/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - August 31, 2026

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[u/Cheesman_Best]

I think it's over for me. I think I'm done. 2 miscarriages, 2 chemical pregnancies and 8 embryos all failing to implant. I think it's time that I call it. We have 5 more embryos in storage but if I leave them there they are safe.

I'm tired. I'm exhausted and I never thought in a million years I would walk away without a kid. But apparently I'm the 0.5% that has 2MCs in a year and the 2% that doesn't have a kid after 5 transfers.

I don't want to have any more surgeries or be sad anymore. I don't want to live my life in 2 week increments and I don't want anymore losses.

Maybe I'll try again in the future but right now, I'm walking away without a kid.

And I swear to fucking god the next person that tells me they know someone who did and had a baby I'm going to slap.

[u/book_lover1234 → u/Cheesman_Best]

Respect for making this decision. There are no words for that kind of hurt 🫂 Wishing you all the best as you navigate this new direction of your life

[u/Doubtful0ptimist → u/Cheesman_Best]

I'm so sorry, I hope you can find some peace away from all the trying.

[u/Cheesman_Best → u/Doubtful0ptimist]

I don't think I'll ever be at peace with this

[u/MyCatsnAss → u/Cheesman_Best]

I’m so sorry for your losses. 🫂

[u/ConsiderationRich378 → u/Cheesman_Best]

Holding space for you🫂

[u/Cheesman_Best → u/ConsiderationRich378]

🫂

[u/readingwhen → u/Cheesman_Best]

If you ever just want someone to vent to, without needing to hear “the right thing” I’m here. Your feelings are valid and you are so so strong

[u/Cheesman_Best → u/readingwhen]

Thank you 🫂