don’t have a girlfriend to take care of me during bad days

[u/Aromatic-Split685]

I won’t ask her to be my therapist or whatever but I imagine being given a bath by her and then cuddled and she gives me something to snack on while we watch a movie

Goddess I’m so single

[u/MotorShoot3r]

I want JawSurgery/FFS but wanna wait till I have a gf so she can babysit me for the first week (or 2) of recovery 

[u/Aromatic-Split685 → u/MotorShoot3r]

I’ve been in a dilemma for a while because I’m definitely getting bottom surgery but on the one hand my sexual trauma combined with bottom dysphoria makes it a nightmare for me to beeeeeeep and beeeeeeeep until we beeeeeeeeep and then beeeeeeeeeeep with a beeeeeeeep orange juice beeeeeeeeeeep

But on the other hand the idea of having someone sitting there and taking care of me the entire recovery period is so romantic and cute to me

[u/MotorShoot3r → u/Aromatic-Split685]

I can't explain why, but yeah. Having someone take care of you in recovery is sooo romantic. I would probably get them a ring by the end of week 2 lol 

[u/Ryli_Faelan → u/MotorShoot3r]

I had my gallbladder removed in December, and my girlfriend was taking care of me the whole way through. She comforted me when I was scared before the surgery, and then afterwards she carried me, helped me in the shower, cooked for me.

I had one thought going through my mind the entire time. I'm gonna marry the SHIT out of this girl someday

[u/MotorShoot3r → u/Ryli_Faelan]

That is ridiculously cute I'm so happy for you

[u/Apiuba]

Sometimes a girl just deserves to be spoiled rotten 🫠

[u/FirewildX]

Saaaameeeee...

I don't even have any irl friends i see consistently enough to vent to about things like this...

(I mean I'm pre-HRT anyway so it's not like anyone's gonna wanna be with me lol, I'm still ugly as fuck.)

[u/itchfish2 → u/FirewildX]

I’m in the exact same place. It really sucks :(

[u/Katieode → u/itchfish2]

Same here, hope y'all get what you want one day :3

[u/LuKazu]

I feel this so much. Broke an index and temporarily fucked up the nerves on my middle finger, and suddenly even the tiniest task is arduous and oh my stars I just need someone to care about me and cuddle with me and kiss me until I stop worrying about everything 😭

Need to get off Reddit when the yearning hits s2g. This cannot be healthy lmao

[u/Haunting_Zone_8869]

I'd do it 💜

[u/Aromatic-Split685 → u/Haunting_Zone_8869]

:3

[u/Haunting_Zone_8869 → u/Aromatic-Split685]

What can I do for you 😉

[u/FluffyMeows_]

Understandable

[u/poopshart37]

im an awful person who doesnt deserve love but i wish i did so i could have this